It's both there ARE brothers out there who do like non black women because they find them more attractive than Black women. Just look at the way some dudes gas up women from Horn Of Africa (Ethiopia, Eritrea etc etc) those women have more Caucasoid facial features and it isn't any surprise that a lot of black men like them. Think about it like when's the last time you heard nikkas big up our Aboriginal sisters from Australia?
Now on the flipside there are plenty of black men who DO find Black women attractive enough who are turned off by some of the traits that you can find in a lot of sistas (particularly the hood ones) Loud, Ratchet. Emotional Argumentative etc etc I do have to admit I find the "Oreo" type black women more pleasant and less annoying to be around.
the OP is true because black men who arent super worried about clean sneakers and a sharp lining are generally thinking about things outside of urban culture.
thats not his problem...thats an issue with the lack of depth and variety amongst black people.
In order to fit in you have to be from this one archetype.
im not someone that thinks because a person has "black" facial features they should be deemed as beautiful because they are black.
Im not forcing myself to say Serena Williams is pretty because she goes against the norm.
we are attracted to what were attracted to for a number of reasons.
the reasons are meaningless to me because beauty is only one piece of the puzzle
The real issue is a lot of black people have low self esteem and feel the need to bring others down in order to feel better about themselves.
thats not my problem.
In general, im not attracted to women who come from poor areas and never level up...
...has nothing to do with race.
its social norms, behaviors, how they dress, etc...
