Brehs is having kids overrated?

[Kuwka_Atcha_Ratcha]

You not having kids is a GREAT thing cause you would DEF be a HORRIFIC parent...By the way you posting.

Also you probably know a lot of shytty parents, thus you see the results. Cause I can't imagine someone who was raised with morals and values leaving they parents fukked up like that.

My moms is good, cause me and my brother love her and even though she doesn't need us to take care of her We look out for her ANYWAYS.
She also finds immense joy in being a grandparent as does my wife's parents.

i understand family isn't for everybody, but I done seen first hand how it turns out for these old playas when they can't play anymore and it ain't pretty.
Most end up bitter and lonely.

i can assure you id prolly be a better parent than you,

do you own your house? are you financially secure? how often do you take your children outside of usa to explore the world and broaden the mind


yup some are bitter, and some are fine. to think everyone without children end up bitter is very stupid sir dear friend,

 

[Kuwka_Atcha_Ratcha]

Yeah, I remember one time when I saw my nephew, he was 3 years old and he walked to his pop and said, "I Love you, Dad" to my brother, that putting my brother smile on his face and that shyt had me . It makes me think about if if I have my own kids that say that to me

so you want to create a human cub child just so they can tell you I love you? damn breh do better

 

[Methodical]

so you want to create a human cub child just so they can tell you I love you? damn breh do better

No. That's not the reason but it's just make me proud of my brother being a good father to his sons unlike some of my friends/families. As for me, I'm not ready for kids but do I want to have kids in the future?....yes, if I find the right lady and in love with then marry her but I don't want to get married.

 

[Kuwka_Atcha_Ratcha]

No. That's not the reason but it's just make me proud of my brother being a good father to his sons unlike some of my friends/families. As for me, I'm not ready for kids but do I want to have kids in the future?....yes, if I find the right lady and in love with then marry her but I don't want to get married.

i respect that , and props to your brother.

 

[joeychizzle]

It's overrated as fukk if you're just a kid working a minimum wage job.

if you got a steady good paying job with disposable income it's the shyt.

but wtf do I know I'm only 22.

 

[Pink Slime]

Underrate thing for me. When you grow up in a world that celebrates death, there is nothing more breathtaking than seeing a new life enter this world. Especially a life you had a hand in creating.

what if theyre born ugly and retarded or one of those obnoxious ass autistic kids.. that shyt scares me yo. what a fukkin burden that must be. takin care of somethin that will be a "child " forever. fukk that!

 

[J Money]

Of course i want kids...my bytch ass father was hardly a parent to me, think im gonna follow in his steps and not have or care about kids? im working hard so they wont have to go through that life

If your father wasnt there for you when you were a kid and now youre saying you dont want kids you lost in life tbh Same bytch ass nikka as your father

 

[el_oh_el]

I see people like to quote numbers saying children are expensive. I personally do not believe this is true..at least for one child. I buy him whatever clothes and shoes he needs, and he doesnt play with toys (only games). He is 6 now and I have never felt that he is a big burden on me or his mother.

Now when he gets to be a teenager...is a different story

 

[Deezy314619]

I hope not cuz I'm pretty sure I want kids. but actually if you dont have no kids you lamed out anyways.

 

[Jahmal]

I hope not cuz I'm pretty sure I want kids. but actually if you dont have no kids you lamed out anyways.

Plenty of lames out there WITH kids

 

[Blackking]

lol when you breeders think you're doing something that is important when even rats have kids

That's why rats have been around 60 million years. Producing and passing on genes that help them adapt. So yeah it's important.

 

[Dzali OG]

??

You don't know what love is until you have a seed you raise...

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

You had a fukked up childhood if that's what you feel about parenting

He's actually right. Why do you think parents have such a hard time with teenagers? It's all a stage in development

 

[TigerLord]

I got three kids. My boys are 11 and 9. My daughter 4 1/2. I am definitely a better person for it. Have more fun hanging out with them than anybody. The greatest thing is introducing them to and guiding them in this world. After awhile alot of everyday stuff gets old and starts to feel routine. Having children you get reminded of all those simple things you once did but forgot about as you get caught up with the grind of life. Its like rediscovering everything again through the eyes of your children.

All my kids are good. Their college is paid for. When they hit 18 don't have to take a loan or anything. Sometimes money can be a bit tight but its not like when I was in my late teens with a couple hundred in my pocket. It just means I may have to wait another month or two for those new kicks. My kids forced me to really discipline myself which helped me become more focused. My first son I'd see picking up some of my bad habits or tendencies and I'd recognize it. I wanted better for him and felt like I had to work harder to improve those aspects of myself. I see some fathers and they just messing up their kids by not really stepping up and taking on the challenge of self-improvement. They want to live like they are still teenagers.

I sit down and help my children with their homework. I push them to do well in school, instill them with self-belief and purpose and teach them all the stuff they need to be successful people. They do push ups and situps whenever they mess up. They write when they mess up. I have them in sports and my boys I put in martial arts so they can take care of their sister. lol

One thing I found was that I pray more. I'm not even a religious dude but I guess its cause I realize I can't be with them all the time to watch over them. I jut want to make sure they are okay. It scares the hell outta me to think that anything might happen to them. So I make sure I'm around as much as possible.

The other thing is I made sure the woman I chose to have children with was educated and had strong morals. I picked her based on the idea..."if I die tomorrow and this woman had my children...would she be a good mother?" Too many people have kids with someone they aren't 100% with. Whether you like it or not that person will be connected to you for the rest of your life also. Their decisions, morals and lifestyle will affect you as well.

Ultimately it comes down to you. I dont think anyone is really 100% prepared but if its in you and you come from a loving family or that's what you want your life to be eventually then you will love it.

 

[Kuwka_Atcha_Ratcha]

lamborghini >>>> children