Blacks In IR Gotta Realize They Are No Longer Part Of The Black Community

[godkiller]

Well I personally do not have any other options...sorry. The black men (in my age group) in my area are on a no black women diet.

Yes, I like white men because they are the men who consistently express interest in/pursue me. The black men that I encounter do not. Its hard to desire men who have little/no interest in me and I can not apologize for it.

I am not the right "type" that black men who actually do like black women prefer. I am brown skinned (product of a light skinned father and brown skinned mother), natural hair (APL), college educated with an advanced degree, in-shape (yoga, pilates, etc.) with slender shape (big boobs and small behind) and dress in flirty bohemian style. Nope....not their type.

In other words, you're a throwaway scorned, old loser nikkas don't want. It's funny you say you're "college educated" but I've crushed in debates time and time again (you run away most times). You're obviously not as smart as you think you are. You should understand that your great confidence in yourself is too high and if nikkas do not want you, most men do not want you regardless of race. I even remember you saying before that "men hit on me all the time", pointedly omitting the fact nikkas don't want you. You probably get "attention" by way of default, and not for any particular reason besides. Since you're born in 1981, that makes you 33 years a scorned lonely wench

 

[GunRanger]

All this arguing for a miniscule amount of interracial relationships.

 

[JahFocus CS]

In other words, you're a throwaway scorned loser nikkas don't want. It's funny you say you're "college educated" but I've crushed in debates time and time again (you run away most times). You're obviously not as smart as you think you are. You should understand that your great confidence in yourself is too high and if nikkas do not want you, most men do not want you regardless of race. You probably get "attention" by way of default, and not for any particular reason besides. Since you're born in 1981, that makes you 33 years a scorned lonely wench

do you think this shyt helps mayne? all stuff like this does is exacerbate tensions. It doesn't promote healing at all.

 

[mrken12]

Another thing is that Afrikan women should not have to subsume their womanhood within their Blackness. That is, they shouldn't have to choose between being Black and being a woman. They shouldn't be asked to drop the fight against patriarchy and misogyny to fight racism as Black men alone see it (through a patriarchal lens).

intersectionality y'all, read up on it

You'll always be black before anything else. So that patriarchy talk is

 

[Poitier]

white men don't believe the hype about whiteness like other men do. The upper echelon of white men are used to the upper echelon of white women, and many of them become bored..

 

[JahFocus CS]

You'll always be black before anything else. So that patriarchy talk is

Do Black women get called bytches and hoes because they're Black or because they're women? Do Black women suffer sexual violence just because they're Black?

If they're Black before anything else, you should listen to their concerns and make an attempt to understand their particular oppression. Otherwise, you're disregarding the experience of 50+ percent of the "Black population" you say you care about.

 

[JahFocus CS]

Y'all don't have to front, straight up. Just admit that you don't like Afrikan women. If you're gonna c00n just own up to it if that's what you wanna rep.

 

[Poitier]

There are numerous white men/black women couples at my company (plus other white men with black wives that do not work for the company)

You know majority of the WM/BW unicorn couples that exist, huh

 

[godkiller]

Do Black women get called bytches and hoes because they're Black or because they're women? Do Black women suffer sexual violence just because they're Black?

If they're Black before anything else, you should listen to their concerns and make an attempt to understand their particular oppression. Otherwise, you're disregarding the experience of 50+ percent of the "Black population" you say you care about.

When women develop in the womb, they are black before they are female. If you remove "black" from the equation of black women, their wage, quality of life, arrest rates, etc everything goes up positively. The most significant and defining feature of black women is their blackness. The black woman's "concerns" are the black man's concerns. The black woman will always follow the black man's fortunes, whether for good or ill, so she is invested in the black man's success. Similarly the cac woman's fate will always follow the cac man's, for good or ill, so she is invested in the cac man's success. If the cac fails, she will have failed as well. These are immutable facts since the men and women are linked by genes. Men are but a tiny bit different to women. When cacs basically enslaved their women to cookery, child bearing and cleaning, they still ruled the world, didn't they? Black history is 99% male patriarchy.

 

[godkiller]

Y'all don't have to front, straight up. Just admit that you don't like Afrikan women. If you're gonna c00n just own up to it if that's what you wanna rep.

Believing in patriarchy has nothing itself to do with c00nery. A society with weak men is a society without men. And a society without men is a crumbling tower just waiting to topple over.

 

[mrken12]

Do Black women get called bytches and hoes because they're Black or because they're women? Do Black women suffer sexual violence just because they're Black?

If they're Black before anything else, you should listen to their concerns and make an attempt to understand their particular oppression. Otherwise, you're disregarding the experience of 50+ percent of the "Black population" you say you care about.

Every race of women experience that. But when black women experience it, those feminist groups don't do shyt. Where were the feminists during the Reneisha McBride story? Or when black women were getting assaulted by police officers? Or the cop who raped a bunch of black women? Like I said, race first.

And what concerns are you talking about?

 

[mrken12]

Y'all don't have to front, straight up. Just admit that you don't like Afrikan women. If you're gonna c00n just own up to it if that's what you wanna rep.

Here comes that strawman. Right on time. @Willstyles you have competition.

 

[JahFocus CS]

Believing in patriarchy has nothing itself to do with c00nery. A society with weak men is a society without men. And a society without men is a crumbling tower just waiting to topple over.

Believing in patriarchy - an oppressive system which devalues women and subjugates them - has plenty to do with c00nery when Black women are victims. Patriarchy has nothing to do with being a strong man. Oppression doesn't equal strength.

Discussions like these show why identity politics in and of themselves are doomed and don't present any real solutions, because they don't deal with the real issues. You're not gonna sit there and type some BS about how racism is a serious issue but sexism/patriarchy isn't. All oppressions are serious issues and need to be addressed. They are also linked via the economic system.

 

[Timeis$]

do you think this shyt helps mayne? all stuff like this does is exacerbate tensions. It doesn't promote healing at all.

Breh .

Gigi basically said she can't attract black dudes because she doesn't look a certain "type" of black. I don't see why she'd lie about that. I mean she could have said black dudes want her but she doesn't want them but she didnt.

Gigi like Chris B probably got made fun of by blacks for looking to black. Now they c00ning it up.

 

[mrken12]

Breh .

Gigi basically said she can't attract black dudes because she doesn't look a certain "type" of black. I don't see why she'd lie about that. I mean she could have said black dudes want her but she doesn't want them but she didnt.

Gigi like Chris B probably got made fun of by blakcs for being to black. Now they c00ning it up.

Gigi and Chris B are trolls. Gigi isn't even a woman. Don't take what that person says seriously.