Black Women obsessing over Colorism has got to stop....

[Killer Instinct]

yet in
any other context, especially in the home -- black male leadership must be questioned and demonized

Down with the patriarchy.

 

[AntiVenom]

The thing is black men don't uplift their women.They uplift any other women BUT their women.What other race of men does this?........I'll wait.


When you try to get this point across to the men on this forum they deny it in anyway possible.Everything is "in my head."When I argue colorism is important they tell me I'm wrong.There really is no getting through.

black men and women are equals. you arent children. why do we need to uplift you? you shouldnt be so weak that you need someone else to build your self esteem.

dear, it is jealousy. you want BM to be able to "uplift" black women like other races of empowered men do for their women.

and address my other post or stand down with all your bullshyt retorts.

yeah pretty much. the jealously angle comes into play because shes bringing up other races in her post.

Neither do many black women stand behind black men. Some do though. I will deal with them.

which is exactly why i cant take comments like her's seriously.

I wouldn't agree that black women experience colorism predominantly. All of that is besides tw point anyway. Black wine like you both need to stop trying to paint yourselves as bigger victims than black men all the time. shyt is weak and pathetic.

that is their objective and it needs to be taken into account each time they start up with their bullshyt. im glad black men are waking up to this.

 

[AntiVenom]

- i asked you a question, where do you YOU hear all this dark skinned black woman slander. i've never heard it offline and only from less than a handful of people online. (and by less than a handful, i mean just tommy sotomayor) so tell me where you hear all this hatred?

- "bashing dark skinned women" and praising non-black women are not the same. but that boils down to a preference you don't care about, so why do those select songs matter? your best example of black men being colorist are rappers cant just be wayne & yg. you have to have a long list to make such a generalization, right?

- the beauty contest has been going for over a century and it wasn't started by black men. as another poster pointed out, women pit themselves against other women to be competitive in the dating market.

- i've never heard black woman bashing offline or on national tv, the best example you've got is a few youtubers like sotomayor. meanwhile, black women are on worldwide news outlets like cnn and huffington post telling the world black men aint shyt -- and that's been going on a lot longer than 4-5 yrs.

black men are also holding guns to bw's heads forcing to get weaves and colored contacts too. didnt you hear?

Likewise with black women just one is justified in your eyes and the other is demonize. How convenient for these men to leave the waste behind like a sucker aren't men suppose to lead and build. These are type of dudes I don't respect, leave the work for someone else and then want to reap benefits of what someone actually work to build.

its hilarious how these women switch shyt up to "arent men supposed to lead and build" when it comes to the hard work and responsibilities. any other time its equality and independence. fukk out of here with your double speak,slut.

black men and women are equals. we arent 'supposed' to do anything that you arent supposed to do.

i don't think either are justified, but the difference is no one is putting the burden and responsibility of fixing the community on the women. y'all want to blame men in their teens, 20s and 30s for problems that have existed in our grandfathers time. pretending we're the reason the race is in its current state just causes a strong level of disdain.

and when it comes to solving the issues blacks collectively face, suddenly black women are submissive creatures, waiting on black men to raise up and lead. yet in
any other context, especially in the home -- black male leadership must be questioned and demonized

BAM!

 

[AntiVenom]

Bunch of whining and woe is me rhetoric. @mamba I don't even know why you have an expectation of black female support when you invest more energy in each thread talking about how low black women rank at every turn. Sorry y'all bunch of bs with nuggets of gold spread throughout. Oh and darskinned females need not apply right? SMH

The same one in this thread bytching about black men not understanding or reciprocating black women is in another thread saying shyt like this.

she tells us what shes all about, gentlemen. youd be stupid to take any of these bedwenches seriously.