Brehettes: How do you feel about guys moving slow?

[I SEEN THAT LIGHT]

I was feeling this chick, but she told me she just wanted to be friends. I realize I was moving way too slow with her. I was trying to be the "nice guy" and show her that I wanted more than just to fukk, but by doing that, I ended up throwing myself into the friendzone.

Have any of you had a guy do that with you? How did you react? Did you think he was a lame/gay/virgin because he didn't make a move? I'm not trying to get at this chick again, but I need to make sure I don't make the same mistakes with the next girl.

 

[Stay Seeking]

She just wasn't feeling you breh, anytime a female says she wants to be friends, you're not a priority...

 

[Arishok]

I don't think I've ever friend zoned a guy

 

[bcrusaderw]

She might have not been attracted to you. Sucks, but that's life.

 

[thirdeye]

I love it. I don't like to be rushed into dating so if he's willing to take it slow. I'm down but only if I'm the only one he's taking it slow.

 

[I SEEN THAT LIGHT]

She just wasn't feeling you breh, anytime a female says she wants to be friends, you're not a priority...

She might have not been attracted to you. Sucks, but that's life.

That's what I thought at first, and I was cool with it.

But I found out a few days ago that she DTF when we went out, but I didn't make a move. She wasn't even wearing panties that night.

 

[Arishok]

That's what I thought at first, and I was cool with it.

But I found out a few days ago that she DTF when we went out, but I didn't make a move. She wasn't even wearing panties that night.

Why didn't you hit

 

[I SEEN THAT LIGHT]

Why didn't you hit

I was trying not to rush into things.

 

[Arishok]

I was trying not to rush into things.

 

[Gully Bull]

I was trying not to rush into things.

There are plenty of things I want to say to console, teach and broaden your perspective but I'm literally on the floor laughing my ass off

 

[I SEEN THAT LIGHT]

Did I fukk up bad?

There are plenty of things I want to say to console, teach and broaden your perspective but I'm literally on the floor laughing my ass off

Help me learn from my mistakes, breh.

 

[Black Magisterialness]

Can't fukk em all

Honestly, you prolly fukked up not just being up front. Nothing wrong with wanting more than sex...but lots of "nice guy" ass nikkas don't let women know they are attracted to them.

 

[Elle Driver]

Just gotta be upfront instead of wasting time, because most ladies won't make the move first.

 

[IronFist]

subs to this

 

[miranda]

What do you mean by slow? What was the timeline? Do u not initiate any sexual contact whatsoever?