It's not a problem if a man knows what he's talking about. But a lot of dudes don't know enough to teach a woman anything. They'll be a drag to them. Their life is full of sin and they will cause another to fall. If you're not marrying that woman, there's nothing for you to talk about.
Women crave assertiveness and decisiveness from men. That's one of our best masculine traits
I also understand the vice versa with younger dudes in their 20s spitting game at Cougars. Cougars provide a lot of experience not just sexually, but also life in general
It’s like wanting to experience your first house or first child together with your girl. When she already bought her own house, traveled to every country, and already had her first baby that shyt ain’t new.
Some women are lowkey just as bad if not worse than men when it comes fukking way under their age range. It was a girl i went to school with one year younger than me 39 year old auntie who taught me how to eat . Breh i was 16 years old and she knew it, knew i was an orphan and had nowhere to stay(and as i realized when i got older, all to conveniently no one to advocate for me). She was throwing it at me hard asf too. Coming in the room in a two size too small towel after her shower asking me to smell her hair. Climbing on top me me, tickle "wrestling" me, grabbing my shyt up. Giving me money, buying me food and clothes. Lowkey sugar mama'd my minor ass.
These bihs can be just as predatory as any scumbag dude. Society just turns a blind eye and gives them a pass, unless and until it suits their interests to call them out and punish them.
Now im not saying this at all to argue men should get a pass because of this. On the contrary, females need to be kept with the same energy.
It was all at the time. Why wouldnt it be? I was a dumb kid already rife with trauma getting spoiled like never before AND getting free box. Milf box at that
But that shyt warped and conditioned me to see sex as transactional and females as sex objects. I was already very fukked up from life lifing. This shyt just added more scars to my already flayed psyche.
"Impressionable" "receptive", he's saying what he's saying and y'all are trying to cover for him. The truth is guys who chase after younger women are trying to run away from confronting something. same with the passport nikkas.
It’s like wanting to experience your first house or first child together with your girl. When she already bought her own house, traveled to every country, and already had her first baby that shyt ain’t new.
you hit on a great point. a lot of older women (esp millennials) have this "been there, done that" attitude that is annoying as fukk. I'm not going to jump through hoops trying to plan something that will impress your jaded ass. Take her to a nice Sushi restaurant and she talmbout "this is good but not as good as the sushi in Shibuya"
But I am an “older woman”, recently diving back into the dating pool and I have trouble NOT attracting men of all ages, races, and economic statuses.
If you are a 25-40 yr old woman, who took care of yourself didn’t get run through, and was left with a bunch of 2+ baby daddy's kids, body decent, mind right you will be completely fine & marriage-minded men will be looking to wife you vs shacking up with the 22 yr old gas station attendant.
And tbh we killing the young chicks right now especially looks wise in my opinion.
Dream doll- 30/31
Saweetie- 29/30
Alexis sky- 28/29
Lori harvey- 26/27
Vs
Latto-24/35
Glorilla- 23/24
Erica banks-24/25
Kylie jenner - curdled mayo idk
These young chicks out here living hard lives trying to keep up with social media, most of them already have/had std’s, abortions, kids, dropouts, not-feminine, chasing dusties, & idolizing city girls, and strippers and got major bodies by 25
( tbh it was glamorized to their generation).
Don’t let bottom-of-the-barrel men trick you into playing this game and vying for their love. Men who are serious about life and have something to lose are not looking to wife teenage chicken heads who want to club Tue- Sun and chase scammers and drug dealers.
And side note:
Do ppl really care about this bs irl?
Everybody should date who they want and who makes them happy.
Agree.....if a man has his shyt together and the right mindset, he can attract desirable women in ALL age brackets..the young jawns, MILFY thoroughbreds and thicc grannies.
Nothing wrong with a man having a legit preference....but it sounds like he prefers women that are easier to manipulate....not just because they're young. Like if 35 year old women with big titties/azz were the easiest to manipulate, that would be his preference.
But I am an “older woman”, recently diving back into the dating pool and I have trouble NOT attracting men of all ages, races, and economic statuses.
If you are a 25-40 yr old woman, who took care of yourself didn’t get run through, and was left with a bunch of 2+ baby daddy's kids, body decent, mind right you will be completely fine & marriage-minded men will be looking to wife you vs shacking up with the 22 yr old gas station attendant.
And tbh we killing the young chicks right now especially looks wise in my opinion.
Dream doll- 30/31
Saweetie- 29/30
Alexis sky- 28/29
Lori harvey- 26/27
Vs
Latto-24/35
Glorilla- 23/24
Erica banks-24/25
Kylie jenner - curdled mayo idk
These young chicks out here living hard lives trying to keep up with social media, most of them already have/had std’s, abortions, kids, dropouts, not-feminine, chasing dusties, & idolizing city girls, and strippers and got major bodies by 25
( tbh it was glamorized to their generation).
Don’t let bottom-of-the-barrel men trick you into playing this game and vying for their love. Men who are serious about life and have something to lose are not looking to wife teenage chicken heads who want to club Tue- Sun and chase scammers and drug dealers.
And side note:
Do ppl really care about this bs irl?
Everybody should date who they want and who makes them happy.
I wouldnt personalize a thread like this because depending on your looks you can be having your way out here but it could be hard for people to replicate across the board.. In general it is best practice for a women to move in a way where she has the most leverage but its not surprising to see someone in older age bracket to be having their way, especially black women who if they keep themselves up from like 28- late 30s/40 can still draw plenty of attention.
But I will add disclaimer where if I was talking to a family member that there is nuance there, that ability can be a gift n curse because it can give a false bravado, all attention aint the same. I see women conflate I wanna fukk attention with I wanna invest in you and lock you down attention, if you are aware of that and want to stay single, dope.
Also even for "celebrity" types that is a lacking list overall, sheesh. Anyway post more, lol..
But I am an “older woman”, recently diving back into the dating pool and I have trouble NOT attracting men of all ages, races, and economic statuses.
If you are a 25-40 yr old woman, who took care of yourself didn’t get run through, and was left with a bunch of 2+ baby daddy's kids, body decent, mind right you will be completely fine & marriage-minded men will be looking to wife you vs shacking up with the 22 yr old gas station attendant.
And tbh we killing the young chicks right now especially looks wise in my opinion.
Dream doll- 30/31
Saweetie- 29/30
Alexis sky- 28/29
Lori harvey- 26/27
Vs
Latto-24/35
Glorilla- 23/24
Erica banks-24/25
Kylie jenner - curdled mayo idk
These young chicks out here living hard lives trying to keep up with social media, most of them already have/had std’s, abortions, kids, dropouts, not-feminine, chasing dusties, & idolizing city girls, and strippers and got major bodies by 25
( tbh it was glamorized to their generation).
Don’t let bottom-of-the-barrel men trick you into playing this game and vying for their love. Men who are serious about life and have something to lose are not looking to wife teenage chicken heads who want to club Tue- Sun and chase scammers and drug dealers.
And side note:
Do ppl really care about this bs irl?
Everybody should date who they want and who makes them happy.
A word. Many men are simply looking for the path of less resistance and minimal expectations for sex. And younger women have nothing but time to waste until they wisen up.
I wouldnt personalize a thread like this because depending on your looks you can be having your way out here but it could be hard for people to replicate across the board.. In general it is best practice for a women to move in a way where she has the most leverage but its not surprising to see someone in older age bracket to be having their way, especially black women who if they keep themselves up from like 28- late 30s/40 can still draw plenty of attention.
But I will add disclaimer where if I was talking to a family member that there is nuance there, that ability can be a gift n curse because it can give a false bravado, all attention aint the same. I see women conflate I wanna fukk attention with I wanna invest in you and lock you down attention, if you are aware of that and want to stay single, dope.
Also even for "celebrity" types that is a lacking list overall, sheesh. Anyway post more, lol..
Right. Women go from men in their teens to 80s playing games just to fukk in their early 20s to men from their mid 20s to 80s playing games and just wanting to fukk in their 30s.
The only difference is a smaller net of men but our discernment has to be the same. Because who men take seriously really depends from woman to woman. And women have to move wisely out here and not just listen to anything a man is saying. Which goes back to what another poster was saying, “a man has to lead himself first to lead a woman”. A younger woman is not always as wise to the world to be able to really tell if he’s at a level that he should be in life.
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