Well if that’s the case, why would some brehs be complaining about women pursuing education/careers if everyone understands it’s because of the country/society we are in?Is it the black men they don't trust or the country/society itself? If it was the black men in the community they did not trust, they'd push them to marry out or even lez out, yet they don't do that.
In any case, I find this thread to be both interesting and funny.
"Black women raised to be independent, Spanish women raised to serve, be wives" agree or disagree?
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Whenever they do, they take issue with women who use it as a leading point or thinking it entitles them to something outside of a job. The same way a guy leading in with his wallet looks odd, as does a woman leading in with credentials. It's like a guy having a job and thinking that's something special. Okay, so do a lot of other men, who cares? The other aspects of that person means a lot as well. They're personality, their ability to get along with others, their ability to operate within a relationship. What good is getting with someone who can't operate within a relationship?
Credentials may guarantee you a job but won't guarantee you a man (if that's what you are looking for) because there are more things needed for a relationship than just being a good worker/employee.
This!
THIS!!!!
Materialism is a cancer to the black family unit. Why drive a fukking S Class Benz while paying RENT in a run down area? Why make Gucci, Prada, LV, and Fendi as the standard clothing? Why stunt on IG every weekend about parties and vacations while you credit score is abysmal?
The younger gens of black folk been raised off of Puffy's and Cash Money Record videos that we have stunted rational growth about economics and actual adult life for 9 to 5ers. Life ain't a music video.
Of course! But there are men who take issue with women pursuing those things in general. A lot of them are in the online space, actually.
But when I say hiphop culture was a net negative for our ppl, folks act like I’m saying something blasphemous.
These rap ni66as sold us out so that they could get some $ and status in entertainment
But when I say hiphop culture was a net negative for our ppl, folks act like I’m saying something blasphemous.
These rap ni66as sold us out so that they could get some $ and status in entertainment
Too many black folk have this unhealthy habit of STUNTIN' on other (less fortunate) black folks and chasing clout. Its sad that everyone in their heads are stuck in the late 90s, trying to be like BG or Birdman stuntin in the clubs thinking that they gonna get all the attention.
Materialism as a whole needs to be deaded and even the excuses of "its the American way" or "poor white people do the same shyt too" are played the fukk out.
I will say that a decent number of men are inarticulate on the topic of relationships online. Some women as well but men are not exempt from it. So they'll mean one thing and say something that indicates another. That said, some guys are full of it and want a women that doesn't make them feel small but those guys are generally avoided and weed themselves out. The issue for them may also stem from dealing with women who lead in credentials and then conflate that with women who are merely living their lives normally.
It's like the issue of submissiveness. Dudes will say they want this in a woman, but they really mean cooperativeness (I would hope). And going further, the personality traits that would make someone cooperative in the first place instead of a full blown doormat.
Speaking Womanese
All Star
True and rooted in trauma:
“We breed two nikka males with two nikka females.
Then we take the nikka males away from them and keep them moving and working.
Say one nikka female bears a nikka female and the other bears a nikka male.
Both nikka females being without influence of the nikka male image, frozen with an independent psychology, will raise their offspring into reverse positions.
The one with the female offspring will teach her to be like herself, independent and negotiable (we negotiate with her, through her, by her, we negotiate her at will).
The one with the nikka male offspring, she being frozen with a subconscious fear for his life, will raise him to be mentally dependent and weak, but physically strong, in other words, body over mind.
Now in a few years when these two offspring's become fertile for early reproduction we will mate and breed them and continue the cycle. That is good, sound, and long range comprehensive planning.”
I got this from a meme I saw floating around but I believe it was taken from one of those Willie Lynch type of books.
“We breed two nikka males with two nikka females.
Then we take the nikka males away from them and keep them moving and working.
Say one nikka female bears a nikka female and the other bears a nikka male.
Both nikka females being without influence of the nikka male image, frozen with an independent psychology, will raise their offspring into reverse positions.
The one with the female offspring will teach her to be like herself, independent and negotiable (we negotiate with her, through her, by her, we negotiate her at will).
The one with the nikka male offspring, she being frozen with a subconscious fear for his life, will raise him to be mentally dependent and weak, but physically strong, in other words, body over mind.
Now in a few years when these two offspring's become fertile for early reproduction we will mate and breed them and continue the cycle. That is good, sound, and long range comprehensive planning.”
I got this from a meme I saw floating around but I believe it was taken from one of those Willie Lynch type of books.
HarlemHottie
Uptown Thoroughbred
It depends on what you mean.
Facts. Everybody I know (or nosily google) is on private.
Nobody takes issue with women pursuing education or career. The problem is how we lead with it. Other women don't seem to do that.
I think the issue might be, we don't know how to do assortative mating bc we really never had a chance and the women are showing their ass due to an imagined advantage. People are mating in the wild off looks and other ephemera and nobody's looking at the paperwork (including the women themselves). So their anger at men is almost anger at themselves, for not vetting thoroughly in the beginning. But how can they when we're all thrown into one big mass of whoever can afford tickets for the boatride or whatever. That's why they have to LEAD with education, to sort.
We need old ppl with good sense who are trusted enough to start the sorting process.
Again, you make lots of sense
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