Breh's... I think I've been smitten (is this what it feels like?)

[Killer Instinct]

Put the p*ssy on a pedestal breh

Came in to say this. Might be harsh but I can sense how giddy you are from here, breh.
Don't exalt her, as hard as it is. Every man has been there at least once.
Let it flow and don't worry about checking off all the boxes and saying all the right things.
That is the the quickest way to make things awkward.
Females can sense that hesitation. shyt is almost an innate ability for them.
And like buddy said above, you're probably not the only guy she's talking to. She's not putting all of her eggs in one basket and you shouldn't either.
She might be the one & she might not, but don't psyche yourself out of the game before you get in.

 

[MikelArteta]

Word to the wise most ppl in the honeymoon period are "great", your counting your lucky stars,damn I won

She's on her best behavior selling herself to you and you eat it up like a pig at a trough.

 

[Nomadum]

Get so caught up after one date breh

Ol ready to commit after one date azz nukka

Patience, you know nothing about her.

true,

but fam life isn't promised. now more and more it's evident that anyone can wake up tomorrow and it be their last day. I've lost peers, I've had family members die too early. the way I see it is that each day could be my last, as much as I don't like to play into this scenario, I could be shot by an over zealous cop. I could be killed by someone in my own neighborhood trying to rob me or who have shytty aim. I could die in an accident, you feel where I'm going?

So why get caught up on the "damn I'm suppose to be too cool" type shyt. if I tried and then met my maker that night, atleast it would be one less what-if on my mind.

 

[Nomadum]

Came in to say this. Might be harsh but I can sense how giddy you are from here, breh.
Don't exalt her, as hard as it is. Every man has been there at least once.
Let it flow and don't worry about checking off all the boxes and saying all the right things.
That is the the quickest way to make things awkward.
Females can sense that hesitation. shyt is almost an innate ability for them.
And like buddy said above, you're probably not the only guy she's talking to. She's not putting all of her eggs in one basket and you shouldn't either.
She might be the one & she might not, but don't psyche yourself out of the game before you get in.

I can feel where you're coming from.

 

[MikelArteta]

I hear ya breh
Just that things that start fast usually end fast.

true,

but fam life isn't promised. now more and more it's evident that anyone can wake up tomorrow and it be their last day. I've lost peers, I've had family members die too early. the way I see it is that each day could be my last, as much as I don't like to play into this scenario, I could be shot by an over zealous cop. I could be killed by someone in my own neighborhood trying to rob me or who have shytty aim. I could die in an accident, you feel where I'm going?

So why get caught up on the "damn I'm suppose to be too cool" type shyt. if I tried and then met my maker that night, atleast it would be one less what-if on my mind.

 

[Nomadum]

I hear ya breh
Just that things that start fast usually end fast.

I can dig that,
the whole "bright flame burns quickest" ideology.

I have few regrets in life, even after failures and turmoil behind those choices.
and the one thing I can't do is regret failure, shyt just gives me an opportunity to learn. lol so there for I hit y'all up to see some general input.

 

[Nomadum]

So I wrote the letter,

hope shyt work out.

can't be worse than @malcolmxxx_45 thou

 

[Nomadum]

So update;

Shortie said it was the most beautiful thing she's read before.
but I think she trying to move slow though and get a proper feel of the kid' to see if I'm trying to game or if I'm genuine

wont lie though, thought shortie was going to put me on the damn creeper list lol.

 

[skokiaan]

Good..I think now u ready. Suprise her with a basket of chocolate, scented candles, lotions, soap, sandals, and bath oils with a mix of red and white roses.

 

[Nomadum]

Good..I think now u ready. Suprise her with a basket of chocolate, scented candles, lotions, soap, sandals, and bath oils with a mix of red and white roses.

Lmao, Fock outta here.
I just got my foot in the door (or on the door mat atleast) now you tryna get me into legit creeper hall of fame.

 

[LordTaskForce]

Good..I think now u ready. Suprise her with a basket of chocolate, scented candles, lotions, soap, sandals, and bath oils with a mix of red and white roses.

 

[LadySimone]

Yo.... I feel all types of weird right now. and I don't know how to proceed forward. I finally got the guts up to offer a chick at my school out to lunch. when she first accepted I could have skipped home (no homo lol). had a nikka like . man we hit it off solid at the lunch and the whole 9 but she said something that made me feel like " not this shyt again". she said her mother warned her about guys like me who say all the right things (trust me, I didn't think I was lol). and now I'm like... she is 110% wifey material. Smart as shyt, beautiful and sexy, her smile make a nikka ..... like I'm for real smitten by this Queen. I just don't know how to play it cool without being too nonchalant (an issue I've had in the past).

Like I want to pen a letter to her (I don't express my feelings and emotions too well verbally) but I don't want a letter to come off like a stalker move, I can see me handing it to her and she hit me with " slow down there scrap" type shyt lol I'd probably end up like

Yo..... this shyt is cool and all (feeling this way because it's been atleast 10 years since I've felt this type of attraction) but this shyt so fukking scary, I don't want to fukk shyt up and I feel like I'm lost and don't know how to proceed with this shyt.

Coli Bredren, Help a dude out. what would y'all do? (Brehettes you're more than welcome to chime in, I need some solid advice before I do some lame/dumb shyt)

I'm happy for you. Be yourself. That's so cliche. You want her to still like you six months from now and it's impossible to keep up a front over long periods of time. Don't lie. Have fun!

 

[LadySimone]

Nah, definitely not trying to pimp or have multiple women. the older I get the more I'm recognizing that having 1 strong woman in your corner is beneficial as hell. I'd be a fool to try to game this one.



Lol, I feel you. my posting here is to get a broad overview of ideas. I know all with a grain.



I'd thought that but wasn't sure because she come's real cool. but I definitely feel you.



true.



true.



lol, ah homie made the same joke about how women like a$$hole type dudes. but nah, that ain't my character. I type wild shyt on here because that's the format to argue with trolls but on the regular I'm laid back studying or brainstorming ideas off in my own zone.



I understand.

boyle?



no, I'm not going to broadcast her business like that. it's bad enough I'm on the coli talking about it with some of you funny dudes, lmao son say "tell her it's either you or her mama"

Your font is gay nikka. P

 

[LadySimone]

Word to the wise most ppl in the honeymoon period are "great", your counting your lucky stars,damn I won

She's on her best behavior selling herself to you and you eat it up like a pig at a trough.

You got dead hookers under your floor board don't you?

 

[Nomadum]

Your font is gay nikka. P