Brehette shares her struggle supporting 3 kids alone

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I’ve run into a lot of women the last 3 years that aren’t on any type of birth control. I’ve asked them why and they said birth control messes up a woman’s body and isn’t natural. Out of ALL those women only 2 feared having a kid. And of the 2 one didn’t have any kids and the other has an 18 yr old and 10 year old.

I don’t remember a time when I ran into so many that won’t use birth control. Also, men and women don’t take having a child seriously. Won’t get married but will seed someone up.

Ultimately as a man you gotta guard your seed especially if you don’t plan on sticking around.

Did you ask them how they plan on preventing pregnancy? Do they make the dude wrap up or use the calendar method?
 

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Hope she finds a stable career. Unfortunate that she ended up in this situation but salute to her for sharing. Hopefully some Gen Z brehettes stumble upon it and don't make the same mistake. If a law passed forcing fathers to take primary custody condom sales would skyrocket.


Abortion would be a Constitutional Amendment.
 

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Did you ask them how they plan on preventing pregnancy? Do they make the dude wrap up or use the calendar method?

The one I referenced that had no kids but didn’t use birth control (my ex) used the calendar method and wore a ring that tracked everything. The other chick I referenced no she doesn’t use any methods to prevent pregnancy. The other women as well that I’ve encountered also didn’t use any methods to prevent pregnancy. And these were all educated professionals making great money. The cliche is that bum chicks move like this but that’s just not true.

It’s been eye opening to say the least. My take away is that women just don’t care. Being a single mom isn’t shamed in society and there’s no shortage of men ok with being with a single mom. And most women want a child whether the man is around or not.
 

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When you have low self esteem, and feel
unloved, kids have a way of temporarily relieving that misery. They love you unconditionally and are genuinely excitied to see you.

You’re doing yourself a disservice in the long run tho because not many people want someone with a bunch of kids.

If I was a dictator, I’d force nikkas to marry their baby mommas and force nikkas with outside babies by other women to get snipped. Either you marry your baby momma or you going to prison :ufdup: We’d end all this nonsense in a year.
 

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If I was a dictator, I’d force nikkas to marry their baby mommas and force nikkas with outside babies by other women to get snipped. Either you marry your baby momma or you going to prison :ufdup: We’d end all this nonsense in a year.
Ok, I hear you. Now, please also state how you would punish women who are the other 50% of the problem?
 

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If I was a dictator, I’d force nikkas to marry their baby mommas and force nikkas with outside babies by other women to get snipped. Either you marry your baby momma or you going to prison :ufdup: We’d end all this nonsense in a year.
Look at these simps.
Nothing to say about removing the uterus of women who get pregnant outside of their marriage though.
Nothing about forcing women to be accountable for their behavior at all.
 

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If you get pregnant by some accident and the father isn't shyt AND you can't get an abortion...sure I feel bad for you. But a very large percentage of men and women are fukking as if pregnancy doesn't matter. Or you have women who actively want to be a single mother because the aesthetic of motherhood appeals to them. In short, a lot of very stupid people who don't take consequences seriously.

Until we kill the aesthetics there will constantly be crops of young girls growing up thinking this shyt is a game. And until we hold boys accountable there will continue being fathers who completely abandon their children.
 

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The one I referenced that had no kids but didn’t use birth control (my ex) used the calendar method and wore a ring that tracked everything. The other chick I referenced no she doesn’t use any methods to prevent pregnancy. The other women as well that I’ve encountered also didn’t use any methods to prevent pregnancy. And these were all educated professionals making great money. The cliche is that bum chicks move like this but that’s just not true.

It’s been eye opening to say the least. My take away is that women just don’t care. Being a single mom isn’t shamed in society and there’s no shortage of men ok with being with a single mom. And most women want a child whether the man is around or not.

That’s wild. I’m sure most of them probably wouldn’t keep the baby if the got pregnant by a bum tho.
 
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