I'd say my complexion is more or less Alonzo Mourning...I'm lighter in the winter though
That's a VERY hard question, and it's precisely why I'm sometimes confused...Moms was (she's deceased) white, so you know Moms have a big influence on how you grow up, I went to a French school and I was brought up in French, so that's that "white" influence...but I lived in Central African Republic from ages 8 to 16, and was mostly in "black" environments my first three-four years in Europe...plus you got to add that my first memories are form the US (I lived in New Rochelle from ages 3-8) and that I've been following hip-hop/basketball/(african-)american culture ever since, so that's yet another layer to add...having lived in Europe for the past 15 years, I'm def more "white" than when I got here, that's for sure.
But as the saying goes, I'm too white for black people and too black for white people.
But yeah a lot of mixed people tend to "choose" (I doubt that "choice" is ever fully conscious and/or wanted) one "side" or another, which is unfortunate. In my experience a lot "choose" the white side because most mixed guys I know have a white mom and that influence is stronger than the pops, plus around me it's almost always Moms coming from a European country so it even makes "sense" to lean more on that side, education and opportunities-wise. But those who do manage to strike a balance and get both of both worlds, I can only