Brehette asks women if theyve ever suggested exercising to increase dating options & hilarity ensues

[EARFQUAKE]

If any one of those big girls berating the OP posted on the coli their DMs would be flooded. Too many of yall are into BBWs so what's the incentive for these women to lose weight when it comes to dating? Only time you should be telling them to lose weight is for health reasons.

 

[HARLEM AL]

When I gained weight during lock down, my friends told me “to get my fat ass and child bearing hips back into the gym.” I thanked them for their services and lost the weight after a few months.

If women were that brutally honest with each other, there would be less whales washed up on the shore.

Didnt even get to this point of this post and we are saying the same shyt. You are correct! nikka will curse his man out and when he turn it around he will forever thank him.

 

[Mindfield333]

Too many of these chicks blew tf up during covid. Still using old ass pics on the dating apps pulling up 50lbs heavier like ain't no problem

Up 50 lbs is wild. I’m down like 35 and that shyt is obvious.

 

[Mook]

Unsolicited advice just makes you (or anyone) look like an ass

Friends support not judge

That type of advice is not appreciated especially if you’re not also big

Big girls know that they’re big girls

They might like their size too

If losing weight were easy, we’d all be the size we wanted

Fat lard ass babble right here. No one likes being fat, lying heffers.

 

[HARLEM AL]

98% of the outrage is the presumption it’s being done for a black man only.
These women firmly believe black men have no right to demand better, and should accept them as is.

unfortunately playa I did not want to believe this until I saw it for myself personally a few years ago. Chick at work change her whole shyt when she started talking to a white dude. She cool with me but I will forever give her the side eye lol.

 

[GR13]

98% of the outrage is the presumption it’s being done for a black man only.
These women firmly believe black men have no right to demand better, and should accept them as is.

exactly you know when you see a sista eating salads at lunch and jogging regularly in the mourning she's fed up with nikka's and trying to get a basic Brad/ average Arron/ common Carson

 

[GR13]

unfortunately playa I did not want to believe this until I saw it for myself personally a few years ago. Chick at work change her whole shyt when she started talking to a white dude. She cool with me but I will forever give her the side eye lol.

if the overall obesity rate for black women ever drop the interracial marriage rates for black women will skyrocket through the roof talking close to Asian women levels

 

[kaldurahm]

Too many of these chicks blew tf up during covid. Still using old ass pics on the dating apps pulling up 50lbs heavier like ain't no problem

This shyt got me off the online dating wave, 100% facts

Why not just post recent pictures of yourself, gotta start asking for full body video chat before meeting up.

 

[RaspberryFitted]

If any one of those big girls berating the OP posted on the coli their DMs would be flooded. Too many of yall are into BBWs so what's the incentive for these women to lose weight when it comes to dating? Only time you should be telling them to lose weight is for health reasons.

the incentive is to decrease their risk of chronic diseases such as Type 2 Diabetes, High Blood Pressure, and Cardiovascular Disease… attraction from men is a byproduct.

While I do agree black men are the most accepting of their women (can argue not by choice), to say you don’t want to change an obvious negative trait about you because of other people says more about your lack of self-love than anything.

 

[HARLEM AL]

if the overall obesity rate for black women ever drop the interracial marriage rates for black women will skyrocket through the roof talking close to Asian women levels

You might be right lmaooooo And if they ar happy, I am happy

 

[desjardins]

The numbers don't add up
If being fat hurt black women as much as dudes online claim it does it wouldn't be nearly as many fat black women out here as it is. The cultural impact would be so much the stigma among women would be engrained from the gate
The reality is that being fat has minimal effect on these women ability to get dikk or to get bum nikkas to lay up with them
Sure they might not be getting celebrity level men who have options but the majority of women regardless of size ain't getting those dudes

 

[_DC]

But, they’ll let a Brazilian cab driver playing Dr. shoot cement w/lite silicone into their asscheeks.. Hoes foolish..

 

[HARLEM AL]

The numbers don't add up
If being fat hurt black women as much as dudes online claim it does it wouldn't be nearly as many fat black women out here as it is. The cultural impact would be so much the stigma among women would be engrained from the gate
The reality is that being fat has minimal effect on these women ability to get dikk or to get bum nikkas to lay up with them
Sure they might not be getting celebrity level men who have options but the majority of women regardless of size ain't getting those dudes

It affects their ability to get the type of men they want. If they were happy just getting dikk down then they would shut the fukk up about it.

 

[feelosofer]

Forget losing weight to get a man. Black women suffer more from heart disease, diabetes, high blood pressure than any other group of women.

The problem is todays woman has no real incentive to do so because as long as they can work a job. Get regular sex and attention from men (even though its low level). Its all good.

Its also women are so scared to hurt each others feelings.

 

[EARFQUAKE]

the incentive is to decrease their risk of chronic diseases such as Type 2 Diabetes, High Blood Pressure, and Cardiovascular Disease… attraction from men is a byproduct.

While I do agree black men are the most accepting of their women (can argue not by choice), to say you don’t want to change an obvious negative trait about you because of other people says more about your lack of self-love than anything.

The incentive is for their health, not for dating.

Not sure what lack of self-love has to do with other people when it can be seen more as selfish if you refuse to change for someone else. And we're only talking about prospects.