“Black Men who don’t date black women have a Certain look” - Viral Tweet

[Jazzy B.]

I no longer fault PAWG set. Between bullshyt like this and constantly being called weak links whilst simultaneously being chastised for not “protecting black women”, I completely understand why you date out.

I personally can’t do it, because despite the trash out there, I can only see myself with a black woman but no Breh should have to fight over a paucity of decent black women.

I can only imagine how the younger brehs are feeling being put into a narrow box of archetypes of what a black man should be whilst being called “bullet bags.” Seriously, fukk these hos. Don’t feel guilty for dating out. The bullshyt we have to deal with is ridiculous.

There’s no loyalty. There’s no “black community.” Be happy Brehs. You deserve it.

Naw Breh this aint it

 

[Caca-faat]

No, that's just a dusty nikka.

Yes; alot of them are dusty. You know the know the one's that are "my black friend Troy"

 

[Wildhundreds]

I really don't see what's the big deal about being attracted by other races. Seems like you clowns still out here looking for acceptance from non black people.

Hell, even I get hit on non black women but I'm too race loyal to even want to date out.

Basically. Or they continually keep running into busted black women.

 

[Thanos]

nikkas mad as fukk in here and we all know what they talking about.
Basically nikkas like this

nikka said Phawg

 

[Wildhundreds]

You said you see men being clowned for simping on here. That’s exactly what I said


Whole point being that folks get clowned on here everyday for their dating choices but when it comes to dating white women all of a sudden y’all up in arms

They a bunch of followers who still need validation for their choices like kids. This gender war shyt so bytch made it makes my skin crawl.

 

[jilla82]

Stay out the projects.

this is a whole different subject...
...but its beyond the hood.

unfortunately, black culture is synonymous with poor urban culture.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

Had a black chick I work with assume I didn’t mess with black women, mainly because I wasn’t giving her the desired attention she wanted…

I was like “my ex is black “







I just don’t have a preference of ratchedness and that goes for any race of women I date… even funnier is because I’ve never even been in a relationship with a white woman either.

I’ve told this story on here before but at one of my jobs there was this sexy breh and I knew he dated ww, I could just tell. But I wanted him so shyt, I dgaf. And I remember telling the girls I work with (who were both black) that I wanted him and they both said he seem like the type to date ww so there’s no point in liking him lol. So I was like, watch me pull him anyway. And I did. And we were all correct, he was a suburban breh who only dated ww but shyt he dated me. On top of that I already knew he was attracted to me because I peeped him staring at me all the time. He wasn’t the first or last breh I dated that was a member of pawgset, I just dgaf because I knew I could pull them regardless of who they dated before me and each time I was right because they were attracted. I think a lot of brehettes get intimidated by it for sure, insecure. It is what it is.

But these topics are why I am glad I don’t have a daughter, a lot of bw do struggle with self esteem issues and feeling unwanted by Brehs. It’s unfortunate. I’m interested in how Brehs with daughters address this topic especially if they’re raising their daughters in these suburban environment where it’s a bit inevitable that a good amount of young Brehs are dating white girls.

 

[hood b. goode]

So I wonder what that look is thats "not" a good look? Because here's another chick saying practically the opposite of what yall and ol girl in the OP are saying

The OG tiktok video being discussed here (the one steph is cold is reacting to) was one of the more pathetic things ive seen on social media in the last year or two

If a man made a video about his insecurities regarding black women hed get flamed. But this mentally ill chick looked at a dude on campus, came up with a narrative in her head and posted about it. Got lots of support and agreement

Im sorry but female dating struggles will never have my sympathy. Men have it worse 9 out of 10 times.

On the other hand , when it comes to things like women's struggles with getting jobs, or being sexually harassed, etc, I am sympathetic.

 

[Jazzy B.]

Y'all really posting this Black Man hating feminist content

 

[jilla82]

I was already thinking about going back to a barbershop...now this thread got me setting an appointment

a breh been doing the 1.5 all over since covid...
...and I love me some old New Balance 990s

funny thing is...I attract hood black women and suburban types because the hood ones think im not interested off rip.
Its been my experience they look at dealing with me like dealing with a white boy...
...so I can get away with more fukery.

 

[MisanXthropic]

the OP is true because black men who arent super worried about clean sneakers and a sharp lining are generally thinking about things outside of urban culture.
thats not his problem...thats an issue with the lack of depth and variety amongst black people.
In order to fit in you have to be from this one archetype.

im not someone that thinks because a person has "black" facial features they should be deemed as beautiful because they are black.
Im not forcing myself to say Serena Williams is pretty because she goes against the norm.

I agree even though I think Serena Williams is more attractive then she's given credit for.

The real issue is a lot of black people have low self esteem and feel the need to bring others down in order to feel better about themselves.

thats not my problem.

Precisely this is exactly where a lot of it stems from. That's why black people (both brothas and sistas) will scream at the top of their lungs in anger if someone doesn't find us attractive. At the end of the day you can't control someone's genitals they either see you and they get aroused or they don't it's really that simple.

In general, im not attracted to women who come from poor areas and never level up...
...has nothing to do with race.
its social norms, behaviors, how they dress, etc...

I agree with what you're saying and this is definitely the case for myself but there are definitely SOME brothas who find Caucasian women more attractive. Again don't you find it interesting how so many brothas are obsessed with women from the Horn Of Africa (Ethiopia in particular) I use this Ethiopians in particular because while these women are both African and "Black" they clearly have more Caucasoid leaning facial features and yet these women tend to be put on a pedestal compared to other Sub-Saharan women.

 

[Fresh]

I think by "look" they're talking about a certain style...

it used to be that way a while back, where preppy guys had that look...but now it seems like bm from all walks date/marry white women...ive seen everything from the low lifes, to athletess, to ivy league bros with white chicks

this is the most accurate post in this thread



btw, do brehs on TheColi that PAWG all look the same... I highly doubt it.

 

[Wildhundreds]

this is a whole different subject...
...but its beyond the hood.

unfortunately, black culture is synonymous with poor urban culture.

In the media, sure. I know where all the well to do blacks hang out at in my city. Gotta find them and mingle in those spaces.

 

[Henny and_ HotWings]

Let's keep it real

Some of the biggest pawgers are

Hood/street dudes

U look like u date white girls is outdated in 2022

There not a certain look to dating ww or bw


Black men from all walks of life date all women

This outdated bs

thank you… finally someone who ventures out of their home and has been around. You are exactly right

 

[Henri Christophe]

there was this sexy breh and I knew he dated ww, I could just tell. But I wanted him so shyt, I dgaf.

thank you for being honest.

Repped +

simp nikkas always think men & women are the same, and held to the same standard.

dudes on here scared to have standards and requirements for black women - just because they smashed other races of women in the past.

I always say - women dont care about race, or the politics that surround it.