Brehs, I bought my supervisor lunch on tuesday...

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Nah not even, it was just the convenience. I cook for myself but to add that with my workload and working out is taxing. Now that I'm relocating soon and doing my Kaplan prep for grad school its even worse but I just make the time :manny:

Well, guess I outed myself in that respect. :mjlol:
 
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You basically put the wife in a position to realize anything she isn't giving him, he can get elsewhere.
In relationships, it takes certain checks and balances to appreciate their position. Today it could be rice pilaf and italian sausage.
Tomorrow a red velvet cake. Etc etc etc. If her husband not only has a cool woman at work to talk to, but also a cool woman to talk to
who brings him delicious food, he doesn't have to do anything other than let slip he enjoys your company for her to begin to fear the worst.

If he is doing all the working, the least she can do is send him off with good food:comeon:
She forgot how such a little thing as filling her man's belly can send him off happy as fukk, and got that reality check.
Bet you she won't keep it up for longer than a few weeks though. People slack when they feel they "got their prize" already.
A younger, more accommodating chick being in the picture will made an older chick check herself quick as hell when her man
getting taken care of.
To solve all this, the wife should convince her husband to try a finnicky diet so he wouldn't be able to eat what the coworker makes:patrice:
so if he eats it, she can be mad and he will feel bad and then she can say " I forgive you baby" and cook him non diet food, like, "it's our little secret" and he'll think, "my wife is the best"
 

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I've had some airmens wife get all pissy with me for bringing baked goodies to the job.It wasn't even for HER man but for the office as a whole. Female had the nerve to make a fake FB page talking about "if you do that again blah blah blah" bytch GTFOH. I showed up the next day with fresh out the oven cinnamon rolls with his initials on the top in icing :childplease: wtf you gonna do?

Hoe has some damn nerve..i'm doing your ass a favor and that's the thanks I get? Ugh I'm pissed off all over again
 

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I kno dat aint the values u were raised wit in Brazil :usure:

Smh Western mentality even corrupting young women overseas

what

have you ever even been to brazil

please tell me the date of the trip and when exactly did you meet my parents

that you were so well informed as to how they raised me

What other explanation can there be?

The husband's the bread-winner. She knows he doesn't eat out for lunch. She starts preparing lunch for him only AFTER @trilldealbaby started bringing her husband lunch at work. Yet, she's not a wack wife? :pachaha:

that she's doing it out of jealousy is kinda wack

but the initial situation that she didn't cook him lunch is whatever to me
 

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To solve all this, the wife should convince her husband to try a finnicky diet so he wouldn't be able to eat what the coworker makes:patrice:
so if he eats it, she can be mad and he will feel bad and then she can say " I forgive you baby" and cook him non diet food, like, "it's our little secret" and he'll think, "my wife is the best"

I'm gonna take a wild stab in the dark and conclude that you either don't date or have very little experience dating men. :mjlol:

The wife already wasnt making him lunch, now she gonna go to the opposite spectrum and fully cater to a finnicky diet? LOL.

AND expect him to eat that diet? :mjlol:
 

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all I know is I work from home, and I gotta take two trips out to the west coast in the next month to the office and one of the broads (I never met) hit me on IM talking about "we should go out to lunch". she has seen me on linkedin, but that's it.

what should I think about this????
 

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Food is the way to a man's heart. You cook for me I'll love you off gp.
I remember I cooked for one of my guy friends and he wouldn't stop texting me after that:mjlol:

Nah not even, it was just the convenience. I cook for myself but to add that with my workload and working out is taxing. Now that I'm relocating soon and doing my Kaplan prep for grad school its even worse but I just make the time :manny:
Breh do what I do. I literally use Sunday afternoons to cook my meals for the week. Sunday is a rest day. You shouldn't be doing any work or working out. You should try it. The most it takes me is 3 hours.
 

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all I know is I work from home, and I gotta take two trips out to the west coast in the next month to the office and one of the broads (I never met) hit me on IM talking about "we should go out to lunch". she has seen me on linkedin, but that's it.

what should I think about this????
If she saw you on LinkedIn, she could have messaged you there. The way she started communication with you isn't very professional so I would be weary.
 

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I've had some airmens wife get all pissy with me for bringing baked goodies to the job.It wasn't even for HER man but for the office as a whole. Female had the nerve to make a fake FB page talking about "if you do that again blah blah blah" bytch GTFOH. I showed up the next day with fresh out the oven cinnamon rolls with his initials on the top in icing :childplease: wtf you gonna do?

Hoe has some damn nerve..i'm doing your ass a favor and that's the thanks I get? Ugh I'm pissed off all over again
Clowns:bryan:
 
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