i hate when i see this "single mothers need to take accountability" bullshyt on here
how much more responsibility can you take than actually birthing and raising that child that you helped create?
[obviously im not referring to aint shyt egg donors who dont feed clothe or house supervise their child for the purposes of this post]
how much more accountability can you take than raising your child?
since no ammount of bad talking or shaming is going to undue the child thats here now
-you should have chose better- you knew that dude wasnt shyt- you should have known that dude wasnt shyt- etc etc
even when the woman acknowledges unsafe sex practices or trusting a man that she shouldnt have
or flat out stating that the pregnancy occured under less than ideal circumstances
its still not enough for some of yall.
what other than raising your child does this "accountability" look like?
reading through alot of these threads its clear that some posters idea of "accountability" is sack cloth and ashes
or scarlet a or something. or never being worthy of love or a stable relationship.
thats shaming whether yall think thats a thotty internet term or not.
it is what it is.
what alot of folks on here want is
punishment and suffering for single mothers.
how much more responsibility can you take than actually birthing and raising that child that you helped create?
[obviously im not referring to aint shyt egg donors who dont feed clothe or house supervise their child for the purposes of this post]
how much more accountability can you take than raising your child?
since no ammount of bad talking or shaming is going to undue the child thats here now
-you should have chose better- you knew that dude wasnt shyt- you should have known that dude wasnt shyt- etc etc
even when the woman acknowledges unsafe sex practices or trusting a man that she shouldnt have
or flat out stating that the pregnancy occured under less than ideal circumstances
its still not enough for some of yall.
what other than raising your child does this "accountability" look like?
reading through alot of these threads its clear that some posters idea of "accountability" is sack cloth and ashes
or scarlet a or something. or never being worthy of love or a stable relationship.
thats shaming whether yall think thats a thotty internet term or not.
it is what it is.
what alot of folks on here want is
punishment and suffering for single mothers.
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