Brehs how did you get over your ex?

[Knicksgarbageforever]

it takes two people to agree. i understand why she would agree to that. but why would you agree to it though?

I still wanted her in my life as a friend. I guess a part of me wanted to have a chance to get back together. A part of me also wanted her to see, if we don’t get back together, that I could be better without her instead of leaving feeling bitter. I see at some point, I have to leave her alone for good. Move on completely with my life. It’s just hard to do. Emotionally I know she’s not mooping around like me. I’m going to stop talking to her completely now.

 

[MikelArteta]

I still wanted her in my life as a friend. I guess a part of me wanted to have a chance to get back together. A part of me also wanted her to see, if we don’t get back together, that I could be better without her instead of leaving feeling bitter. I see at some point, I have to leave her alone for good. Move on completely with my life. It’s just hard to do. Emotionally I know she’s not mooping around like me. I’m going to stop talking to her completely now.

can't be friends with someone you have strong feelings for you're just going to get hurt when she dates, etc.

Trust me I have "accepted" friendship before in the past and it always ends horribly. She doesn't have to deal with the pain of teh breakup because you're there as her emotional tampon while you get nothing in return. Even worse if you start dating before her she will wiggle her way back in but she don't want you.

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

By having more sex than one could imagine.Them hoes became a distant memory after about 10 days.

That's relative. I went on a rampage after my ex and nothing compared. Shyt just made me miss her even more until I fell back and dealt with my own shyt and rose up. If you ever fukked with a girl that got that GOAT sex game in you don't replaced that easily. I've fukked a couple women that were so amazing in bed that I ain't wanna touch another girl because I knew it was a waste of time. People overate doing numbers. Having amazing sexual chemistry with one person >>>>>> fukking everybody.

 

[Turbulent]

I still wanted her in my life as a friend. I guess a part of me wanted to have a chance to get back together. A part of me also wanted her to see, if we don’t get back together, that I could be better without her instead of leaving feeling bitter. I see at some point, I have to leave her alone for good. Move on completely with my life. It’s just hard to do. Emotionally I know she’s not mooping around like me. I’m going to stop talking to her completely now.

we've all been through it breh. i might be wrong but from what i'm reading, it seems like you want to show her and show yourself that she should feel like she made a mistake (which is a natural feeling to have). the truth is, maybe she didn't make a mistake. Maybe neither of you made a mistake. and that's ok.

Good to hear you will stop talking to her. Just live your life and be great for your own sake. not to show her, not for other people, just for you first and foremost. Good luck breh.

 

[Born2BKing]

fukk off... He needs to get active.. Mooping around ain't gonna do shyt... All the shyt I said takes time and gets ya mind of it.

She hurt you bad huh.

 

[semtex]

Productive distractions and time

 

[Knicksgarbageforever]

we've all been through it breh. i might be wrong but from what i'm reading, it seems like you want to show her and show yourself that she should feel like she made a mistake (which is a natural feeling to have). the truth is, maybe she didn't make a mistake. Maybe neither of you made a mistake. and that's ok.

Good to hear you will stop talking to her. Just live your life and be great for your own sake. not to show her, not for other people, just for you first and foremost. Good luck breh.

I get this. It hurts man but I think what’s playing role, again I’m not going out and meeting new people. I’m sure I’ll feel better when I go back to exploring what’s out there. Not forcing anything but doing what I know will make me happy.

 

[Knicksgarbageforever]

can't be friends with someone you have strong feelings for you're just going to get hurt when she dates, etc.

Trust me I have "accepted" friendship before in the past and it always ends horribly. She doesn't have to deal with the pain of teh breakup because you're there as her emotional tampon while you get nothing in return. Even worse if you start dating before her she will wiggle her way back in but she don't want you.

So true. I asked her before, would there ever be a chance to get back together. She said if it happens, it happens naturally. In other words, no. So we got into a arguement about something. I asked her why she wanted to still be around considering all of our arguments and she said cause she cares about me and doesn’t want to leave my life, or me leave hers. So we decided to be friends. So far that has done nothing. I’ve tried to cut her off before but always feel sad And ended up talking to her again. I think this is it for real and I’m done. More than likely she fukking someone else anyways so no need for me to sit around and be sad. It’s just tough cause I a lot of the reasons why we broke up could of been avoided, at the same time there were other things, reasons, I just need move on

 

[CinnaSlim]

Also, stop being trying to be friends with exes if you still have feelings for them. You can't get over them if you are in constant contact, cant heal your wounds if you are constantly picking at them.

 

[MikelArteta]

Cut her off and I guarantee a month from now you'll be in a better place.

If you stick around your heart will crush even more as she starts daring

So true. I asked her before, would there ever be a chance to get back together. She said if it happens, it happens naturally. In other words, no. So we got into a arguement about something. I asked her why she wanted to still be around considering all of our arguments and she said cause she cares about me and doesn’t want to leave my life, or me leave hers. So we decided to be friends. So far that has done nothing. I’ve tried to cut her off before but always feel sad And ended up talking to her again. I think this is it for real and I’m done. More than likely she fukking someone else anyways so no need for me to sit around and be sad. It’s just tough cause I a lot of the reasons why we broke up could of been avoided, at the same time there were other things, reasons, I just need move on

 

[Knicksgarbageforever]

That's relative. I went on a rampage after my ex and nothing compared. Shyt just made me miss her even more until I fell back and dealt with my own shyt and rose up. If you ever fukked with a girl that got that GOAT sex game in you don't replaced that easily. I've fukked a couple women that were so amazing in bed that I ain't wanna touch another girl because I knew it was a waste of time. People overate doing numbers. Having amazing sexual chemistry with one person >>>>>> fukking everybody.

I see both sides and what y’all are saying. I think it would benefit me to meet new women and have some fun, but don’t put 100% into believing that’s the only cure. I definitely could use a new smile, feet eyes to have around me.

 

[The Prince of All Saiyans]

 

[Ciggavelli]

As other posters have said, and from my experience too, new p*ssy is the best way to get over an ex

 

[Knicksgarbageforever]

Cut her off and I guarantee a month from now you'll be in a better place.

If you stick around your heart will crush even more as she starts daring

This is what I was fearing too. I think she already is, she just doesn’t want to tell me but she won’t have to cause I don’t want to be around to see it

 

[im_sleep]

She’s getting her back blown right now by somebody else, know that and accept it.

Cut her off, go out and get yours young man.