Brehettes say that a man isn't a real friend if he refuses to help a woman because she has a bf

[GoAggieGo.]

1) why can’t her man help her?

2) how would he feel if another man is in her crib helping her with things he’s not?

To number 2, they’ll say her man is insecure if he has a problem with that or has a problem with his girl having male friends. They’ll try to shame him into acceptance.

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

One thing not mentioned is there are levels to friendships. They obviously weren’t close enough (if any of this is real) to be asking to come over to freaking paint. Women thrive on exploiting ducks. I’ve been a duck before to keep it honest. She thought dude was a duck. I’m from Dade County, where dudes that are having relations with these women would have no qualms of telling them to find another dude to do that.

She will move accordingly.

 

[BigMoneyGrip]

As it should be. No one with female friends can ever give me a straight answer. One woman is a enough to deal with, the fukk do I want to hear another woman vent to me about her bullshyt? I’m no ones surrogate boyfriend.

These married men with female friends are the ones these women have to watch. I’ve seen it all.

I learn at a young age back in high school about that bullshyt.. vowed I’d never be a females personal vent… Broad want to vent to you about her man knowing push come to shove she ain’t bushing that nikka for you even if you trying to smash… Like bytch go tell that shyt to ya girl friends..

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

Nothin wrong with having female colleagues and acquaintances, that’s absolutely fine and makes sense. I have plenty of those. I’m talking in your personal life.

we might do lunch but again that's a grey zone area and it's a little too grey for me mostly because the convos lead to jokes and comfort which is cool if that's all it is but that can start a web where u start feelin the other person... any sort of "date" should be reserved when people are single..

Men and women ... some don't wanna hear this but we are here to form sexual relationships. Friends is not what we are wired to be.. it's very difficult to maintain when you are born to hunt ...

that's like caveman befriending the deer and then plants. Alright but u are gonna eat something? That's what it's here for..

 

[feelosofer]

Ol' boy is trying to be the fallback dude. If the roles were reversed the dude would have been assed out because she would have to check with her man before giving out anything. He was right not to give her anything but it looks like he folded.

The follies of youth.

I'm all for treating women fairly and with respect but I'm not for men being used.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

I learn at a young age back in high school about that bullshyt.. vowed I’d never be a females personal vent… Broad want to vent to you about her man knowing push come to shove she ain’t bushing that nikka for you even if you trying to smash… Like bytch go tell that shyt to ya girl friends..

We all had to learn at some point. It took dating a stripper to turn me from a simp to a HOH general.

It takes dating the scummiest women to really put a man on game sometimes. God bless that whore.

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

fukk I look like helping somebody paint
While an able bodied nikka sitting on the couch
Drinking a beer
These hoes delusional as fukk

 

[MajesticLion]

Almost anything is possible.

Likely is another story.

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

It's an immature, odd response. A better one would simply be to make up an excuse for why you can't help...if you don't want to. Painting is not something that requires a dude, like say...moving a bookshelf into a new apartment. Most women who need to paint are going to ask their girlfriends to come over. Paint, drink wine, order some food...have a good time. Hell if a dude had to paint he'd likely do the same thing, but replace the wine with beer. So saying "don't you have a man" seems weird when my first thought would have been uh...don't you have girlfriends?

No... you're wrong because at the end of the day "don't you have girlfriends?" is the same reply. it's a role for her girlfriends OR her man.. it's not a role for a male friend. She realizes that ain't his role... so she was wrong for even asking the question.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Men and women ... some don't wanna hear this but we are here to form sexual relationships. Friends is not what we are wired to be.. it's very difficult to maintain when you are born to hunt ...

that's like caveman befriending the deer and then plants. Alright but u are gonna eat something? That's what it's here for..

Yup. Nothing screams red flag more than a woman that has mostly male friends because “she doesn’t get on with other women.” Any woman like that is to be avoided.

 

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[TAYLONDO SAMSWORTHY]

Seeing this fake sounding text. This whole scenario most likely never happened and she just made this up for clout.

 

[13473]

Thats bs cuz a lot of women won't financially help a friend with a man.

She picked a man who wont do her favors and instead of picking someone different she wanna blame others

If a man with a gf asked her to come cook him dinner she gonna ask where is his girl

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

Yup. Nothing screams red flag more than a woman that has mostly male friends because “she doesn’t get on with other women.” Any woman like that is to be avoided.

i know a few and they tend to just be with their man at all times and have no friends at all.. but that's better than having guy friends. Has to be shytty for the man that they around all the time but they ain't cheatin

 

[Ironman]

You gotta dude ask him first