Black people need more patriarchy not less

[Scaaar]

We out here talking about patriarchy when we have men in their 40's and 50's who were never married talking complaining about marriage and wanting to be lifelong bachelors with the the dreams of picking off emotionally damaged 20 something women to essentially take care of you in your autumn and winter years.

Not only that they want the women in their 20s not to build a family or relationship with. They just want to smash them and move on to the next creating broken homes that they don't want to be legally or morally responsible for. Perpetuating the cycle that they spend every second on here whining about. But they wanna be respected as leaders...like I said they just want a turn at the wheel so they can run it further into the ground...they want the freedom to be a scumbag without having to face the consequences of your decisions. Just like whyte men

 

[Stuntone]

Half of Black people have been raised under a matriarchal roof with no male authority. Not we have a largest sector of Blacks who hate any male authority and is accustom to female rule. They hate to see a woman challenged or questioned by a man.


It's over... Save yourself...

 

[Belize King]

Man doesn’t equal leader. As simple as that.

Only leaders should be able to procreate.

Guard your wombs women.

Unfortunately sex equals babies. Imagine letting a fool raid your womb without protection? Fools will always try, it’s up to women to guard themselves.

 

[Westbama Heartthrob]

Correction ain’t shyt fathers are overrated, if you have someone guiding you properly from day 1 and your not mentally fukked you will most likely than not turn out all right. If you have a useless fukk boi acting as your mentor chances are you will also be a useless fukk boi.

Then shouldn't this be true regardless if you raised by a single parent or pair?

 

[Sleepy Floyd]

Over 60% of black households in America are headed by women. It’s been well known that boys from fatherless homes are more likely to resort to crime and have LOTS of other issues, allow me to break down the depth of the problem:

• 70% of youths in state-operated institutions come from fatherless homes – 9 times the average. (U.S. Dept. of Justice, Sept. 1988)
  
  
• 63% of youth suicides are from fatherless homes (U.S. Dept. Of Health/Census) – 5 times the average.
  
  
• 90% of all homeless and runaway children are from fatherless homes – 32 times the average.
  
  
• 85% of all children who show behavior disorders come from fatherless homes – 20 times the average. (Center for Disease Control)
  
  
• 80% of rapists with anger problems come from fatherless homes –14 times the average. (Justice & Behavior, Vol. 14, p. 403-26)
  
  
• 71% of all high school dropouts come from fatherless homes – 9 times the average. (National Principals Association Report)
  
  
• Father Factor in Education – Fatherless children are twice as likely to drop out of school

The way I see it, given the dismal state of black fathers, the black community doesn’t have enough patriarchy.

We are literally being run by women and it’s not working.

GMB I hope your listening ouchea

It's more on the women than the men honestly.

Women will get knocked up by some random dude then raise the kid herself.

Women will get pregnant and then break up with the father, but the father actually wants to be in the kids life and she keeps him away.

Women will let some AIN'T shyt ass dude hit raw, knowing he ain't shyt, then get pregnant and the dude disappears.

Women will cheat on their man who is a good man, and get pregnant by the side dude. Main dude leaves and side dude suddenly nowhere to be found.

 

[MoshpitMazi]

Man I was raised by my dad and he was a evil evil person. My mom had to divorce him

 

[Marlow Stanfield]

Right! These are the same dudes that always say they're not paying for a first date and they're not doing anything for a woman. But at the same time they want to be respected and seen as the leader of a household. They want all the praise, daps, and credit but none of the actual burdens or responsibilities of leadership. They're unserious men no wonder they're all being looked over.

Please. Coli Brehs(tm) can't lead themselves into a classroom, past the graveyard shift, or out of porn addiction, but they want to lead a household and gain the responsibility of doing so? the shyt is comedy.

 

[Voice of Reason]

I agree

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

All I’m saying is with the mentality/think process that you showed in your post before is problematic

Your highkey the problem too, you sound crazy as hell, just like some of these other goofies on this site with that rhetoric you spewing

I’m just putting you on game it’s never too late to reevaluate things, come to better conclusions, improve your critical thinking skills

Not only will it be better for the community but you will improve as an individual

You just lack the ability to have intellectual conversations that don't make you feel good. I get it. I hear you. But you are the last person that I would take any sort of life advice from. I doubt that you could even vocalize the connection between sexism and racism.

 

[BlackJesus]

Please. Coli Brehs(tm) can't lead themselves into a classroom, past the graveyard shift, or out of porn addiction, but they want to lead a household and gain the responsibility of doing so? the shyt is comedy.

Funny, and probably true, but come December I’ll have 2 degrees. Masters starts next year.

 

[Adeptus Astartes]

Another rehash of this topic?

Should the black community adopt arranged marriages (patriarchy)?

Let’s be honest the reason so many cultures had arranged marriages was not for the benefit of a man. Because those cultures understood women don’t know how to pick good men. They don’t know how to scout or draft a good talent. This is also the reason why it’s a cultural norm for the father to...

www.thecoli.com

 

[Marlow Stanfield]

Funny, and probably true, but come December I’ll have 2 degrees. Masters starts next year.

Okay, cool. So you're not included in the group I'm referring to.

 

[Hopeofmypeople]

Then shouldn't this be true regardless if you raised by a single parent or pair?

I was referring to a firm male presence in the household. Not every single mother fails but you can’t say you don’t see theirs a trend of crash outs in single mother house holds.