Brehs how did you get over your ex?

[MikelArteta]

Trust me I've been there, literally saw a ex get engaged in my face because i accepted friendship

Wnd more likely she's dating

I see both sides and what y’all are saying. I think it would benefit me to meet new women and have some fun, but don’t put 100% into believing that’s the only cure. I definitely could use a new smile, feet eyes to have around me.

This is what I was fearing too. I think she already is, she just doesn’t want to tell me but she won’t have to cause I don’t want to be around to see it

 

[bucks3115]

Been through this

fukk 2 different hoes still couldnt forget

Then i met this pretty young thang , fukk her in the same week , it was so awesome that i forgot abt my ex


Stay busy and meet other girls

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

If you were in my shoes how would go about it? I’m a young breh, 22. Still learning. Just need some advice. Would you just cut her off or would you tell her before hand?

Tell her you can't be friends because you still have feelings for her. Let her know if there is no chance of getting back together, you need to complete space from her to move on. Let her know you don't hate her, you just can't be friends at this time.

As far as how you feel, it just takes time to get over it. Every coli dude acts like its so simple, just fukk hoes and get money yet you'll see in other threads these same dudes never had a real relationship in their lives, half struggle just to talk to girls and the other half don't get p*ssyy. Lean on your friends more, go out, get involved in a new activity or go harder in ine you're already involved in, do things that make you laugh/happy, and if/when you're ready, start dating again or smash randoms - but do it in your own time and take the path that feels right for you.

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

I still wanted her in my life as a friend. I guess a part of me wanted to have a chance to get back together. A part of me also wanted her to see, if we don’t get back together, that I could be better without her instead of leaving feeling bitter. I see at some point, I have to leave her alone for good. Move on completely with my life. It’s just hard to do. Emotionally I know she’s not mooping around like me. I’m going to stop talking to her completely now.

Another thing, don't listen to these bitter dudes about her not being shyt, she belongs to the game, etc. If she hated you or was ready to have you completely out her life, she wouldn't want to be friends either. Even if she is dating someone, it's just as likely to be a distraction from you as you smashing hella hoes would be your way of being distracted from her. If y'all had a healthy relationship that simply ran its course for the time being, nothing wrong with parting cordially. Take this time away from her to heal, but nothing wrong with small points of contact down the line, you never know where y'all will be a year or two from now, maybe y'all will be in a space to get back together.

 

[Astroslik]

Tell her you can't be friends because you still have feelings for her. Let her know if there is no chance of getting back together, you need to complete space from her to move on. Let her know you don't hate her, you just can't be friends at this time.

As far as how you feel, it just takes time to get over it. Every coli dude acts like its so simple, just fukk hoes and get money yet you'll see in other threads these same dudes never had a real relationship in their lives, half struggle just to talk to girls and the other half don't get p*ssyy.Lean on your friends more, go out, get involved in a new activity or go harder in ine you're already involved in, do things that make you laugh/happy, and if/when you're ready, start dating again or smash randoms - but do it in your own time and take the path that feels right for you.

we really gotta stop this type of projecting on here...

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

we really gotta stop this type of projecting on here...

It's not projecting when you can pull up another thread and see the same dudes have a moment of honesty - talking about going months to a year without being able to get p*ssy, talking down on women and relationships then you see they've never had a girlfriend or a relationship last more than 6 months. Can't take RELATIONSHIP advice from cats whose whole interaction with women is smashing a couple girls from around the way every couple weeks

 

[MrBillCollecta]

That's relative. I went on a rampage after my ex and nothing compared. Shyt just made me miss her even more until I fell back and dealt with my own shyt and rose up. If you ever fukked with a girl that got that GOAT sex game in you don't replaced that easily. I've fukked a couple women that were so amazing in bed that I ain't wanna touch another girl because I knew it was a waste of time. People overate doing numbers. Having amazing sexual chemistry with one person >>>>>> fukking everybody.

Yea.... I didn't care about any of that shyt. It was time to ball out.

 

[MikelArteta]

Don't listen to women when it comes to relationship advice they tell you straight jargon.

Remember women end the majority of relationships and they emotionally detach before they drop them thangs, so they will tell you what they would want their ex to do, split cordially stay in touch here and there.