He has the right idea,unfortunately he just doesnt have the mouthpiece to get this off. Which is half the battle in convincing women of non traditional ways,which basically proves the point.
Older women have been indoctrinated by the white man,hellhounds and western society in general. A woman is meant to be a cup,you want her as empty as possible#TheChildOfMan
If you are a special man,a woman will empty her cup and allow you to fill it. But most men dont have that type of charisma,brilliant mind,or even the simple patience to have that happen for them. So its much easier to go with a younger woman who is more succeptable based on ignorance.
Sadly thats not going to work out for you in this country either. If you lack the charisma,brilliance and mouthpiece. Eventually she is going to outgrow you due to outside influence.
Unless your plan is to put a bunch of babies in her,and keep her ducked off away from society.
Well real talk, if you actually plan to do right by the woman, technically there’s absolutely NOTHING wrong with this and is every girl’s dream when she falls in love
The problem is everyone knows women from previous generations who walked into their marriages young and innocent and ready to follow who got:
1- physically or emotionally abused (kids too) with no real way to leave because she has no money/career
2- chucked to the side for another woman (usually younger) and now maybe she’s older and can’t find a new husband
3- husband never discarded her, but he sure did have to “work late” or travel for work a whole lot

, or other women called the house or snickered when they’d see her
And yes ok, we can talk about women sleeping with the milk man, etc.
Point is when a woman gets married and is fully dependent on her hubby and hasn’t had much exposure to the world, in a perfect world they’d just live life, go through the growing pains and ups and downs and push through to the other side. A lot of ppl don’t want to acknowledge that for a lot of women, at some point 1 or more of those things above were the “bumps” they had to endure, and those generally aren’t things a woman can put a man through.
A man’s ultimate trump card is the fact that he can just leave you and create a new family. Now if you’re a rotten broad hey- yea, he probably should just roll out AND financially provide for the kids.
But what if he decides he wants to dabble in some other women for a while? Or he’s bored with you? You gotta sit there with egg on your face if you want that marriage to last forever.
Naw it ain’t everyone, for sure! But some Coli brehs have kept it

in these Coli threads about some of the shyt they saw or heard about occurring with the previous generations in their families.
There are a lot of older women who were silent and upset about their situations so they OVER CORRECTED when speaking to the next generations. The reason so many girls ran to get an education and their own money was because of stories of the women in their families who were stuck in bad situations.
Younger generations really have to have an open dialogue with each other and let go of some of the lessons and actions of the elders because they really fukked up with a lot of us.