Brehettes how would u react if your child's father

[skokiaan]

Unfaithful thot on here acting like you have to study for a dna test..shyt takes less than 2 seconds and you dont have to do anything..and atleast one of your kids can have a legit father

 

[The Fade]

Unfaithful thot on here acting like you have to study for a dna test..shyt takes less than 2 seconds and you dont have to do anything..and atleast one of your kids can have a legit father

This is what happens when people learn about love and relationships from Disney

 

[Black Barbie]

I wouldn't mind if it was something brought up when we start discussing having kids. I just wouldn't want it dropped on me all of a sudden.

 

[little4209]

I understand being offended, but, why are ya'll offended to the point you'd leave? Seems extreme. You like dude enough to have a baby with him, but, you'd leave?

I understanding saying "no" and talking it out like an adult, but, this level of anger is wild.

You quoted me but I never said that I would leave

I see it from both sides, I’d be offended but I wouldn’t leave because I’d that

 

[CinnaSlim]

The shyt I've heard about from the guys I know, I wouldn't be offended.

But I also wouldn't hold that as an example of lack of trust. Becausee there are other factors. If I was a dude, I might do it too. People are triflin out here.

 

[BmoreGorilla]

Ive gotten a paternity test before but that was years ago with someone I wasn't in a relationship with. If its my long term gf or wife tho I gotta trust she aint that its mine. Why am I in a relationship if I don't trust her?

 

[Shorty K]

These sluts really saying if we get to learn if a kid is ours they get access to our phones

 

[NotAnFBIagent]

Ive gotten a paternity test before but that was years ago with someone I wasn't in a relationship with. If its my long term gf or wife tho I gotta trust she aint that its mine. Why am I in a relationship if I don't trust her?

didnt your wife cheat though

 

[timeless]

I would be upset yet understanding.

If I trust you enough to carry your baby I think it isn't asking too much to trust that its yours. I could see if trust wasn't always there...but if that's the case I'm not getting pregnant anyhow.

Understanding because one day I might do something (not against you) that you'd be uncomfortable with me doing...and you'll have to live with it. Either way, we sticking it out ☺

 

[BmoreGorilla]

didnt your wife cheat though

Yea and I knew Id never trust her again so I divorced her

 

[O.T.I.S.]

The shyt I've heard about from the guys I know, I wouldn't be offended.

But I also wouldn't hold that as an example of lack of trust. Becausee there are other factors. If I was a dude, I might do it too. People are triflin out here.

Still out here keeping it 1000

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Choose better

This whole post is your prerogative since this is all based on your life and experience. If you tell That to your girl and she is cool with it good for y’all.

I am talking about a having to deal with someone not trusting you. Not everything a person has gone through in a relationship obviously. It goes beyond cheating to me. I could never do that, I’d rather leave.

I said what I said, we can disagree. It’s not common for me I haven’t seen it in real life with people a know personally. I also don’t deal with people I don’t/ can’t trust. I’m not naive but without me putting myself into a position to get hurt or used you have a clean slate with me and then your actions determine who you are to me.

I did choose better, multiple times

just because you haven't seen shyt with people you know personally doesn't mean it doesn't, hasn't, and won't ever happen to any of them or you as well.

Now I'm supposed to believe peoples character are so high that they have never or won't ever do some shady shyt to anyone... That sounds familiar

Like I said, it has nothing to do with not trusting them. I need to know without a shadow of a doubt it's mines. I need RECEIPTS for my personal security. If I'm investing in ANYTHING I need proof.


And no one never just puts themselves in fukked up situations normally... That was a nice low shot but it is what it is. You can act like I'm making shyt up and you and your circle are exempt from NORMAL shyt that happens in life. Just because you are oblivious doesn't mean it doesn't happen.

So now the bail out is to stay away from hoes

As if these so called good girls don't be getting caught up in bullshyt too.

Miss me with all that
:coreynikkaplease:

Yeah I caught that...

 

[Entropy Fan]

Yea and I knew Id never trust her again so I divorced her

But you have to catch her cheating to not trust her. What if she cheated and you didn't ever figure out? Could easily be raising someone else's kid. Your playing with fire with that mindset.

 

[BmoreGorilla]

But you have to catch her cheating to not trust her. What if she cheated and you didn't ever figure out? Could easily be raising someone else's kid. Your playing with fire with that mindset.

Its not like I accidentally got her pregnant. We planned to have a child and we had sex every night until it happened which didn't take long. This was years before she started having an affair btw

 

[AKM-95]

My mom always drummed into my head to always ask for a DNA test no matter what so when I have a kid she's just gonna have to be mad.....