What do you define as rape culture?
shyt like men acting as if a woman is “asking for it” if she is in any clothing they deem as too revealing.
Feeling entitled to having control over a female’s body or what she does with it.
Excusing sexual predators by blaming victims even if they are underaged. “Them girls fast!” Or trivializing female sexual assault and only caring about predators if they are gay.
Putting the onus on women to restrict their lives to avoid sexual predation instead of normalizing male sexual restraint and self-control.
All of these speak to a culture where men don’t wish to have any sexual accountability. And they will claim that it’s impossible to create a culture of male respect for female humanity, b/c they want to lean into their sexual urges.
Biologically it makes sense. Average guy has enough sperm to impregnate the world. So yeah. That sex drives makes some wanna just focus primarily on fukking as much as possible, damn the rest.
(Why do I have that internet meme “IM THE JUGGERNAUT bytch!” stuck in my head?
)
But at the same time, we are capable of self-control and conditioning. And hyperhorniess is a learned behavior.
The idea that a chick in the club with a tight dress on just gotta get her ass slapped in modern society, when chicks were naked in market places and gathering food unaccosted in their communities back in the day means we learned to be ignorant.
And if we learned to be ignorant, we can also do better. AND…I don’t think we have to shame men out of their sexuality or turn them into women to do it either. Because who wants that shyt.
Which is where I
when it comes to feminism.
I strive earnestly for balance and common sense. But the world gon world I guess.
peace
? If she's not harrassed than she will be stared at. So she can come at me with attitude and defiant if she wants to. I will know exactly who she is at that point. Due to my unborn sons advanced mouthpiece,I will have to take him out of there for both their sake.
