Relationships show a lot of thing's, shows what we want and put up with and shows us what we don't want and refuse to put up with.
For the most part, we all should have a win/win attitude no matter what ship in living, so look at the things you win, or learned, because I'm sure this aint your first rodeo were you going thru it...
We have to reach inside before we can reach outside, changing from within, renewing of your mind, your heart, so on so forth. Getting in to a situation aint no problem, it's how you get out of it...
Wear your scars, medals with humility and understand all far in love and war