"Black women raised to be independent, Spanish women raised to serve, be wives" agree or disagree?

[Raw Lyrics]

Hispanic women have been some of the worst women I have interacted with, tbh. Embodying some of the worst stereotypes of both Black and white women. On the other hand most Black women I know are cool. Your mileage may vary. Obviously there's variability in all groups.

Damn, sorry for your experience. My wife caters to me in every way possible and I get a banging plate of spanish food cooked for me a few times a week.

 

[The Fade]

Hispanic women have been some of the worst women I have interacted with, tbh. Embodying some of the worst stereotypes of both Black and white women. On the other hand most Black women I know are cool. Your mileage may vary. Obviously there's variability in all groups.

That On The Block With Jen type Latina has me looking at them like sometimes

Along with the stereotypes you describes, they have weird complexes about black people. That’s specifically that type though

 

[Nkrumah Was Right]

Women from Argentina and Chile aren't any more traditional than American women.

Depends where in Argentina…

 

[kaldurahm]

So many great posts in this thread, it really shows that we can come together and reach a mutual understanding.

I was going to say this earlier. We are getting more and more like white people in terms of how we operate. We are much more individualistic than we used to be. And much more materialistic. It also seems that whites and blacks complain the most about relationships and seem to have many of the same complaints.

This is facts. I said years ago when I started online dating I was shocked to see the amount of single white mothers, even proportionally it seemed way more than single black mothers and when you think of the term "single mother" most people see it as a black women.

I saw so many single white mothers; they didn't have black kids, these kids were white. I was like what the fukk is up with the white community. How can you look at this and think they're in better standing than black people; only the economics from their parents, Grandparents etc.. otherwise I'd concur. Pawg this pawg that, some of those women are straight menaces, even I feel sorry for white guys sometimes.

 

[Gloxina]

Thats whats interesting because even all those manosphere black men have said that they taught their daughters to be independent while they do live streams every day complaining about independent women. Its one big gas light and black women know it.

Because those Black men content creators don’t trust that their daughters will find a Black man who will provide for them! They expect their daughters to be screwed over at some point. Ask any Black man with a daughter and he’ll tell you he doesn’t want his daughter depending on anyone.

And I’m not saying that’s right or wrong, but why is that? Why are those Black men adamant that their daughters will be able to stand on their own feet, if necessary? What is it that causes Black men with daughters to not trust the Black men in the community?

 

[Gloxina]

So many great posts in this thread, it really shows that we can come together and reach a mutual understanding.

This is facts. I said years ago when I started online dating I was shocked to see the amount of single white mothers, even proportionally it seemed way more than single black mothers and when you think of the term "single mother" most people see it as a black women.

I saw so many single white mothers; they didn't have black kids, these kids were white. I was like what the fukk is up with the white community. How can you look at this and think they're in better standing than black people; only the economics from their parents, Grandparents etc.. otherwise I'd concur. Pawg this pawg that, some of those women are straight menaces, even I feel sorry for white guys sometimes.

Oh yea! Their community’s dynamics are just as messed up; they just have more $.

 

[Ohene]

cant speak to spanish women

but agree with whats being said about blk women

 

[Ohene]

Thats whats interesting because even all those manosphere black men have said that they taught their daughters to be independent while they do live streams every day complaining about independent women. Its one big gas light and black women know it.

not a gaslight at all, its just the sad ironic reality

i know black women whose dads have taught them to be independent as well

 

[ThatTruth777]

This gender war nonsense needs a long break. Sick of hearing all this bullshyt.

 

[V Skyye]

So many great posts in this thread, it really shows that we can come together and reach a mutual understanding.

This is facts. I said years ago when I started online dating I was shocked to see the amount of single white mothers, even proportionally it seemed way more than single black mothers and when you think of the term "single mother" most people see it as a black women.

I saw so many single white mothers; they didn't have black kids, these kids were white. I was like what the fukk is up with the white community. How can you look at this and think they're in better standing than black people; only the economics from their parents, Grandparents etc.. otherwise I'd concur. Pawg this pawg that, some of those women are straight menaces, even I feel sorry for white guys sometimes.

Because as much as we don’t like to admit it, we are cultured the same as them in a lot of ways compared to people with more recent immigrant backgrounds. And a lot of the issues facing Black America are by design from living in this country. But America is so greedy that they were never gonna stop at just Black people. We are last hired and first fired. But after we’re out the paint, everyone else who can get squeezed will get squeezed. America has shown time and time again that it doesn’t care about anyone’s plight.

White people are affected by the opioid epidemic, gentrification, the rising cost of living, and inflation like everyone else. Trump was born from disillusioned white folks. And they don’t have it nearly as bad as us. Their marriage rates are declining and OOW kids are rising. Suicide rates and mass shootings are increasing for us when that’s never been something Black people did in mass. COVID really accelerated this and now there’s really one mainstream culture. I go on TikTok and everyone talks and acts exactly the same. It’s going to be crazy to see what this country looks like in 20 years.

 

[prime]

Oh yea! Their community’s dynamics are just as messed up; they just have more $.

I wouldn’t say more $$ but what I noticed is if you excluding poor whites who do share every thing on social media middle-class upper middle class and high class white people don’t put their business on social media like black and Hispanic people do that’s why you see social media posts from Black people thinking white people are damn near perfect and all white men provide 100 percent and white women have a “soft life”

 

[Gloxina]

I wouldn’t say more $$ but what I noticed is if you excluding poor whites who do share every thing on social media middle-class upper middle class and high class white people don’t put their business on social media like black and Hispanic people do that’s why you see social media posts from Black people thinking white people are damn near perfect and all white men provide 100 percent and white women have a “soft life”

Upper class ppl of all races refrain from airing dirty laundry, etc on social media.

 

[prime]

Upper class ppl of all races refrain from airing dirty laundry, etc on social media.

Unfortunately upper class single black people have been talking shyt about each on TikTok

 

[High Art]

What is it that causes Black men with daughters to not trust the Black men in the community?

Is it the black men they don't trust or the country/society itself? If it was the black men in the community they did not trust, they'd push them to marry out or even lez out, yet they don't do that.

In any case, I find this thread to be both interesting and funny.

 

[Gloxina]

Unfortunately upper class single black people have been talking shyt about each on TikTok

High earning ≠ upper class.

And yes, sure you’ll have ppl who gossip anonymously and do stupid, petty shyt, but in general discretion is the name of the game