Blacks In IR Gotta Realize They Are No Longer Part Of The Black Community

[TMNT4000]

BM/WW relationships don't need a media push and you know it. There are readily available BM and WW who want to date each other, the only reason the BW/WM have a media push is simply because it's an anomaly and doesn't happen as often. So of course they gotta push that in the media more than BM/WW. I'm not even defending IR relationships or the black people that do it but sometimes you have to call a spade, a spade.

I agree, us black men really need to get at c00ns who do the same shyt.

Black men who marry out hurt our community more than black women who marry out.

 

[Arishok]

I agree, us black men really need to get at c00ns who do the same shyt.

Black men who marry out hurt our community more than black women who marry out.

I would say both hurt the community equally though.

 

[JahFocus CS]

I would say both hurt the community equally though.

Except they don't though. One has been going on for much longer and much more frequently than the other, and the other is in part a reaction to disrespect and underappreciation. Both may be BS but we gotta be honest and engage in some self-criticism and take some responsibility here.

The degree to which we parrot racist, misogynistic tropes is highly disturbing brehs, all you gotta do is pay attention to see how reviled Afrikan women are within the community and how invisible they are outside it. quit the c00nin

 

[mrken12]

But Gigi you're no different from them. You're just a different side of the same coin.

A lot of black men c00n it up but not all. I'm a black man and I've never fukked a white woman. But you lust after white men. You are just as bad as the people you calling out.

Gigi is a male troll. It's not even a black woman.

 

[Bawon Samedi]

1 for me, 1 for the streets.....we gotta build traffic

Like that thinking.

 

[TMNT4000]

I would say both hurt the community equally though.

Idk about that, if a black man build his wealth and marry outside his race, he might but all of his energy on his non-black wife community.

And his wealth might not go to the black community to help build a economic base.

 

[Bawon Samedi]

Why is always the ugly ones that bed wench hard?

Isn't it simple? Most black men reject them. Not trying to be offensive, but from what I've seen the black women/girls that tend to hang out with white men the most are usually ugly from where I live. Not only that but their personalities are corny. Again they're rejects. Same thing with those ugly fat white women who date c00ns.

 

[godkiller]

Except they don't though. One has been going on for much longer and much more frequently than the other, and the other is in part a reaction to disrespect and underappreciation. Both may be BS but we gotta be honest and engage in some self-criticism and take some responsibility here.

The degree to which we parrot racist, misogynistic tropes is highly disturbing brehs, all you gotta do is pay attention to see how reviled Afrikan women are within the community and how invisible they are outside it. quit the c00nin

The question is which is more harmful, not which is subjectively more frequent, longer, harmful etc. Black women are the keystone of the black race. What they do is more important.

I don't know see how one responds to "disrespect and underappreciation" by trying to link up with cacs, who are the supreme oppressors and architects of black male/female subversion. Having lived in black countries, I can say that the problms and divsion specifically which exists here between genders does not exist there. The missing variable, of couse, is cacs' deleterious influence. To complain about nikkas' sense of peoplehood and then to complete undermine and insult it by feiting with cacs is akin to complaining about wrong then living with the devil.

The solution to division is to advocate integration and do it, not to advocate division based on faulty notions of tit-for-tat between groups. Black women cannot win anything by spiting black men and appealing to the lowest common denominator. Black women are most appreciated within the black community and only invisible outside it by way of the non-blacks, especially cacs, whom rule society. Black women in black societies are supreme, as evidenced by African and Carribean nations. The solution is to make black societies, not to undermine and threaten blacks by waging war because of "insult". The Native Americans waged war because of "insult" between each other - what happened to them? The Spanairds used their imaginary and senseless squabbles between each other to murder them all.

 

[2Quik4UHoes]

And we have no media push behind swirling.

That's the big beige elephant in the room. Makes me all the more firmly entrenched in my Blackness.

 

[JahFocus CS]

I don't know see how one responds to "disrespect and underappreciation" by trying to link up with cacs, who are the supreme oppressors and archiects of black male/female subversion. The solution to division is to advocate integration and do it, not to advocate division based on faulty notions of tit-for-tat between groups. Black women cannot win anything by spiting black men and appealing to the lowest common denominator. Black women are most appreciated within the black community and invisible outside it by way of the cacs whom rule society. Black women in black societities are supreme, as evidenced by African and Carribean nations. The solution is to make black societies more black, not to undermine and threaten it by spiting your face by cutting off your nose.

I generally agree but obviously if they feel unappreciated and disrespected in the community, they will look outside of it and try to mimic the behavior of c00nin fools

 

[TMNT4000]

Isn't it simple? Most black men reject them. Not trying to be offensive, but from what I've seen the black women/girls that tend to hang out with white men the most are usually ugly from where I live. Not only that but their personalities are corny. Again they're rejects. Same thing with those ugly fat white women who date c00ns.

Yeah, you rarely see beautiful black women dating out because the feel wanted.

The only time you see it if they are a celebrities and maybe California.

 

[godkiller]

I generally agree but obviously if they feel unappreciated and disrespected in the community, they will look outside of it and try to mimic the behavior of c00nin fools

This tendency does not justify anything. There is no more appreciation and respect outside the black community than within it. That is plainly obvious just by reading the 1 million anti-black comments. That a c00n can believe otherwise shows that notions of appreciation and disrespect are subjective mental constructs people create to justify their actions. It is like when a murderer feels elation when he kills someone. He might connote killing with happiness when the truth is that killing is no more connected to happiness than anything else. Alternatively, why should the fact the "black community" appreciates a person more or less have any bearing on a person's innate sense and importance of blackness? Skinny people are more desired than fat people. Tall more desired than short. Handsome more desired than ugly. And the list goes on. There's an endless list of ways a person is more or less "appreciated or respected" in the black and other communities. Why is it that some minority communityes around the world have no problem reconciling their their relative feelings about "appreciation or respect" (which again stretch to eternity) and their attachment to their community?

As a lesson in why division never works to help a people, one need only look at the Native Americans. The Native Americans waged war because of "insult" between each other - and this was real insult. The Aztecs kidnapped and ambushed other Natives and sacrificed them. There were successive wars every years and new tragedies. In light of all this "unappreciation and disrespect", your logic implies that the Native tribes who helped the Spanairds topple the Aztecs were right to do so. But what happened afterward? The Natives were annihilated. Their naivete and infighting led to their ultimate destruction. If the various warring tribes had banded together--as some did to help the Spanairds and others did to aid the Aztecs--they would have far outnumbered the Spanairds and the Spanish might have never conquered the Americas, wiping out the Native race in the process. Attacking your own people will never help you. Whites have used the divide and conquer tactic to crush other peoples in the past.

 

[JahFocus CS]

This tendency does not justify anything. There is no more appreciation and respect outside the black community than within it. That is plainly obvious just by reading the 1 million anti-black comments. That a c00n can believe otherwise shows that notions of appreciation and disrespect are subjective mental constructs people create to justify their actions. It is like when a murderer feels elation when he kills someone. He might connote killing with happiness when the truth is that killing is no more connected to happiness than anything else. Alternatively, why should the fact the "black community" appreciates a person more or less have any bearing on a person's innate sense and importance of blackness? Skinny people are more desired than fat people. Tall more desired than short. Handsome more desired than ugly. And the list goes on. There's an endless list of ways a person is more or less "appreciated or respected" in the black and other communities. Why is it that some minority communityes around the world have no problem reconciling their their relative feelings about "appreciation or respect" (which again stretch to eternity) and their attachment to their community?

As a lesson in why division never works to help a people, one need only look at the Native Americans. The Native Americans waged war because of "insult" between each other - and this was real insult. The Aztecs kidnapped and ambushed other Natives and sacrificed them. There were successive wars every years and new tragedies. In light of all this "unappreciation and disrespect", your logic implies that the Native tribes who helped the Spanairds topple the Aztecs were right to do so. But what happened afterward? The Natives were annihilated. Their naivete and infighting led to their ultimate destruction. If the various warring tribes had banded together--as some did to help the Spanairds and others did to aid the Aztecs--they would have far outnumbered the Spanairds and the Spanish might have never conquered the Americas, wiping out the Native race in the process. Attacking your own people will never help you. Whites have used the divide and conquer tactic to crush other peoples in the past.

All fine and dandy, I'm not approving the behavior at all, but we need context here. Please show the same passion though in your posts with these Afrikan men in IRs w/ WW since that is the bigger demographic phenomenon.

My explanation for the phenomenon doesn't imply any normative judgment. Yeah, in the case of the Aztecs, it was their brutality against other Native nations that gave those nations an impetus to side with the Spanish. Wrong move but the grievances were already established from Aztec transgressions.

You can't only foster respect and love when faced with an external threat. That's like having an abusive household in which the father beats the mother and abuses and molests the kids and then expect those contradictions to just magically disappear when shows up to settle some business with the father. Respect and love need to be principles we adhere to for their own sake. They are worth having as principles and instead of wasting time debating this obvious shyt, we could focus on the cac system instead (furthermore by fostering love and respect within the community, that already undermines the cac system)

 

[Draje]

Isn't it simple? Most black men reject them. Not trying to be offensive, but from what I've seen the black women/girls that tend to hang out with white men the most are usually ugly from where I live. Not only that but their personalities are corny. Again they're rejects. Same thing with those ugly fat white women who date c00ns.

Bull-Fukkin shyt.

Maybe it's because I'm fairly liberal spot but I'm seeing a LOT more pretty ass black chicks, dating white men. Not chicks built like Instagram models but pretty ass, in-shape black women.

 

[GiGi]

But Gigi you're no different from them. You're just a different side of the same coin.

A lot of black men c00n it up but not all. I'm a black man and I've never fukked a white woman. But you lust after white men. You are just as bad as the people you calling out.

Well I personally do not have any other options...sorry. The black men (in my age group) in my area are on a no black women diet.

Yes, I like white men because they are the men who consistently express interest in/pursue me. The black men that I encounter do not. Its hard to desire men who have little/no interest in me and I can not apologize for it.

I am not the right "type" that black men who actually do like black women prefer. I am brown skinned (product of a light skinned father and brown skinned mother), natural hair (APL), college educated with an advanced degree, in-shape (yoga, pilates, etc.) with slender shape (big boobs and small behind) and dress in flirty bohemian style. Nope....not their type.