Brehs how did you get over your ex?

[Knicksgarbageforever]

Don't agree to be friends. Just cut her off and move on.

If you were in my shoes how would go about it? I’m a young breh, 22. Still learning. Just need some advice. Would you just cut her off or would you tell her before hand?

 

[Surreal]

Fukk her homegirl with a sinister

Real shyt

 

[lespaulultra3]

If you were in my shoes how would go about it? I’m a young breh, 22. Still learning. Just need some advice

It's not rocket science man. Just tell her you're not interested in being friends and she can hit you up if wants to meet up in the future. I won't be too harsh on you man since I've been there myself. She knows you want to get back together and she appreciates the attention. She will continue to use you for attention and to help her fix the kitchen sink at the house while the nikka she really likes slides through and blows her back out. Look at the big picture. There's over 3 billion women in this world and you're sitting her crying about one. Take it from my experience. Move on with your life and work on yourself. If she hits you up trying to chat, chat for 2-3 minutes and then tell her you're busy and have to go. Never initiate texts. I know this advice scares the shyt out of you because you feel you are going to lose her but trust me because I've been there and I know from experience. Move on and I can almost guarantee that in a few months, she will hit you up to meet up.

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

I’m hoping on that breh. I’m trying to go back to school, head out with buddies, keep myself busy. Being alone after a break up is the worse thing ever. Eats me up inside

This might soundto some but write..
Keep a journal or just write her letters( never and I repeat never send them to her)and get your thoughts out for you to see them..
I kept a journal for about two years..
Sometimes it would be long entries and others would just be short simple things or I would write haikus and that shyt would be cathartic as hell..
Seeing your emotions on paper(at least for me) put things in perspective..
Also meditating and just being still(even if it’s for 5mins) can help..
If you are really going to try to be friends(which I’m against all the way)..
Give yourself a 6 month period..
No connection..
No Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat stalking..
Act like she is dead and get yourself right..
You will know when you are strong enough..
Then reach out but hopefully by that time..
You have found new interests and developed a stronger will and understanding of why things didn’t workout..
Plus your confidence will be higher..
When a woman sees you are not bothered and you glowing like..

Breh, that feeling

 

[Knicksgarbageforever]

It's not rocket science man. Just tell her you're not interested in being friends and she can hit you up if wants to meet up in the future. I won't be too harsh on you man since I've been there myself. She knows you want to get back together and she appreciates the attention. She will continue to use you for attention and to help her fix the kitchen sink at the house while the nikka she really likes slides through and blows her back out. Look at the big picture. There's over 3 billion women in this world and you're sitting her crying about one. Take it from my experience. Move on with your life and work on yourself. If she hits you up trying to chat, chat for 2-3 minutes and then tell her you're busy and have to go. Never initiate texts. I know this advice scares the shyt out of you because you feel you are going to lose her but trust me because I've been there and I know from experience. Move on and I can almost guarantee that in a few months, she will hit you up to meet up.

Wish I can rep you for this. This sounds like the best thing I could do

 

[lespaulultra3]

This might soundto some but write..
Keep a journal or just write her letters( never and I repeat never send them to her)and get your thoughts out for you to see them..
I kept a journal for about two years..
Sometimes it would be long entries and others would just be short simple things or I would write haikus and that shyt would be cathartic as hell..
Seeing your emotions on paper(at least for me) put things in perspective..
Also meditating and just being still(even if it’s for 5mins) can help..
If you are really going to try to be friends(which I’m against all the way)..
Give yourself a 6 month period..
No connection..
No Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat stalking..
Act like she is dead and get yourself right..
You will know when you are strong enough..
Then reach out but hopefully by that time..
You have found new interests and developed a stronger will and understanding of why things didn’t workout..
Plus your confidence will be higher..
When a woman sees you are not bothered and you glowing like..

Breh, that feeling

I agree with this except for the last part about reaching out in 6 months. He's the prize and he needs to act as such. Besides, If he works on himself, he'll be swimming in new p*ssy in 6 months. All women are detectives so if he cuts her off, she'll be checking up on him anyway like looking at his pics on facebook or asking friends about him. He needs to have the mentality that he is truly moving on and not the mentality that he's trying to make himself more attractive to her.

 

[Silkk]

Time
Meeting someone now
Finding something to submerge yourself into (family/school/work/gym/learning/hobbies)
Setting goals and how you gonna accomplish them

 

[Born2BKing]

Went gym, got fly, got sauce, had hoes, got money.

I'm that order.

Worst advice ever for this but common response here. OP, the only thing that heals wounds is time. Take your lumps and let it get out your system over time.

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

I agree with this except for the last part about reaching out in 6 months. He's the prize and he needs to act as such. Besides, If he works on himself, he'll be swimming in new p*ssy in 6 months. All women are detectives so if he cuts her off, she'll be checking up on him anyway like looking at his pics on facebook or asking friends about him. He needs to have the mentality that he is truly moving on and not the mentality that he's trying to make himself more attractive to her.

Touché..
That’s why I highly advise not being friends at all..
But to speak with a forked tongue..
People are going to people and 6 months or maybe even 8 months gives you that buffer of time to have at least started on fixing your problems and having new people in your life or hobbies before reaching out again(if that even crosses your mind at the time)..
I can’t condemn him because I’ve tried to be friends with exes and that shyt was a disaster
But sometimes the best advice in the world is going through the shyt first hand..
I could tell breh all my cautionary tales but ultimately it comes down to his will and what he wants

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Time. Just took it as her loss. Ima do better for myself and not have toxic ppl in my life. Reevaluate my standards of people and if they cant get em then they can get the ax. Bc im trying my best to play fair and give yall what i can but you cant try no p*ssy boy fukkshyt and think love is enough. I'll bury a nikka and their love.

I'm the nucleus of my life and im not playing games with anyone. fukk that.

 

[StackUp]

Time man...

 

[Groot]

I am Groot... We are Groot!

 

[Jasonmask]

You never do to an extent

 

[Rollo Goodlove]

Get fresh get some hoes

 

[Marco Zen]

Time.