Brehette shares her struggle supporting 3 kids alone

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Life planning…family planning……..?


This shyt is depressing and makes me appreciate my family more and more. I just don’t understand the decision making.

Yeah one child is somewhat understandable especially if she had a dysfunctional upbringing. But 3x?

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IMO it needs to be more publicized how much it costs to raise a child in 2025 and how little child support most men pay. Schools need to bring people in and telling girls this in middle and high school.
 

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I take care of my son and don't get a dime in child support from my sons mom and we make it just fine. I know several other men in the same position I am we make it just fine. Sounds like what needs to happen is what used to happen before child support became a thing... children need to go with the parent that is better suited to taking care of them... which is usually the father.
 

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I'll never understand what people have against using birth control and/or contraception.

There's just absolutely no way I'd ever go raw with a chick if I wasn't trying to have a kid, regardless of how she looked. Best of luck to her though.
 

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I take care of my son and don't get a dime in child support from my sons mom and we make it just fine. I know several other men in the same position I am we make it just fine. Sounds like what needs to happen is what used to happen before child support became a thing... children need to go with the parent that is better suited to taking care of them... which is usually the father.

In these situations usually the father isn’t equipped. If they were she would be getting more in child support.
 

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Wish her the best I haven’t watched the video

But i wished sistas today focused on getting married first kids second

And if u end up having 1 kid , then that should be it until u actually find a husband
This

I give credit to the single moms who were at least married. Makes me feel as if she at least gave it a shot..

More points with one marriage and kids by one dude if multiple.

Even though, that still means you have to deal with being second place to the kids (don’t mind) and their father (definitely mind).

But for a chick that’s never worn a ring…. Nah. Bad decision
 

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I'll never understand what people have against using birth control and/or contraception.

I’ve run into a lot of women the last 3 years that aren’t on any type of birth control. I’ve asked them why and they said birth control messes up a woman’s body and isn’t natural. Out of ALL those women only 2 feared having a kid. And of the 2 one didn’t have any kids and the other has an 18 yr old and 10 year old.

I don’t remember a time when I ran into so many that won’t use birth control. Also, men and women don’t take having a child seriously. Won’t get married but will seed someone up.

Ultimately as a man you gotta guard your seed especially if you don’t plan on sticking around.
 
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