But the problem is OP mentioned all of that without talking about how men literally created a world that fukked women up in the head and actively continue to contribute to that culture with slut shaming, Virgin/whore complexes, dangling commitment as a prize for being minimally sexual and then still magically wanting pornstars in relationships. All kinds of inconsistent shyt.
Until dudes get together and say “Ya’ll know what…we really fukked up” and then actively make a culture that supports female sexuality instead of doing weird shyt like getting mad that women make money on OnlyFans while beating their dikks, or talking out of one side of their necks about conservative values, while beating their meat to the same chicks they claim to hate or escalating to sex immediately then some women will continue respond to these mixed messages in fukked up ways because male society tells them one thing, while wanting to fukk another.
And we won’t even mention the whole sexual predators preying on young girls and grown ass men blaming them for it and how that fukks up entire generations, while we keep having to “stay on code” about the Robert Kelly’s doing damage.
But beyond that reality, for women to become what OP desires, they have to stop giving a damn about shame, and live for themselves. But when that happens, OP is still gonna have some issues b/c when women understand they can cum without you…sometimes better than when you aren’t around, AND they dealing with an attitude like the OPs, what do they need you for? Men wanna overestimate their dikk’s ability which is why some resentfully ignore the clit. They also want to ignore the mental and the emotional and focus solely on the technical but get mad when women aint getting wet…even tho they haven’t done anything to cultivate a sensual environment.
Some also only have porn as their primary sexual education so they don’t know what the hell they doing either and then women should just get randomly wet and ready for any old Joe Blow that comes through.
But OP I want you to seriously think about that. We want to experience a partner’s touch taking us over that edge. That’s the whole point of intimacy. An exchange of energy.
If you can’t or even worse don’t want to, why the fukk are we fukking?
Respectfully.
Some dudes be literally shooting themselves in the foot before they even start the race with this attitude.
I don’t get this.

#vinegarcourtship is so lame and illogical.
“Yeah bytch. I ain’t gon take you on no date. Fukk romance. Or stability. Or any incentive to deal with me. You just gon get this wack ass dikk and b.c I don’t even like you that much, I don’t even care if you cum. Fukk intimacy or your clit or anything that might give you satisfaction or a reason to even be here. That’s on you. Chicken wings and fries! And if you say something about it, Imma whine about bytches and feminists.
But nah, frfr why wouldn’t you wanna submit to that. Lemme talk to you boo.”

If you don’t get how this attitude is problematic, you probably won’t understand why a lotta women don’t wanna even deal with a lotta dudes these days.
I guess there’ll just be more pet babies and chicks marrying their clitmaster3000s.
