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Brehs how did you get over your ex?
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GPBear
The Tape Crusader
Weed, other women, focusing my negative emotions into creative outlets.
I'm in a different position, me and my girl of like 3 years just broke up, but I knew the second she started talking to me how it would end, so I can't even be that mad, just more perturbed that I kinda wasted three years of my life.
It is what it is
I'm in a different position, me and my girl of like 3 years just broke up, but I knew the second she started talking to me how it would end, so I can't even be that mad, just more perturbed that I kinda wasted three years of my life.
It is what it is
Poh SIti Dawn
Staying Positive, Getting Better Everyday. Holler!
fukk off... He needs to get active.. Mooping around ain't gonna do shyt... All the shyt I said takes time and gets ya mind of it.
CEITEDMOFO
Banned
Time but also Finding other ways to exert your energy/shift your focus. Weightlifting, reading. I say those two things mainly because the first can build confidence and the latter because. Reading can be /help with knowledge and believe it or not woman like being taught things. Plus it gives you substance.
Me personally, I'm trying to get back into this dating thing etc. But giving my personal situation , which I won't speak on makes it rather difficult.
Me personally, I'm trying to get back into this dating thing etc. But giving my personal situation , which I won't speak on makes it rather difficult.
We still talk but
Start treating women like shyt
gotta replace fresh p*ssy...with FRESHER p*ssy....
time to myself and new (or familiar) p*ssy
I used to the be of the mindset don't date, wait and all that but I changed that mindset over the year.
I stated it before in other threads, but now....
I view it now like a job, maybe i'm making that coli standard 125,000 at a job and they can me regardless of how many years I was with the job, the connection we had, how it was the best job ever. Yeah it's going to HURT, but I got a life to live and sitting around marinating on it is not going to get me a new job, so I'm not going to go home mope and cry nah i'm going to start sending out my resume ASAP.
And maybe all I can get is 60k job, maybe only a 30k job maybe when I'm working those jobs i'm thinking off my 125k coli standard gig how I miss it etc. but as time goes on and the cataracts fall I'll see things clearly.
The same as in a relationship your ex tosses you in the garbage bin you can sit around cry and mope how many years we were together, i rebuilt her, she was a 10/10 i did this and did that wah wah wah you can sit around marinating or you can say
, and go home and hop on match/tinder/go to a local spot, maybe all you can get is a bbw, maybe all you can get is a paper bag status brehete, but as time goes on and the cataracts fall you'll see things clearly maybe you'll even come to realize its better to have a paper bag that wants your ass than a 10/10 that doesn't .
You already wasted insert time on this chick, why are you still moping around giving her more time when your single and free.
Look i've been there, I was engaged one minute and the next tossed in the garbage bin. I had my heart ripped out trampled on and had to learn everything all over again.
If you could see me now though
You can be the steph marbury who was ran outta the nba but went to china and lived large and was treated like a pagan gawd, or you can be steve francis flabby and sick talking about the good ol days
Have the harvard mindset, you think harvard, stanford, mit when a whiz kid whose accepted changes their mind? Nah because they know the value they offer and another great candidate is itching to take that spot.
I know my value, why cry or angry, I love pepperoni pizza, but a vegan or vegeterian may hate it
I stated it before in other threads, but now....
I view it now like a job, maybe i'm making that coli standard 125,000 at a job and they can me regardless of how many years I was with the job, the connection we had, how it was the best job ever. Yeah it's going to HURT, but I got a life to live and sitting around marinating on it is not going to get me a new job, so I'm not going to go home mope and cry nah i'm going to start sending out my resume ASAP.
And maybe all I can get is 60k job, maybe only a 30k job maybe when I'm working those jobs i'm thinking off my 125k coli standard gig how I miss it etc. but as time goes on and the cataracts fall I'll see things clearly.
The same as in a relationship your ex tosses you in the garbage bin you can sit around cry and mope how many years we were together, i rebuilt her, she was a 10/10 i did this and did that wah wah wah you can sit around marinating or you can say
, and go home and hop on match/tinder/go to a local spot, maybe all you can get is a bbw, maybe all you can get is a paper bag status brehete, but as time goes on and the cataracts fall you'll see things clearly maybe you'll even come to realize its better to have a paper bag that wants your ass than a 10/10 that doesn't .You already wasted insert time on this chick, why are you still moping around giving her more time when your single and free.
Look i've been there, I was engaged one minute and the next tossed in the garbage bin. I had my heart ripped out trampled on and had to learn everything all over again.
If you could see me now though
You can be the steph marbury who was ran outta the nba but went to china and lived large and was treated like a pagan gawd, or you can be steve francis flabby and sick talking about the good ol days
Have the harvard mindset, you think harvard, stanford, mit
when a whiz kid whose accepted changes their mind? Nah because they know the value they offer and another great candidate is itching to take that spot.I know my value, why cry or angry, I love pepperoni pizza, but a vegan or vegeterian may hate it
cut her off completely. stop talking to her.
one thing though is that you have to want to get over her. I think you might not be sure if you want to get over her. Deep down a big part of you might still want to "fix things" or to show her that she should be with you to make her feel regret, etc.
but if you really want to get over her, just stop talking to her, stop checking her social media, start from the bottom and rebuild your identity without her being part of it (just like you had an identity before she was in your life). rebuild routines without her. routines that serve you and your happiness. it's gonna take some time but eventually you might still reminisce about her but overall you will feel like you're ok without her. start hanging out with friends (male and female), start getting used to socially interacting with other people and getting used to having fun with other people. in other words, getting used to being happy without her.
If she contacts you, keep it short and cordial and then tell her you gotta go but nice talking to her. do not contact her first (even if it's her bday, even if it's vday, even if her mother dies). She made a choice, so that means she figures she's better off without you. let her choose. don't entertain her.
by the way, my advice would be slightly different if you wanted to get back with her.
one thing though is that you have to want to get over her. I think you might not be sure if you want to get over her. Deep down a big part of you might still want to "fix things" or to show her that she should be with you to make her feel regret, etc.
but if you really want to get over her, just stop talking to her, stop checking her social media, start from the bottom and rebuild your identity without her being part of it (just like you had an identity before she was in your life). rebuild routines without her. routines that serve you and your happiness. it's gonna take some time but eventually you might still reminisce about her but overall you will feel like you're ok without her. start hanging out with friends (male and female), start getting used to socially interacting with other people and getting used to having fun with other people. in other words, getting used to being happy without her.
If she contacts you, keep it short and cordial and then tell her you gotta go but nice talking to her. do not contact her first (even if it's her bday, even if it's vday, even if her mother dies). She made a choice, so that means she figures she's better off without you. let her choose. don't entertain her.
by the way, my advice would be slightly different if you wanted to get back with her.
I was too preoccupied getting to the paper....i made money moves
This was like our second breakup so i was prepared.....
I wasnt gonna be an emotional wreck like the first time.....
I weighed my pros and cons and realized it was actually a benefit
Financially she would have been a burden...
She had bad credit and couldn't save for shyt....
I probably would have lost my home dealing her
Now not only ive stacked more..she isnt a distraction anymore....i can focus on myself
Just started my second business......
now im married to Paypal....
M.O.B >>>>GMB..HOH
This was like our second breakup so i was prepared.....
I wasnt gonna be an emotional wreck like the first time.....
I weighed my pros and cons and realized it was actually a benefit
Financially she would have been a burden...
She had bad credit and couldn't save for shyt....
I probably would have lost my home dealing her
Now not only ive stacked more..she isnt a distraction anymore....i can focus on myself
Just started my second business......
now im married to Paypal....
M.O.B >>>>GMB..HOH
it takes two people to agree. i understand why she would agree to that. but why would you agree to it though?
It’s a process, breh. You take it a day at a time. You gotta be patient with yourself, like you would with one of your boys that just left a relationship. It’s the memories of the good times that got you stuck but, you gotta be balanced and remember the bad times that got you to this point.
Think of it optimistically this is a great time where you get to focus on yourself FIRST. Not your girl...you. Find out who you truly at the core right now. Those weaknesses that you need to work on, refine them. Use your strengths to be your crutch to get you through this hard time.
Also check this book out. My friend sent it to me when i went through a hard breakup. Some of it is a little outdated but the core of it can help you break through: SURVIVE -- TABLE OF CONTENTS
Good luck, OP.
Think of it optimistically this is a great time where you get to focus on yourself FIRST. Not your girl...you. Find out who you truly at the core right now. Those weaknesses that you need to work on, refine them. Use your strengths to be your crutch to get you through this hard time.
Also check this book out. My friend sent it to me when i went through a hard breakup. Some of it is a little outdated but the core of it can help you break through: SURVIVE -- TABLE OF CONTENTS
Good luck, OP.
New vagina
The last one I was already over her before I dumped her so that one was easy.
The last one I was already over her before I dumped her so that one was easy.