Brehs I’m Going Through It

[CodeBlaMeVi]

Yo family lives 20 miles away


U state that like that is another country
U could literally see them everyday



U sound soft as fukk
Gah damm


Man the fukk up

U talking bout women today broken

U sound like a broken female yaself





Why all yall dudes so soft

That’s 40 miles round trip, so that’s lot to me. No one comes up and check on me but... I’m not going to go into family right now.

I am broken but soft, not by the slightest.

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

1 star for being clingy and desperate

You even went dumpster diving on Tinder and Hinge


just learn to be by yourself and get some p*ssy where needed. Stop bytching about finding a woman like she gon bring somthing worthwhile in your life.


spend this time focusing on those assignments and solidify your career instead of trying to be a @Typical Simp . Draw up a to-do list, Contact some friends and make some memories.

Tighten up nikka, and stop being emotional!

I’m not clingy and I was being desperate, though. You’re right about Tinder and Hinge thus me being shameful about it. I hang out and stuff but way of coping and living life isn’t the same as before.

FYI: I’m not seeking female love pockets.

 

[MischievousMonkey]

Only read the first page but seeing my coli fam give great and sound advice is

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

That’s 40 miles round trip, so that’s lot to me. No one comes up and check on me but... I’m not going to into family right now.

I am broken but soft, not by the slightest.

U a grown ass mam
Who the fukk supposed to check on u



U def soft


nikka stop being emotional and using religion to hide and as a crutch


U raising a teen and u acting like this

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

U a grown ass mam
Who the fukk supposed to check on u



U def soft


nikka stop being emotional and using religion to hide and as a crutch


U raising a teen and u acting like this

Okay, this isn’t going to go anywhere productive. Have a good day, sir.

Remember Jesus loves you and me.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

Okay, this isn’t going to go anywhere productive. Have a good day, sir.

Remember Jesus loves you and me.

Why u telling me that?

U the depressed 1

Obviously YOU don't believe that



And change yo sn
U ain't got no hoes


U too old to be this weak

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

U a grown ass mam
Who the fukk supposed to check on u



U def soft


nikka stop being emotional and using religion to hide and as a crutch


U raising a teen and u acting like this

It’s comments like this why black males always have to prove their masculinity in the most volatile and violent ways because forbid if a man can have emotional lapses and wish to converse about it with other humans. God forbid.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

It’s comments like this why black males always have to prove their masculinity in the most volatile and violent ways because forbid if a man can have emotional lapses and wish to converse about it with other humans. God forbid.

A
Fam u make a thread

U get replies.. .

No 1 has to baby u nikka


U don't even have to read the shyt


Race ain't got shyt to do with it

Hell I'm assuming u white based off all u posted


Either way u soft and emotional and need to man up

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

Easier said than done.

I waited 7 years. Focused on getting my emotions, finances, and career in-check.

Time flies when you focus on things that are really important.

Nothing turns females off more than a man with NO goals.

Most Churches I've ever heard of have some type of Men's Group for situations just like yours.​

 

[phcitywarrior]

Congrats on the life change and walking with God!

Just because you are single doesn’t mean you can’t develop other relationships.

There’s your personal development but also mentorship to other family members.

You can act like a big brother/uncle to the young ones in your life. There’s fuffilment in that as well.

 

[Money Be Green]

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

It’s comments like this why black males always have to prove their masculinity in the most volatile and violent ways because forbid if a man can have emotional lapses and wish to converse about it with other humans. God forbid.

true

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

I likely blew it with a nice catch.

At least on paper.

Just going to the possible issue, no need for background. We’re texting back and forth and first I disclose I have a teen son and his mom Grenadian since since I found out via her IG that she’s Trini.

She says “oh ok” via her IG I find out she has twin daughters and they cheer. They’re 11 or 12.

We still texting and it took a turn so ask when does practice ends and she says 8:30.

I didn’t reply right back because I was still reeling from that oh ok in regards to my son.

Finally after like 15 minutes I reply. You gotta full agenda. You gon be able to squeeze me? Lol.

I’m expecting a “i’ll try lol” or something flirty. Nothing. Tried to call later that evening no answer and texted her to call me when she get a chance. No call.

Text her “good morning” this morning, no reply.

It literally was going great and then boom.

I don’t sweat women usually but I don’t want someone getting the wrong idea about me. If anything, I’d applaud parents that are active in their kids’ lives.

I’ll try to call once more later if no answer or reply via text then on to the next

 

[CarmelBarbie]

I likely blew it with a nice catch.

At least on paper.

Just going to the possible issue, no need for background. We’re texting back and forth and first I disclose I have a teen son and his mom Grenadian since since I found out via her IG that she’s Trini.

She says “oh ok” via her IG I find out she has twin daughters and they cheer. They’re 11 or 12.

We still texting and it took a turn so ask when does practice ends and she says 8:30.

I didn’t reply right back because I was still reeling from that oh ok in regards to my son.

Finally after like 15 minutes I reply. You gotta full agenda. You gon be able to squeeze me? Lol.

I’m expecting a “i’ll try lol” or something flirty. Nothing. Tried to call later that evening no answer and texted her to call me when she get a chance. No call.

Text her “good morning” this morning, no reply.

It literally was going great and then boom.

I don’t sweat women usually but I don’t want someone getting the wrong idea about me. If anything, I’d applaud parents that are active in their kids’ lives.

I’ll try to call once more later if no answer or reply via text then on to the next

So she started acting funny after you told her you had a son? Like not really responding the same as before?

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

So she started acting funny after you told her you had a son? Like not really responding the same as before?

Correct.