"Black women raised to be independent, Spanish women raised to serve, be wives" agree or disagree?

[RickyDiBiase]

I've never purchased crypto or recommended anyone buy crypto. Anyone into crypto is an idiot and IMO

You never purchased crypto LOL

Meanwhile you got your panties in a bunch over it when I shytted on it LOL fukked around with other peoples bread and got burnt your damn self

You can’t even lie straight you fukking weirdo

 

[mag357]

it's not love because they are doing it for resources as priority

they will fukk the man they really feel for on the side

spanish culture is very active with the creeping ha

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So what are we debating here bro... Spanish bytches don't love nobody, they just choosing properly?
Spanish women are fukked up?
Spanish households are fukked up?
all I see is these muthafukaz with a house full of family and sticking together.

So maybe we should be more fukked up just like them.

Anyway, What about all the other cultures that prioritize resources and a man's standing when it comes to marriage and who to love.

Married Indian bytches don't love, they sucking off the homies too?
Chinese bytches getting buss down by pookies?
The Arabic wives lifting up them burkas and letting the swagged out Muslim bro get some guts?

Their families seem to be strong and stick together too

To be honest, every other cultures seems to be on the type of time I'm talking about except for European culture...which we fall under living in America

 

[Shadow King]

Lol... No
I actually wrote a whole thing.
Then realized maybe I didn't really understand what you were saying. So I deleted it.
Cause I might actually agree with u or need to process it alil more before I respond.

Rooted in the religion and family pressure as a breh pointed out, being a mother and wife is generally more important to Latin women versus our own, enough to the point that they tend to do it or attempt to do it earlier.

Even those who pick up some of our habits through proximity, the family unit is still attempted as a bit more of the priority. Perhaps that's a two way street for both their men and women, but regardless, both sexes fall under that cultural umbrella.

It's why you it's not always necessarily looked down on when 20-22 y/o Carlos is dating 17 y/o Maria and taking her to prom, because after a certain point, the idea of "you found a decent one, you been around the whole clan already, lock it down and start that family" is stronger.

You spoke on Black men not having resources to lead, and looking for women to help build. In our early 20s, most men do not have those resources. But in the Latin community, that supposed flaw is overlooked when the priority on family building perpetuates them to start in that age bracket. Not having an above average or high salary isn't the black mark that it is in our community, and the prioritization of the finished product man isn't anywhere near as strong.

Despite not having the level of resources they're "supposed to" have yet, his place as the father/husband isn't undermined or questioned, and unless he's really that foul, he gets held down until he does.

With various levels of nuance, whites and Asian have this also (though it's waning for the former). Our women are the most vocal/adamant about the man in his final form being the standard out of, as I said, a distrust of the Black man and his ability and willingness to make his strides in a timely fashion, and/or fulfill his role as best as he can until flat out being able to fulfill it well.

Yes, there are Latinas on the exact same type of time as sisters. Yes, there's sisters who attempt to hold down an average cat who ain't got it yet. But at large, that family influence makes a difference between the black and brown. And they don't wait till ~30~ to try and start it.

 

[V Skyye]

So what are we debating here bro... Spanish bytches don't love nobody, they just choosing properly?
Spanish women are fukked up?
Spanish households are fukked up?
all I see is these muthafukaz with a house full of family and sticking together.

So maybe we should be more fukked up just like them.

Anyway, What about all the other cultures that prioritize resources and a man's standing when it comes to marriage and who to love.

Married Indian bytches don't love, they sucking off the homies too?
Chinese bytches getting buss down by pookies?
The Arabic wives lifting up them burkas and letting the swagged out Muslim bro get some guts?

Their families seem to be strong and stick together too

To be honest, every other cultures seems to be on the type of time I'm talking about except for European culture...which we fall under living in America

I was going to say this earlier. We are getting more and more like white people in terms of how we operate. We are much more individualistic than we used to be. And much more materialistic. It also seems that whites and blacks complain the most about relationships and seem to have many of the same complaints.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

You never purchased crypto LOL

Meanwhile you got your panties in a bunch over it when I shytted on it LOL fukked around with other peoples bread and got burnt your damn self

You can’t even lie straight you fukking weirdo

Post the proof of me purchasing crypto.
Post the proof of you shytting on me about crypto.
Post the proof of me asking anyone on this site for money.
Post the proof of me getting burned financially.

If not, I'm just gonna assume you're flirting with me and you trying to get that dikk put up in you.

 

[V Skyye]

Rooted in the religion and family pressure as a breh pointed out, being a mother and wife is generally more important to Latin women versus our own, enough to the point that they tend to do it or attempt to do it earlier.

Even those who pick up some of our habits through proximity, the family unit is still attempted as a bit more of the priority. Perhaps that's a two way street for both their men and women, but regardless, both sexes fall under that cultural umbrella.

It's why you it's not always necessarily looked down on when 20-22 y/o Carlos is dating 17 y/o Maria and taking her to prom, because after a certain point, the idea of "you found a decent one, you been around the whole clan already, lock it down and start that family" is stronger.

You spoke on Black men not having resources to lead, and looking for women to help build. In our early 20s, most men do not have those resources. But in the Latin community, that supposed flaw is overlooked when the priority on family building perpetuates them to start in that age bracket. Not having an above average or high salary isn't the black mark that it is in our community, and the prioritization of the finished product man isn't anywhere near as strong.

Despite not having the level of resources they're "supposed to" have yet, his place as the father/husband isn't undermined or questioned, and unless he's really that foul, he gets held down until he does.

With various levels of nuance, whites and Asian have this also (though it's waning for the former). Our women are the most vocal/adamant about the man in his final form being the standard out of, as I said, a distrust of the Black man and his ability and willingness to make his strides in a timely fashion, and/or fulfill his role as best as he can until flat out being able to fulfill it well.

Yes, there are Latinas on the exact same type of time as sisters. Yes, there's sisters who attempt to hold down an average cat who ain't got it yet. But at large, that family influence makes a difference between the black and brown. And they don't wait till ~30~ to try and start it.

But are young black men with limited resources trying to get married or be in a serious relationship? Most of the time, no. They are encouraged and socialized to do the opposite.

 

[Shadow King]

But are young black men with limited resources trying to get married or be in a serious relationship? Most of the time, no. They are encouraged and socialized to do the opposite.

As are the women, who are told not to need a man, and to dismiss young black men who have limited resources.

Two-way street, and no I do not believe in "men be men and women will follow" in a modern society.

 

[010101]

So what are we debating here bro... Spanish bytches don't love nobody, they just choosing properly?
Spanish women are fukked up?
Spanish households are fukked up?
all I see is these muthafukaz with a house full of family and sticking together.

So maybe we should be more fukked up just like them.

Anyway, What about all the other cultures that prioritize resources and a man's standing when it comes to marriage and who to love.

Married Indian bytches don't love, they sucking off the homies too?
Chinese bytches getting buss down by pookies?
The Arabic wives lifting up them burkas and letting the swagged out Muslim bro get some guts?

Their families seem to be strong and stick together too

To be honest, every other cultures seems to be on the type of time I'm talking about except for European culture...which we fall under living in America

you believe that's the key to success¿

i didn't say anything about that being the wave i recommend or advise against

just simply spanish women view marriage & relationships differently

& if you could get a first hand inside look into their households you would know their family units are far far far from ideal

ha

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[NinoBrown]

American women weren't raised that way but foreigns and exoticals were...

 

[RickyDiBiase]

I've never dated or been friends with a Hispanic woman that didn't emphasize their exact ethnicity. So that's what the fukk I meant.

Post the proof of me purchasing crypto.
Post the proof of you shytting on me about crypto.
Post the proof of me asking anyone on this site for money.
Post the proof of me getting burned financially.

If not, I'm just gonna assume you're flirting with me and you trying to get that dikk put up in you.

LOL this sissy in HEAT

Your corny white boy jokes ain’t working either, then again you find incest and pedophilia to be funny so of course you got depravity on your mind, weirdo.

Let the thief no longer steal, but rather let him labor, doing honest work with his own hands, so that he may have something to share with anyone in need.

Ephesians 4:28

 

[Peachstate]

@HarlemHottie @Gloxina I'm pretty sure I know the answer, but are y'all into dark femininity?

 

[Eternally Jaded]

That's basically it. And in the meantime, collecting kids and/ or abortions and std's and cs. Messiness.


Everything is about economics, except economics. (Whoever tells me whose quote I re purposed gets a rep.)

But passport bros is about economics. Divesting is about economics. Quiet as its kept, pawging is about economics. Our issues are economic.

Communal living is the only way. Yall think we crazy, but the smallest building block of communal living is the nuclear family. That's easy and basic. GMB is trash and should be banished to the pits of hell, as should whatever tf bw are doing.

I think the original quote is something like "everything is about sex, except sex". Whose? Can't tell you.

 

[Iverson_64]

Yes, but only if they still carry the culture from their home country. The more Americanized they are, the less true that is.

I can tell you Puerto Rican women are NOT raised to be wives. In fact all the negative traits people complain Black women have, Puerto Rican women definitely have.

Dominican women, alot of them are still a bit traditional because they're not completely Americanized. But that's starting to shift.

The Central & South American women from my experiences are still completely traditional (give or take a couple outliers)

Women from Argentina and Chile aren't any more traditional than American women.

 

[Gloxina]

@HarlemHottie @Gloxina I'm pretty sure I know the answer, but are y'all into dark femininity?

Well, of course. You express/find it naturally once you’ve survived the not so great moments of life.

There’s a light and dark side to everything and everyone. You have to embrace it so that you know when to use it, when or why you’re feeling it, and more importantly- so that you can recognize it in others.

So much shyt went over my head when I was younger and really believed everyone was good and honest. And my innocence DEFINITELY shielded me from bad experiences and things I wasn’t ready for, but I also probably avoided experiences I needed to go through that would’ve pushed me to be more mature and more aware of the world around me. I had a lot less game and could’ve picked up on things happening around me if I allowed myself to see things for what they were

 

[Boxchevy]

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Gotta generate that revenue

At what expense though?..it proves black men don't love nor respect other black men and boys, so their is no way they love or respect black women on a collective level. We all see it..