Black Twitter is debating whether it’s better to have kids young(teenager) or “old”

[Yinny]

I agree with @Matt504 at least 30, I’m 35 and about to have my first. My family pretty much all had their first by 21 which I consider way too early.

 

[King_Kamala61]

Why

You are more likely financially stable and emotionally mature and have a career. Dr. Welsing was very vocal about waiting until black men were 35 to have a child and she recommend no more than 2.

 

[old pig]

black “X”

 

[Spliff]

OP Facebook feed is alway 100% bird babble. Smh

 

[KnickstapeCity]

black “X”

 

[The Fade]

Difference between having and actually raising/conditioning kids

 

[concise]

They don't expect to live long and their decisions reflect that so it is what it is.

 

[Kings County]

i can seen an argument for both although i feel like u should have kids when u have a stable foundation and income
some people have loving families that will take care of u while u have a young kid and u can still pursue education/dreams freely
its a case by case basis tbh

im right around 30's corner and i kinda wish i had kids earlier,
hopefully im able to play catch with my grandkids

 

[Paper Boi]

black “X”

but actually black “meta”

 

[ItsPeople]

women young, men old.

 

[Voice of Reason]

Most of the kids in the community are failing academically and this is what these idiots want to debate.

 

[Xcenai]

You not blacc

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

our biology prefers if we reproduce younger. you get the best offspring. less health issues that come with older parents having kids that are passed on to kids.

but our society has pushed parenthood into oblivion. there's no right age when living is unaffordable

 

[Mowgli]

Peak genetics at 24 25.

It's all downhill from there

 

[Lonj]

Lowkey I wish I had had kids in my early to mid twenties. By now they would have been damn near grown and I would still have some youth left.

I think the issue isn't people having kids young (though I do think teens is pushing it) so much as people just take too long to mature these days. There is a lot of needless shyt people think they need to go through in order to feel like a fully realized adult but a lot of it is unnecessary shyt they could avoid if they just listen to the elders.