Breh leaves his final message on Instagram

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Doesn't it feel weird knowing over 100k people liked the post lol
He basically indirectly turned into a sacrifice, like ig should just hide the likes off on that. The very word "like" on that post almost makes it seem like all those people enjoyed the fact he died. Now I know that's not true but visually it just looks like that, kinda weird.
 

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He basically indirectly turned into a sacrifice, like ig should just hide the likes off on that. The very word "like" on that post almost makes it seem like all those people enjoyed the fact he died. Now I know that's not true but visually it just looks like that, kinda weird.



How is it confusing that people "liked" the post? You can hit the button for different reasons, everybody understands that on a post like that, the likes and comments are for the friends and family to see, like a guestbook.
 

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I'm sorry but I can't sympathize with someone that chose to take their own life. That's selfish as hell. We all got problems and we all got different ways into dealing with them, but suicide should never be an option or last resort.

All he did was leave his family with unanswered questions.

Nobody asks to be born or knows what someone is going thru. Should he live the rest of his life in internal pain because someone else might be sad if he passed? It's selfish to want someone to stay when they are miserable, they aint fighting his demons or with him 24/7. R.I.P. to him
 

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Saw this earlier this week. I couldn't possibly imagine what goes through folks heads when they've had enough. No amount of "help" or "talking to a professional" can help some and that shyt makes me sad.

There's a player from a sports team I follow that is dealing with suicidal thoughts and I dread the day that I wake up and hear he took his own life.
Not necessarily. The earlier one seeks mental health treatment, the better. As soon as you even get the thought, the logical thought that suicide is an option you gotta see a professional because it will only get worse and more pervasive as time goes on.

I truly believe that suicide is largely circumstantial. It takes the right amount things to line up for a person to logically believe that suicide is a valid and realistic option. There’s stages to that. The ones the most silent about it are the closest to it because in their minds it’s already been normalized. Like high blood pressure - it’s a silent killer and only kills after it’s been with a person a long time.

And in the case of it being physically too much to handle, there’s drugs that suppress and even eliminate those thoughts.
 

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Rip to the breh.

if I go that route I’m getting drunk as shyt and doing all the drugs I’ve wanted to do and just go flying off a country road. I don’t have the gall to calmly write a loving last message and quietly offing myself. People are just built different, definitely much more considerate on multiple levels. Respect.
 

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RIP to this young Black man

Do we do enough as Black men to make sure all Black men in our lives know we are there in case they got stress or experience depression..?

When I saw the long list of friends he named, I thought “I have 1, 2 people I consider true friends...”

It’s sad that not 1 of them could help in the end, or convince him to get the therapy he needed. That’s not me throwing them under the bus. I’m just saying it’s a sad situation all around.
I would dare to say he never mentioned his struggles to them, or never told them the severity.

What I’ve learned from people in these situations is that they put up a wall around themselves and then internally blame everyone else for not trying to help. People can’t give help if they don’t know there’s a problem. With all those people he named, I’m sure at least one would’ve tried (or did try) to help him out.
 
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