Brehettes how would u react if your child's father

[Tenchi Ryu]

Women showing they ass on this one

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[Henri Christophe]

Women are corny.


Always juelz'ing some bullshyt lol.

 

[Easy-E]

I would agree and hold it over his head for as long as we were together.

I would bring it up very regularly.

Exactly. I hope he's ready for long term passive aggressiveness lol.

Has he been burned by a false paternity in the past. What cause does he have not to trust me?

I mean, if he thinks I'm a hoe and doesn't trust me, why is he in a relationship with me?

Sounds like a damaged man projecting his hurt and insecurities on me. I'd tell him to get the test, suggest we open the results together and then dump him bc with that level of paranoia and irrational thoughts and actions, he surely has more false ideas about me. Life comes with enough bullshyt to have deal with that much at home.

Definitely would be offended but I would do the same if I was a man..maybe, if the kid really didn’t look like me...I wouldn’t hold it against him forever but I would bring it up occasionally

And tell me that before we get to the hospital, don’t spring that shyt on me after I was just was in labor for 15 hours

He can do it and after it's done, and it proves he's the father (because there will be no question) I'm leaving him. how tf you gonna watch me go through fukkin hell getting a baby here then spit in my face. smfh the disrespect.

I'd be extremely offended curse him out and tell him to stick it where the sun don't shine.

How dare you

I understand being offended, but, why are ya'll offended to the point you'd leave? Seems extreme. You like dude enough to have a baby with him, but, you'd leave?

I understanding saying "no" and talking it out like an adult, but, this level of anger is wild.

 

[Lifejennings]

Why ask? You don't need anything from the mother to perform the test. Just get it done. The kid's yours great. The kid isn't yours air her out. Asking is akin to accusing someone of some pretty foul behavior. Anyone would be offended if they were accused of something so awful especially if they aren't guilty.

 

[Entropy Fan]

I understand being offended, but, why are ya'll offended to the point you'd leave? Seems extreme. You like dude enough to have a baby with him, but, you'd leave?

I understanding saying "no" and talking it out like an adult, but, this level of anger is wild.

Hard to pull a con job when the mark is suspicious and asking questions

 

[Pit Bull]

This thread proves women are stupid.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

You're comparing a DNA test to access to his technology? The difference is he owns whatever it is you're trying to look through. The child isn't yours only. You're saying trade like you own the child and he doesn't have the right to know if the child is his unless he has private information to "trade"

His dikk and what he does with it while we are in a relationship has an affect on my life.

So I'm good on the spirit of DNA testing, b/c it sets a precedence for full transparency. That's a great thing! And if nobody got anything to hide then it should be light work.

 

[Easy-E]

Hard to pull a con job when the mark is suspicious and asking questions

I wanna call you out...but, there's no reason to be that mad at a man wanting a paternity test.

This is the reason I don't wanna get married. This is a simple "no" and tell dude why.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

This is fair. If I was married, I'd hand my shyt over to my wife no question.

Because I know how women feel we are dogs, even if we individually are not. It gives her peace of mind and gets her off my ass. I dont like having my neck being breathed down

A paternity test is not because of misogynist. Men and Women cheat at similar rates. People emotionally slip up or give into desires. Someone could fukk another person and realize how much they actually loved their spouse. Especially within work related environments. I think for another life form coming into the world, it's important to know. Men who actually are family oriented and stay with their families care A LOT about having a legitimate heir.

I thot it was fair too. But people only wannabe open when it benefits them. That's when all the b-b-buts come thru when they are called to uphold the spirit of what they put out.

 

[MikelArteta]

trust brehs

 

[The Fade]

I thot it was fair too. But people only wannabe open when it benefits them. That's when all the b-b-buts come thru when they are called to uphold the spirit of what they put out.

Well marriage is sacrifice, so if I'm going that far, I'm showing and proving. Both sides are supposed to be showing and proving. I mean that's why men and women are having infidelities because one side stops reaffirming. One person cant be like "your job as my spouse is to keep affirming/reaffirming" but when someone asks for them to affirm, be like "oh so you dont trust me, why would you get with me if you dont trust me? something something my magical disney feelings are hurt something something fake deep connection babble"

Marriage is a BUILDING contract that can be backed by love. So why not ensure the contract stays fulfilled?

 

[Pit Bull]

I know a dusty white bytch got three nikkas tied up right now behind some grown ass damn baby, don't know who the damn daddy is. One of them nikkas is my cousin, his mama be keeping the boy wit her other grandkids and shyt looking like some damn fools, whole time the boy named after and look like the nikka who everybody else think fathered him and the nikka she was wit when she got pregnant think it's his too, Don't look a Goddamn thing like him either Same cousin got two other kids that may or may not be his by some mixed bytch, they looking like like other nikkas the bytch fukked, his mama take care of them too wit her slow, scary ass, nice ass. I don't even think he was fukkin the bytch when she got pregnant.

A bytch ain't gon never have me fukked up. I learned from other nikkas mistakes. Ain't no Boo Boo the fools over here. Growing up watching these damn fools had me wanting a paternity test before I even lost my virginityidgaf how mad a bytch get.

 

[Ashley Banks]

I understand being offended, but, why are ya'll offended to the point you'd leave? Seems extreme. You like dude enough to have a baby with him, but, you'd leave?

I understanding saying "no" and talking it out like an adult, but, this level of anger is wild.

I wouldn’t be able to get over it. I know myself. This isn’t something small, you’re saying you don’t trust me and you think I’m such a rotten person that I would lie to you and our child about who the father is.

 

[Easy-E]

I wouldn’t be able to get over it. I know myself. This isn’t something small, you’re saying you don’t trust me and you think I’m such a rotten person that I would lie to you and our child about who the father is.

Question; you step out--

nobody's perfect, so, I don't wanna hear about what you'd never ever do--

--you step out, peace up with you man, never tell him, he gets you pregnant in the month

be honest, you'd have that same energy about him asking?

I'm just tired of people have such sanctimony about "trust" when they usually don't trust they're s.o.

Checking people phones isn't a trope for no reason

And people who cheat "just once" give them selves all types of excuses not to feel bad about themselves

And this ain't able women individually, collectively, I think it's in a man's best interest and in turn he's gonna take care of you and that child for 18 years

Seems like a fair trade, to me

 

[Ashley Banks]

Question; you step out--

nobody's perfect, so, I don't wanna hear about what you'd never ever do--

--you step out, peace up with you man, never tell him, he gets you pregnant in the month

be honest, you'd have that same energy about him asking?

I'm just tired of people have such sanctimony about "trust" when they usually don't trust they're s.o.

Checking people phones isn't a trope for no reason

And people who cheat "just once" give them selves all types of excuses not to feel bad about themselves

And this ain't able women individually, collectively, I think it's in a man's best interest and in turn he's gonna take care of you and that child for 18 years

Seems like a fair trade, to me

If I cheated that means I can’t be trusted, so I can’t get mad at him for not trusting me.

But I’m not a cheater, I’ve only had sex with my husband. I just wouldn’t want to stay, something like that would bother me a lot, it’s not something I would be able to just let go. If he feels like he can’t trust me and I’m capable of doing something like that then he can get a dna test and I won’t attempt to stop him. But the marriage is over.

Idk maybe if you knew my husband then you’d understand. He always believes me, no matter what. So for him to go from always trusting me to asking for a dna test would be a big deal.