Brehette asks women if theyve ever suggested exercising to increase dating options & hilarity ensues

[BrehWyatt]

Women lash out at woman insinuating a need for accountability.

More at 11.

At this point, I'm legitimately curious as to which concept is more triggering for women: Submission or Accountability.

 

[KidJSoul]

And that right there is why certain types of women are awful to one another. Y’all care more about not hurting your friends feelings versus being being a real friend and letting them know where their shortcomings are smh.

fukk that, my homeboy fell asleep on me on the phone because he has sleep apnea and narcolepsy because he's obese as hell. I thought his ass died and shyt, I was calling his mama and shyt. When I finally talked to him again I told him word for word 'Yo fat ass needs to lose some fukking weight before you die.' Guess what he went on a diet and got more regular exercise. You are a horrible friend if you support a friends unhealthy lifestyle, for ANY reason.

Chuuch.

That is the two thing women do the best with their friends:

- give unsolicited advice they prolly don’t follow themselves
- get fat


An engaged broad once told me she can’t wait for her wedding so she can stop
going to the gym. That was her GOAL. Plot twist: her fiancé moved out one day
when she was at work without telling her, and she’s getting fat

chicks will put anything in they mouth but a vegetable

Some of these chicks have whole dresser drawers filled with junk food while they're clothes is on the floor

Knew one bytch who had a whole flamin hot cheeto repositroy in her bedroom

all these movements largely supported by women love to append "phobic" and "shaming" to the end of something when being called out for it

Women have insulated themselves in an impenetrable fortress of bullshyt to avoid those truth bombs logic arrows and accountability lasers

how they emphatically choose to race to the bottom and keep each other delusional because "it feels good"


Since we're on the subject, he'res some fine track to fit the mood, fukk it

These women are legit sick, imagine having a friend who is obese with bad vitals and blood work on the fast track to an early grave and telling them nothing is wrong

Honestly I think some women avoid giving advice to their fat friends in order to help themselves in the hierarchy.

You know how some women intentionally take photos with their fat friends so they look more attractive by contrast?

I think it's the same dynamic. Obviously, some don't want to be mean. But I also think that there's an ego-dynamic at play.

 

[PortCityProphet]

The numbers don't add up
If being fat hurt black women as much as dudes online claim it does it wouldn't be nearly as many fat black women out here as it is. The cultural impact would be so much the stigma among women would be engrained from the gate
The reality is that being fat has minimal effect on these women ability to get dikk or to get bum nikkas to lay up with them
Sure they might not be getting celebrity level men who have options but the majority of women regardless of size ain't getting those dudes

Thats cause black men are the most accepting of anyone on earth.
Think of black women think about all the trends, fads, styles and other bullshyt they go through and do and who is always accepting of that silly shyt...black men.
Weaves, naturals, s curls, jheri curls, blow outs, bobs, roller sets, long eyelashes, long nails, skinny women, athletic women, obese ass women, women with fake asses and titties, dumb women, smart hard earning degree women,women into that weird astrology shyt, women obsessed with pointless celeb gossip and fake reality shows. It doesn't matter what goofy shyt they do for the most part we ride with them and accept it and adjust without complaining as much as we could.
We forreal love black women whether folks want to admit it or not.

 

[Mindfield333]

if the overall obesity rate for black women ever drop the interracial marriage rates for black women will skyrocket through the roof talking close to Asian women levels

Nah not for Ados black women. Not to Asian numbers but it would increase.

 

[Commish]

This may be a controversial viewpoint, but I am fine with women choosing to be overweight.

However, I hope these women are OK with delevoping health issues such as diabetes among other things?

Also, people doesn't have to accept them as partners, so I hope they are OK with that as well?

Just like they have choices, so does other people.

Decisions come with consequences.

I will say that people need to be careful with giving unsolicited advice. However, I see nothing wrong with posing a question if said person was curious about something.

I know this..

I can deal with someone who is slightly overweight, but wouldn't deal with someone who was morbidly obese.

 

[PortCityProphet]

Who are you?

Im a changed man

 

[The ADD]

Im a changed man

 

[BlaccSunrise]

@1LurkerChick9

Bring your ass back in here and address these responses towards your initial comment

 

[DaRealness]

Bottom line, I'm not dealing with no fat bytch.

I go to the gym, play sports and work out regularly. fukk I look like being with a beach whale when I'm putting in the effort for my own health and appearance? So I should make the effort but you can't because its "not easy"? fukk outta here.

No I'm not "accepting you how you are" anymore than you'd accept me if I don't meet certain criteria.

bytches like the ones who responded HATE classy women that take accountability and make simple simon suggestions to others that would actually improve lives.

I'm too old to deal with their bullshyt, so I just leave them to it. They don't realise how vile and unattractive it makes them look in the eyes of others when they attack other women like this. Misery loves company so any man with sense would just leave them to it and let them wallow in their own demise.

 

[315]

Good times

 

[Cowboyz89]

Also i don't understand this "Real friends don't judge, they support". Support what exactly? A bad habit? My closest friend suffered with alcoholism...did I support him by saying "hey man if these women don't like the fact that you drink everyday then f them they don't deserve you king" what kind of friend would i be? We gotta be honest with people and people need to stop being so sensitive...for me its simple..."what they are saying about me, is it true? Yes or no?" thats it....

Years ago I was over 300 pounds..I knew I gained weight but I didn't realize how much I gained. When I moved back to jersey from Cali all my boys looked at me like "wtf happened to you..you look sloppy" and I did...I got.myself back into the gym and put in the work. If my boys were on some "you looking good brotha lets go get these burgers and fries" they wouldve been killing me...the only thing they would've been supporting is the shortening of my lifespan

People can be honest without it being mean spirited

 

[Edub]

Women lash out at woman insinuating a need for accountability.

More at 11.

At this point, I'm legitimately curious as to which concept is more triggering for women: Submission or Accountability.

Yup…. many of them allergic to these two things

 

[Rozay Oro]

Unsolicited advice just makes you (or anyone) look like an ass

Friends support not judge

That type of advice is not appreciated especially if you’re not also big

Big girls know that they’re big girls

They might like their size too

If losing weight were easy, we’d all be the size we wanted

Losing weight is a long term goal but it’s definitely easier than most people could imagine. I say this as a former fat ass all through middle school. You get off your ass, exercise, eliminate snacking all together and even switch the diet.

 

[Rozay Oro]

Sadly the same thing can be said about how some women use God for everything

"Why lord didn't you show me the signs"

The signs were there all a long but you thought the guys fiery personality was "sexy"

"I'm a good woman lord, why do you keep sending me these bum n^**@s"

Because that's the guys you eant..you don't change up

I got a homegirl that's been dating Jesus for 6 years now. She is in her 40's and not once has she tried to change her ways...Jesus will provide the man good enough for her

The irony is Jesus in the Bible was stern and held others accountable

 

[The ADD]

Unsolicited advice just makes you (or anyone) look like an ass

Friends support not judge

That type of advice is not appreciated especially if you’re not also big

Big girls know that they’re big girls

They might like their size too

If losing weight were easy, we’d all be the size we wanted

I get the part about unsolicited advise.

In terms of liking their size………that’s well and fine until the health issues compound. If liking your size is the out then when does the realization come that it’s not the move long term?

FWIW I was hella obese for most of my life and made a change so it’s not jusgement