Boyce Watkins Article Does It Again--Blames Black Women for the Breakdown of the Black Family

[Shadow King]

A lot of women do think this. BUT, in their defense, sometimes their backs are against the wall. Having babies is something most women dream about their whole lives. When they get to those mid 30's, panic starts to set in if they are not in a serious relationship. Biologically they are compelled to get knocked up now or forget ever having children. Tough choice.

All black women aren't having kids at 35 though. They're much younger. At that point to they're the single woman with 2 or more kids we try to stay away from (at least here on the Coli). They're just not making good decisions at 25 or younger.

 

[filial_piety]

This is one of the few times that I agreewith today's neo-psuedo black intellectuals

 

[Digga38]

women get blamed for everything. I thought men were the leaders. I surely don't want to be lead by someone that will point the finger at me if he does something wrong.

just get back in the kitchen

 

[Digga38]

This is one of the few times that I agreewith today's neo-psuedo black intellectuals

#theshift

 

[Ashley Banks]

just get back in the kitchen

but i already ate :/

 

[Ashley Banks]

All black women aren't having kids at 35 though. They're much younger. At that point to they're the single woman with 2 or more kids we try to stay away from (at least here on the Coli). They're just not making good decisions at 25 or younger.

hey whoa, I make great decisions tyvm

 

[Originalman]

I will have to read the article first before giving my opinion on this. But overall let's not candy coat this shyt when it comes to couples. We live in a microwave society where everyone ants theirs.

Back in the day people got married in order to have sex....with birth control sexual revolution jokers will fukk before even committing in a relationship. Jokers will move in together before even considering marriage. Add to the fact that we as black folks treat marriage like a plague and you have some fukked up shyt.

We as people have to understand marriage is one the best ways to raise kids because it actually protects the money because dudes usually are less likely to leave then in a basic relationship. Plus there are rules and laws built in to protect the wife financially. Marriage also helps build wealth because two people are putting their money together and growing it.

 

[Bolzmark]

All black women aren't having kids at 35 though. They're much younger. At that point to they're the single woman with 2 or more kids we try to stay away from (at least here on the Coli). They're just not making good decisions at 25 or younger.

Agreed. I should have made it clearer that I was talking about the older women. Yeah there are a lot of 20 somethings becoming baby mommas for the fukk of it. Shyt, teenagers for that matter.