Brehettes how would u react if your child's father

[*Angel*]

I mean, if he thinks I'm a hoe and doesn't trust me, why is he in a relationship with me?

Sounds like a damaged man projecting his hurt and insecurities on me. I'd tell him to get the test, suggest we open the results together and then dump him bc with that level of paranoia and irrational thoughts and actions, he surely has more false ideas about me. Life comes with enough bullshyt to have deal with that much at home.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

It aint about trust its about personal security

If there is any doubt in my mind I want the test and she should be cool with it as well.

My nikka just went through some bullshyt like this (he's paranoid af) but some chick just randomly came around like 7 months after they fukked saying the kid was his and he didn't believe her

Wanted a test and she refused and she was fukking with another nikka during the time too

Somehow he snuck a test without her knowing and turned out kid was NOT his. He showed her the results and she started going crazy while nikka just bounced and never talked to her again

Rather be safe than sorry. If she doesn't want to be with me afterwards I honestly wouldn't care knowing that at least the kid is mines. As long as she takes care of her end I'm cool

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Wanted a dna test soon as the baby was born

No problem.

 

[Mac Brown]

I mean, if he thinks I'm a hoe and doesn't trust me, why is he in a relationship with me?

Sounds like a damaged man projecting his hurt and insecurities on me. I'd tell him to get the test, suggest we open the results together and then dump him bc with that level of paranoia and irrational thoughts and actions, he surely has more false ideas about me. Life comes with enough bullshyt to have deal with that much at home.

It should be just apart of the birthing process to establish paternity for the childs sake and the medical history of both parents. Nothing to do with feelings. It would also make it so the father can't run off and deny anything later on.

 

[*Angel*]

It should be just apart of the birthing process to establish paternity for the childs sake and the medical history of both parents. Nothing to do with feelings. It would also make it so the father can't run off and deny anything later on.

But its not is it, so it has everything to do with feelings, the man's specifically.

 

[Take It In Blood]

it shouldn't be something you have to demand


it should be a requirement by law before signing a birth certificate

 

[Maxine Shaw]

Should be a requirement regardless. I wouldn't mind at all unless I had a reason to be worried.

 

[Critical Distance]

I mean, if he thinks I'm a hoe and doesn't trust me, why is he in a relationship with me?

Sounds like a damaged man projecting his hurt and insecurities on me. I'd tell him to get the test, suggest we open the results together and then dump him bc with that level of paranoia and irrational thoughts and actions, he surely has more false ideas about me. Life comes with enough bullshyt to have deal with that much at home.

^ Individual that is most likely to cheat in this thread.

 

[*Angel*]

^ Individual that is most likely to cheat in this thread.

Dap fishing dumb talk.

Eat bruh

 

[MR. SNIFLES]

YOU DON'T NEED THE MOTHER'S PERMISSION IF YOU'RE THE FATHER. YOU DEMAND THE TEST STRAIGHT FROM THE DOCTOR. I'M NOT ASKING HER FOR A DNA TEST. I'M ASKING THE HOSPITAL. MY NAME AIN'T GOING ON ANYTHING UNTIL THEN. THAT'S JUST BUSINESS.

SHE BETTER NOT UTTER A WORD ABOUT TRUST EITHER. TRUST DIDN'T KEEP YA ASS FROM ASKING TO LOOK THROUGH MY PHONE.

 

[Fun Sized Psycho]

I guess it really depends on whether we are in a relationship or not.

I'd def be insulted, because I'd feel like he thought I was fukking everyone. But if we weren't together, then I guess it would be warranted.

But I do think it should be mandatory when parents to be aren't married

 

[little4209]

Definitely would be offended but I would do the same if I was a man..maybe, if the kid really didn’t look like me...I wouldn’t hold it against him forever but I would bring it up occasionally

And tell me that before we get to the hospital, don’t spring that shyt on me after I was just was in labor for 15 hours

 

[Ashley Banks]

He can do it and after it's done, and it proves he's the father (because there will be no question) I'm leaving him. how tf you gonna watch me go through fukkin hell getting a baby here then spit in my face. smfh the disrespect.

 

[Brock Landers]

Definitely would be offended but I would do the same if I was a man..maybe, if the kid really didn’t look like me...I wouldn’t hold it against him forever but I would bring it up occasionally

And tell me that before we get to the hospital, don’t spring that shyt on me after I was just was in labor for 15 hours

He's gonna hit you with that DNA test and prenup at the same damn time

 

[SlimeyLilDude]

Only a woman that's cheating and not sure would have a problem with a man wanting to get a DNA test. You should want the father to know he's the father without any doubts.