Brehs are still trying to talk to brehettes in the gym?

[JordanwiththeWiz]

Free promo how much you wanna bet he ask this dude to do that. Social media is nothing but smoke and mirrors.

 

[the cool]

Messing with a chick from your gym can be disastrous. Trust me

i'll go even further as to talking to anyone male or female you see in the gym can be disastrous. you chop it up with a random and you see him there the next day and the next day etc. now you force to say wassup or small talk. i just wanna work out and leave

 

[ndthentherewasx]

Make an omelet , crack some eggs

Bat swing, homerun

Worth the squeeze

 

[Bossino]

He ain’t have to do that. She was doing her workout and he barging in tryna be extra.. BUT.. brehs will tell other brehs to cold approach anywhere — gas station, book store, mall, library, hospital, classroom, heard a nikka say he pulled sum at a funeral — but for some reason the gym off limits?

If you see sum you like, go in respectfully and bow out respectfully if the spark ain’t there. I can see how damaging the Internet is to younger men getting mixed messages.

Pragmatic young men such as myself just ignore women altogether at this point

 

[Dwight Howard]

Imagine if we, as black men, were as invested in one another as too many of us are in chasing/obsessing over/annoying women. Imagine getting this type of treatment from another black man. Imagine witnessing, and experiencing, another black man being so concerned with your comfort and general well-being. The things we could achieve as a collective. I type out this message on a forum that continues to fall apart while its maintainers couldn’t even be bothered to issue a forum wide announcement about what’s going on. How little we care for one another that we can’t even be bothered to communicate effectively. Imagine.

Man what?

 

[Bossino]

the thing is, some posters are saying don't "cold approach", because that's dead


however there are a lot of women who say they will never approach a man even if they are attracted to him, so what do you do ?

Not a damn thing it's simple, if more men realized women were accessories, not necessities these women couldn't act the way they do

 

[Kuma the Bear]

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[Phitz]

that was creepy especially since she was just sitting there and he could’ve easily asked…nikka just really decided to try and slide a mat under her ass lmaooo smh

I dont' think he knew that it was "creepy" or over the top. In her second post she says he does the same thing for the guys as well. I think he was trying to be polite but doesnt understand there is a nuance or finesse do doing nice things for people.

Alot of people can be what I call aggressive polite or aggressive friendly, kind of over doing it and comes off as pushy and annoying. They lack the etiquette. Like opening the door for you and pushing you in.

 

[R=G]

fukk this bytch lmaooo

How about just work out late night when no one is around? Silly.

 

[R=G]

What that dude did is clown shyt, the lack of awareness some men have is absolutely shameful

Lucky they don't gave indian dudes..I ain't never er anyone beg women online more than them. It's utterly insane.

 

[richaveli83]

the thing is, some posters are saying don't "cold approach", because that's dead


however there are a lot of women who say they will never approach a man even if they are attracted to him, so what do you do ?

fukk all that. I cold approach and will continue to cold approach. As long as you're not disrespectful and read the room then it's whatever.

 

[Rawtid]

Not a damn thing it's simple, if more men realized women were accessories, not necessities these women couldn't act the way they do

Lol men have been feeling this way, that’s why they would walk up to a stranger and hand them a mat without asking or any other boundary testing action that some men often execute.

Viewing women as necessities and vice versa is really the key to improved relationships between in another. You’ll never value something you feel could be easily replaced.

 

[Won Won]

How about just work out late night when no one is around? Silly.

How about just work out whenever it’s convenient?

 

[DamienWayne]

Let's see how good her women's only gym does , girls go to the gym FOR attention why u think they come in there wearing skin tight super hero outfits . U ever see a man in a skin tight onesie squatting ?

 

[SheWantTheD]

you makin false equivalencies just like every other poster on this forum. working out in sweaty leggings and a sports bra is vulnerable and women dont wanna be hit on while they got titty sweat and they outta breath get the fukk out of here who are you advocating for??

I have no clue who you are but you are WRONG and let me tell you why.

I have to pretend like I don’t notice the girl next to me is staring at me, purposely turning so her ass is in plain view. Women will follow you around the gym, workout next to you, stare, purposely walk past your line of sight multiple times hoping they catch your attention.

They will stare at you through the reflection of the mirror. You know how many women in the gym are with some dude and they are staring a little too hard?

The other day I’m doing drag curls on the smith machine and a girl across the room with some guy can’t stop staring at me through the mirror in front of me. Do many just want attention and validation? Yes.

You can’t tell me no bs like women are self conscious being in a sports bra and leggings. Maybe the ones that are insecure about their bodies.

But best believe if a woman wants your attention she will put on the brightest sports bra and leggings/booty shorts she can find.

If you ain’t that dude just say it.