Noting wrong with being you. If you like doing these things and it makes you happy then do you. But I understand where you coming trill. My parents are the same as yours. My island/african friends don't like when I indulge in American activities that I find interesting. They sometimes call mI "Yankee".
If you want to date out then go ahead. Don't listen to coli folks. If you find white boys attractive then blessings to you. I would never date out because I love black women.
You're happiness matters.