Black Women are saying they don’t want kids anymore because it’s just a tool for black men to sit them down

[Gloxina]

Pretty girl. Sounds like low caliber dudes.


She ain’t wrong! But the type of guys you’re dating does make a difference.
If he ain’t serious about family building and doesn’t come from a…nice background, he might not care about creating single mothers or having an out of wedlock kid…

Some dudes will def try it so anyone saying she’s like needs to chill.

But better quality dudes want more than a chance to knock up a pretty face out of wedlock.

 

[stepbackj34spud]

I stopped listening when she said “for my looks”. She dululu.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

If thats what makes them happy and they aren't hurting anybody I don't see the problem. Kids are a huge responsibility and expensive

 

[Biscayne]

People use sex and children as weapons against each every day; both men and women. But ya'll will play dumb...oh until the child support threads pop up.

You’re not wrong. But she presents it as gender neutral.

NBA SuperStar Ant Edwards says he does want a baby. His BM doesn’t care. The baby is the tool.

How can a man get a woman pregnant if that woman doesn’t want to get pregnant!?!?

Before she even has wed she can be on birth control

Even if she not on birth control… make him wear a condom

Even if she get nutted in on accident…day after pill

Even if she gets pregnant,…abortion

This whole argument is bullshyt

The only(legal) way a man can trap a woman with a baby is through mouthpiece. Prior to Roe V Wade being overturned of course. Just bio mechanically women held the last line of defense when it comes to not having a child. Of course, outside of…(trigger warning)..grape.

These wealthy athletes paying women to delete the fetus and them not doing it, is proof that the power ultimately…in the end…lies with the woman.

 

[LadyJ2]

BW need to just stop. The men aren’t the only problem. No way a man can torch your life without you being a dumb ass bytch.

The same goes for men a woman can’t ruin your life if you’re strong in mind and hold boundaries.

People want to put their failures on someone they assumed cared more about them than they did about themselves.

No one should care about you more than you care about yourself not even your parents. Get a grip.

 

[Vilify]

Sounds like she has no concept of family. I dont hear anything about marriage or nuclear family just the usual BS. Let her stay single and childless you did us a favor queen.

 

[10bandz]

How can a man get a woman pregnant if that woman doesn’t want to get pregnant!?!?

Before she even has wed she can be on birth control

Even if she not on birth control… make him wear a condom

Even if she get nutted in on accident…day after pill

Even if she gets pregnant,…abortion

This whole argument is bullshyt

shyt is embarrassing. Bird babble backed up by nikkas

 

[Canon]

How can a man get a woman pregnant if that woman doesn’t want to get pregnant!?!?

Before she even has wed she can be on birth control

Even if she not on birth control… make him wear a condom

Even if she get nutted in on accident…day after pill

Even if she gets pregnant,…abortion

This whole argument is bullshyt

You know we don’t give women any accountability


Let women choose . If they wanna die alone so be it.

 

[Phitz]

This no kid logic is weird,


ya'll trying to go extinct by 2050 with crumbling infrastructure and services happening along the way huh

and here I thought that children of men movie was futuristic fiction... modern man is truly retarded

 

[Tribal Outkast]

It’s always funny when people post videos like this then turn the comments off. You need to stand on that shyt and take all the reactions good and bad. She sounds crazy btw

 

[How Sway?]

This may apply to some guys, but when it comes to using a baby to have the other partner "settle down" , it's usually the other way around. Like 9/10 times.

 

[Barlow]

far more black women have children than black men so if anything they’re trying to get the same nikkas to settle down with them

 

[Brolic]

All I heard her talk about is baby daddies. No mention of marriage or a husband.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Dudes out here getting women pregnant just so they can keep talking to her.

One of my sister's ex-husbands literally lived his life off of keeping himself attached to and leaching off of women. They had 3 kids. Now he leeches off the kids.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

So there’s truth in men trapping women and women trapping men. The problem with these videos is they always take it to the upmost extreme.

Not every single man on this earth wants a baby to sit you down lol. After dating for a few years you’ll know or not. It’s always 1 or 100 with these IG videos.

If you don’t want kids that’s cool, but not wanting kids for the sole reason of thinking the man is insecure is really self trauma

Ya'll literally have no issue when men generalize women