Black Men need to "Man-Up", mentor these lil nigglets out chea.

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Men leading by example is bullshyt but women leading is somehow simultaneously the fall of the black community and the key to bringing it back

:mindblown:

:snoop: Jesus...... what I wrote must've went over your head.

I can tell you just want to argue now :beli:
 

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whats if some kids arent that lucky?

If u had a chance to change a young mans life but giving 3 hours of your day, would you?

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"I ain't fukking with someone else's b*stard child. fukk I look like, a simp?" :stopitslime:

*b*stard child grows into a violent Chicago style teen and killer*

"This shyt is really sad. Kids killing kids. We've got to do better. :wow::sadcam:

But is it da brothas' fault dey don't wanna wife a chick wit a seed already n raise it as his own breh? :ld:
 

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I think the blame has to be equally set.

'Cause personally, I have a female family member who I'm sure has had two kids just for the check. And it pains me to say 'cause that's fam, but I'd put her in the category of the women sleeping with no good men. But at the same time, she has another kid with a good dude, but he doesn't want to be with her since she isn't doing shyt. And he gets hit with that burden of doing things for the other kids that aren't his. (like if you bring one kid something, but the others don't have anything, shyt would be ill)

She's wrong for picking the wrong dudes to have sex with, not protecting herself, for having kids outside of her means. And he's wrong for having a kid with her when her shyt isn't together.

I really don't think young black kids know ALL the shyt that goes into having a kid. And even outside of black America. 'Cause we see from MTV, they've made having kids a popular, mainstream and hip thing.


One question. Why didn't you put her in check? If I had a female family member that was like that, Me and almost every male in my family would check her on that behavior and she would never do it again.

Goes to show you that you should NEVER procreate with a chick that did not grow up without a father in her life.
 

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Many black women think in the box of the type of black man they want, and a "Braxton type", no matter how good of a man he is, isn't at the top of the desirability chart.

You're generalizing. Most women want exciting men. To a 21 year old hoodrat Filthy Dirty is going to be :noah: Perhaps even to a college girl. But as women mature it's less and less attractive. I'm 27. If I see a chick around my age that's still chasing thugs I write them off. I only know a few like that. Going after thugs and hood nikkas when you're pushing 30 is some durag in public, SouthPole P Miller Gear shyt. :flabbynsick:
 

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People seem to forget that the greatest cities in history were built by MEN who wanted to impress a woman. shyt one of the most popular buildings in the world was built so a man could impress a woman. Guess which one for bonus points.

Women give men purpose. You want to make a man shut down and die? Take away his purpose. Men are measured by what they do, and everything men do is ULTIMATELY to impress women. If women went extinct and men could asexually reproduce, men wouldn't shave anymore. Men would no longer build cities. Men would be happy living in a cardboard box.

I'm not absolving men. I'm logically breaking down WHY things are the way they are.
 

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You're generalizing. Most women want exciting men. To a 21 year old hoodrat Filthy Dirty is going to be :noah: Perhaps even to a college girl. But as women mature it's less and less attractive. I'm 27. If I see a chick around my age that's still chasing thugs I write them off. I only know a few like that. Going after thugs and hood nikkas when you're pushing 30 is some durag in public, SouthPole P Miller Gear shyt. :flabbynsick:

:mindblown: I thought we agreed we were generalizing
 

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I could. I might. Its not my responsibility though.

its everyone responsibility to take care of kids man. We sit here and talk bad bout the kids in chiraq but if men took the time out to help these kids, the murder rate wouldnt be so high. It kills me when i hear my people say this bout each other.

Yall always saying "Damn why black people dont have shyt while the other races are rich smart etc" They chip in there community and then help. I seen whites guys come in from fukking PA to NJ to take kids fishing, movies, sport games etc. While u have black dudes around the area on that fukk them lil nikkas they not mine. All black kids minded you and these are fathers with full time jobs and families helping and donating

Yall complain bout white saviors or what not, they wouldnt be needed if nikkas step the fukk up and handle this problem in our community
 

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But is it da brothas fault dey don't wanna wife a chick wit a seed already n raise it as his own breh? :ld:

This is the Coli breh, these nikkas is dating single moms in real life. If you're going to be around fukking and drinking all the OJ for awhile interact with the kid. Play a video game with him. Go to a basketball game. Something. Little things can change lives.

And if that ain't for you, you can go volunteer at a local boys and girls club. That's not raising another dudes seed.

But then you don't have to do any of that. But I don't want to hear those types lamenting about the state of the youth.
 

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More nuts and berries. "It takes a village to raise a child" ass rhetoric. This isn't ancient Africa. Welcome to America 2012. I'm about to buy stock.
 

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This is SOHH breh, these nikkas is dating single moms in real life. If you're going to be around fukking and drinking all the OJ for awhile interact with the kid. Play a video game with him. Go to a basketball game. Something. Little things can change lives.

And if that ain't for you, you can go volunteer at a local boys and girls club. That's not raising another dudes seed.

But then you don't have to do any of that. But I don't want to hear those types lamenting about the state of the youth.

:scusthov: negged
 
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