Men leading by example is bullshyt but women leading is somehow simultaneously the fall of the black community and the key to bringing it back
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Jesus...... what I wrote must've went over your head.I can tell you just want to argue now

Men leading by example is bullshyt but women leading is somehow simultaneously the fall of the black community and the key to bringing it back
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Jesus...... what I wrote must've went over your head.
whats if some kids arent that lucky?
If u had a chance to change a young mans life but giving 3 hours of your day, would you?
"I ain't fukking with someone else's b*stard child. fukk I look like, a simp?"
*b*stard child grows into a violent Chicago style teen and killer*
"This shyt is really sad. Kids killing kids. We've got to do better.![]()

i would love to marry and procreate with a black man but the longer i smut and the more shyt i do to myself the less likely it becomes![]()

I think the blame has to be equally set.
'Cause personally, I have a female family member who I'm sure has had two kids just for the check. And it pains me to say 'cause that's fam, but I'd put her in the category of the women sleeping with no good men. But at the same time, she has another kid with a good dude, but he doesn't want to be with her since she isn't doing shyt. And he gets hit with that burden of doing things for the other kids that aren't his. (like if you bring one kid something, but the others don't have anything, shyt would be ill)
She's wrong for picking the wrong dudes to have sex with, not protecting herself, for having kids outside of her means. And he's wrong for having a kid with her when her shyt isn't together.
I really don't think young black kids know ALL the shyt that goes into having a kid. And even outside of black America. 'Cause we see from MTV, they've made having kids a popular, mainstream and hip thing.
everything you said men do women do too. if men gave the michelle obama types attention over the kmichelles, there would be more michelle obama types.
oh and youre welcome for the twerk vid![]()

Many black women think in the box of the type of black man they want, and a "Braxton type", no matter how good of a man he is, isn't at the top of the desirability chart.
Perhaps even to a college girl. But as women mature it's less and less attractive. I'm 27. If I see a chick around my age that's still chasing thugs I write them off. I only know a few like that. Going after thugs and hood nikkas when you're pushing 30 is some durag in public, SouthPole P Miller Gear shyt. 
You're generalizing. Most women want exciting men. To a 21 year old hoodrat Filthy Dirty is going to bePerhaps even to a college girl. But as women mature it's less and less attractive. I'm 27. If I see a chick around my age that's still chasing thugs I write them off. I only know a few like that. Going after thugs and hood nikkas when you're pushing 30 is some durag in public, SouthPole P Miller Gear shyt.
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I thought we agreed we were generalizingI could. I might. Its not my responsibility though.
But is it da brothas fault dey don't wanna wife a chick wit a seed already n raise it as his own breh?![]()
This is SOHH breh, these nikkas is dating single moms in real life. If you're going to be around fukking and drinking all the OJ for awhile interact with the kid. Play a video game with him. Go to a basketball game. Something. Little things can change lives.
And if that ain't for you, you can go volunteer at a local boys and girls club. That's not raising another dudes seed.
But then you don't have to do any of that. But I don't want to hear those types lamenting about the state of the youth.
neggedI thought we agreed we were generalizing
