Black Men need to "Man-Up", mentor these lil nigglets out chea.

[Mr Hate Coffee]

"I ain't fukking with someone else's b*stard child. fukk I look like, a simp?"

*b*stard child grows into a violent Chicago style teen and killer*

"This shyt is really sad. Kids killing kids. We've got to do better.

Liggins.

Nobody should be held responsible for a kid's future other than the two people that made the child. Anything above that is a bonus.


btw, a lot of these hood nikkas you see on tv actually have fathers. They just are bad role models. But that's another topic for another day.

 

[Metta World Movement]

This is SOHH breh

 

[filial_piety]

Men leading by example is bullshyt but women leading is somehow simultaneously the fall of the black community and the key to bringing it back

Both genders are responsible, but I still think any real change will be based on just who black women allow to enter and exit their wombs. Until they become the Praetorian Guards over their own coochies, it will never change.

Furthermore, this message of men needing to "step up" has been repeated for over 30 years now. Shyt, I remember the same message back in the early 90s (which of course led to the MM March in 95') and nothing has really changed. If anything, things have gotten worse. That being said, one would think that the message would have evolved into a solution that may work, like whom women allow to enter and exit their bodies, but unfortunately on a larger scale, political correctness won't go there.

 

[The ADD]

I can only imagine the content in here.

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

Liggins.

Nobody should be held responsible for a kid's future other than the two people that made the child. Anything above that is a bonus.

You mean like a mother and father?

All this time I thought black women had spontaneous reproduction.

You're right though, if it was a perfect world. But it isn't. People shouldn't be looked down upon for donating a small amount of time to a youth.

 

[jfkennedy]

One question. Why didn't you put her in check? If I had a female family member that was like that, Me and almost every male in my family would check her on that behavior and she would never do it again.

Goes to show you that you should NEVER procreate with a chick that did not grow up without a father in her life.

She's a grown woman 5 years my senior. W/o going too in depth on my personal shyt, her own mom couldn't control her, and her father was a truck driver, so he was gone most of the time.

And there's pretty much no men in my family. Couple uncles, but one was in and out of trouble with the law, and the other is crazy, lol. I'm lucky 'cause my pops was always there. And he treated my sister like one of his own, even though she wasn't.

But yah, my cousin is the epitome of the woman I'd never talk to. So I see it firsthand, and it sucks 'cause it's getting passed down to her kids. I spend too much time working and being in school to mentor them, and that's my own fam. shyt is really up to the parents. Not other people. 'Cause a few hours a week won't mean more than all the time they spend with the parent reverting back to bad habits.

 

[BruhMayne]

"I ain't fukking with someone else's b*stard child. fukk I look like, a simp?"

*b*stard child grows into a violent Chicago style teen and killer*

"This shyt is really sad. Kids killing kids. We've got to do better.

Sad fact of the matter is that even if all of the dudes today were down to mentor, most of em were raised mainly by women themselves. So as far as teaching manhood goes, would it be the blind leading the blind?

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

Both genders are responsible, but I still think any real change will be based on just who black women allow to enter and exit their wombs. Until they become the Praetorian Guards over their own coochies, it will never change.

Furthermore, this message of men needing to "step up" has been repeated for over 30 years now. Shyt, I remember the same message back in the early 90s and nothing has really changed. If anything, things have gotten worse. That being said, one would think that the message would have evolved into whom women allow to enter and exit their bodies, but unfortunately, political correctness won't go there.

So because men won't be the leaders they are supposed to be the women get the blame and have to pick up the slack?

Then people turn around and talk about how women aren't good leaders and mothers.

 

[AllHolosEve]

I agree with the premise of this thread... I encourage all of y'all to be better! Trust me, SOME lil kid is looking up to u, whether you know or want to believe it or not...so do better AND be better! Peace and love yall

f_ck it, got four kids @ two was in the program, especially my daughter cause we mostly males.... she had a rich old white lady that was close to us!!!! sh!t went so good i signed up for me & my oldest to spend time wit a young kid wit family issues that was good at school but had no friends... sh!t got burned up when my bm sent me to jail....... some n!ggas was on my son football team.... blame the parents for they bullsh!t all you want but some of these kids just need a "real" positive black man to look up to.... i kept my kids in a youth group & every parent in that b!tch let them come kick it & do homework wit my kids cause i always preach guidance & education.... i cant believe some of you n!ggas... "the next n!gga seed" do you want blacks to get better or not.... tell that lil dude what tyrone & shaniqua b!tch @$$e$ didnt... insecure @$$ n!ggas, i swear.... f_ck the kids right???

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

Both genders are responsible, but I still think any real change will be based on who black women allow to enter and exit their wombs.

As far as this goes... we also need to be REALISTIC.

Women NEED affection and like sex just as much as we do. The pool of black men is already low, so no matter what, black women are gonna let subpar dudes fukk. Whether you understand it or not, confidence is attractive to women. A confident nikka with no job is knocking off women no probs. Yes, even the college educated ones.

On the other hand, men will fukk just about anybody. Class status has never mattered much in the chase of tail. Arnold Schwarzenegger fukked a maid raw for crying out loud. I'm a good dude and I've smashed some hoodrats. Why? Cuz it felt good. Did i strap up? Hell yes. Would my life be ruined if they got pregnant? Hell yes. I barely escaped so I'm not gonna knock other cats like i'm all high and mighty.

Expecting sexual responsibility from either side is a plan to fail.

 

[OG_StankBrefs]

This is SOHH breh, these nikkas is dating single moms in real life. If you're going to be around fukking and drinking all the OJ for awhile interact with the kid. Play a video game with him. Go to a basketball game. Something. Little things can change lives.

And if that ain't for you, you can go volunteer at a local boys and girls club. That's not raising another dudes seed.

But then you don't have to do any of that. But I don't want to hear those types lamenting about the state of the youth.

I understand where you're comin from. Trust.

lol but at da same time cmon breh. A good portion of da cats out here fukkin wit dese single moms is strictly dere for either da p*ssy or whatever else material shyt is available for their pleasure to consume. nikkas aint trynna be dat seed's new daddy or "positive male role model". You and I both know dis.

I'm in no way defendin da vulture like nature of dese types of nikkas But I think da scale of blame is a bit lop sided in regards to dat group. Some of dat shyt needs to be redistributed to dese brauds out here lettin bum nikkas raw dog em just because da "pipe game" was right. Dem chicks can't just ease thru da crowd without gettin lumped up too.

 

[theGoldmangod]

Jesus...... what I wrote must've went over your head.

I can tell you just want to argue now

I'm not arguing with you or any of the rest of these weak nikkas. I'm just pointing out the stupidity at this point. You have shyt to say about it bc you know I'm telling the truth your absentee father never cared to

 

[YBE]

shyt is fukking hilarious seeing broads with "We're Pregnant" statuses, then 10 months later.............."Now Single" statuses

You shouldn't laugh at that but, damn. You couldn't last one month nikka. One month

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

Sad fact of the matter is that even if all of the dudes today were down to mentor, most of em were raised mainly by women themselves. So as far as teaching manhood goes, would it be the blind leading the blind?

So being raised by a single mother = automatic failure?


is putting in work tonight.

 

[jfkennedy]

This is the Coli breh, these nikkas is dating single moms in real life. If you're going to be around fukking and drinking all the OJ for awhile interact with the kid. Play a video game with him. Go to a basketball game. Something. Little things can change lives.

And if that ain't for you, you can go volunteer at a local boys and girls club. That's not raising another dudes seed.

But then you don't have to do any of that. But I don't want to hear those types lamenting about the state of the youth.

So you REALLY believe that if you don't volunteer, you can't say anything about the state of the youth? One of those "if you're not the solution you're the problem" types?

So a kid shoots up his block it's my fault for not spending 10 hours a week at the local boys club? Let's just absolve the parental units of all responsibility, no, it's DEFINITELY my fault.