Brehettes how would u react if your child's father

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That L if the baby is actually yours and then the broad breaks up and slaps child support on you for not trusting her. :lolbron:

I'm not paranoid like that but if I ever get that feeling to check it's gonna be done on the low.
 

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No it has to do with establishing parternal certainty/responsibility and genetics for possible medical conditions for that child

It would also cut down on court cost

I'm not disagreeing with you, I'm simply saying it doesn't exist. There are no interventions in the birthing process that establish paternity for both parents so elaborating on the benefits of that help is irrelevant to how a woman reacts in this scenario.

I personally have a problem with the need to have a scapegoat, which is always a third party intervening to do what some people don't have the intellectual capacity or self control to do for themselves when it comes to sex, but could it help? Of course, but that's another convo.

This is some situationship type mess where folks are just fkn with no loyalties to one another, and a DNA test makes perfect since in that scenario but not with a woman your in a relationship with unless cheating or some type of plausible foul play was suspected beforehand.

If men want to get a kid tested it makes more sense overall to do it privately, that way you don't offend the woman if the kid turns out to be yours (and you won't look like an irrational paranoid fool), but if the kid is not yours confront the woman and bounce (because yall will surely leave her if its not your kid but y'all wanna act offended if she leaves you for calling her a hoe and acting on your crazy if the kid turns out to be yours).
 
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That L if the baby is actually yours and then the broad breaks up and slaps child support on you for not trusting her. :lolbron:

I'm not paranoid like that but if I ever get that feeling to check it's gonna be done on the low.
What does this even mean? :mjlol: A woman gonna put a man a child support if they want to, you going on some what ifs inception sh.

Don't be that sucka raising your girl's side nikka's baby.
 

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That L if the baby is actually yours and then the broad breaks up and slaps child support on you for not trusting her. :lolbron:

I'm not paranoid like that but if I ever get that feeling to check it's gonna be done on the low.

Men need to move like women. Don't ask or show your cards ...

Take the DNA test on the low and if it's yours live your life without saying sh!t

If it isn't ...slowly start to sabotage the relationship and have a lawyer on retainer
 

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I'm not disagreeing with you, I'm simply saying it doesn't exist. There are no interventions in the birthing process that establish paternity for both parents so elaborating on the benefits of that help is irrelevant to how a woman reacts in this scenario.

I personally have a problem with the need to have a scapegoat, which is always a third party intervening to do what some people don't have the intellectual capacity or self control to do for themselves when it comes to sex, but could it help? Of course, but that's another convo.

This is some situationship type mess where folks are just fkn with no loyalties to one another, and a DNA test makes perfect since in that scenario but not with a woman your in a relationship with unless cheating or some type of plausible foul play was suspected beforehand.

If men want to get a kid tested it makes more sense overall to do it privately, that way you don't offend the woman if the kid turns out to be yours (and you won't look like an irrational paranoid fool), but if the kid is not yours confront the woman and bounce (because yall will surely leave her if its not your kid but y'all wanna act offended if she leaves you for calling her a hoe and acting on your crazy if the kid turns out to be yours).
Then its justified to break up with a woman that goes through your phone and finds nothing?
 

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Men need to move like women. Don't ask or show your cards ...

Take the DNA test on the low and if it's yours live your life without saying sh!t

If it isn't ...slowly start to sabotage the relationship and have a lawyer on retainer
The problem with this is that if you do it this way, you've already signed the birth certificate which means you're on the hook if it isn't yours.
 

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Don't sign the birth certificate ... :yeshrug:
But not signing the birth certificate isn't moving like women because we've shown our "I don't believe you" cards. Maybe some aspects of life can see us play the game like women but I don't think doubt/confirmation of your bloodline is one of them. Either you address the doubt head-on, or you play with fire and find out later.
 
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