Brehs, Pick Between These FOUR Women...

[NeilCartwright]

You have no idea of how unattractive it is for a woman to have a child. A single mother just shows an inability to make sound life decisions which will more than likely show in a relationship. Only excuse is if she was widowed but even then why would you want a dead man's seed running around haunting you?

I understand your frustration big dawg I do the same. I usy don't Fck w single mothers but you gotta understand circumstances

I got a cousin who is 26 w a 2 yr old daughter. They found the lil girl dad dead in his apartment while my cousin was pregnant, claiming some medical issue

Nikka's out here talking reckless like they don't want want a dead mans seed haunting them

 

[Daio]

#2 easy

 

[Suleiman Bey]

Whats her personality like?

 

[SadimirPutin]

you havent mentioned any personality traits that would differentiate these women

so you already start from a flawed premise

 

[Krazy K]

I used to hear men talk about (then again this was years ago in college with the young men there lol) how gross it is for a woman to live at home. Honestly it's been ingrained in me that men hate women who stay at home til marriage (even though all my sisters stayed at home til marriage and if they fall on tough times, them and their families stay with us). I've always heard negative things out of the mouths of men (not all but the black guys I went to school with) in reference to women who aren't wild. I still get nasty looks from old school mates because I have no kids lol. So yes, seeing most of you pick the #2 option is a shocker to me. Surprised that this type of woman, a lot of you are saying she's wife material.

you forgot that this type of woman does not have kids tho

 

[MalikX]

Number 2....can't raise somebody else's kids. Not my burden.

 

[MalikX]

Easily #2

#1?? Good luck finding a good man.

There's a chick like her on my timeline constantly posting memes about marriage and updates about how she's waiting for the right one but, she got 4 kids. There's true love out there for everybody but, good luck ma. You did yourself no favors there.

 

[Shadow King]

I used to hear men talk about (then again this was years ago in college with the young men there lol) how gross it is for a woman to live at home. Honestly it's been ingrained in me that men hate women who stay at home til marriage (even though all my sisters stayed at home til marriage and if they fall on tough times, them and their families stay with us). I've always heard negative things out of the mouths of men (not all but the black guys I went to school with) in reference to women who aren't wild. I still get nasty looks from old school mates because I have no kids lol. So yes, seeing most of you pick the #2 option is a shocker to me. Surprised that this type of woman, a lot of you are saying she's wife material.

You can't assume still living at home = "not wild" or "good girl". It's more of an inconvenience than a turnoff, doubled for me personally because I do also.

And I didn't see the word wife anywhere in the OP

 

[:-)]

You can't assume still living at home = "not wild" or "good girl". It's more of an inconvenience than a turnoff, doubled for me personally because I do also.

And I didn't see the word wife anywhere in the OP

Not in the OP suga some of the responses. A few said wife that's what I'm referring to hun

 

[Shadow King]

Not in the OP suga some of the responses. A few said wife that's what I'm referring to hun

These dudes been false flagging that GMB then

 

[Youhadasparkwhenustarted]

I used to hear men talk about (then again this was years ago in college with the young men there lol) how gross it is for a woman to live at home. Honestly it's been ingrained in me that men hate women who stay at home til marriage (even though all my sisters stayed at home til marriage and if they fall on tough times, them and their families stay with us). I've always heard negative things out of the mouths of men (not all but the black guys I went to school with) in reference to women who aren't wild. I still get nasty looks from old school mates because I have no kids lol. So yes, seeing most of you pick the #2 option is a shocker to me. Surprised that this type of woman, a lot of you are saying she's wife material.

It's not that #2 is wifey material, it's more like she's just the best option there. Yeah, I don't want a woman who stays at home with her parents at 30, but nowadays it's a bit more understandable then let's say, 10 years ago. Things like having a higher education and a good degree, being independent, and having a great job are great traits, so don't get me wrong; but when looking for a LIFE partner, finding someone who you click with personality-wise, have a lot of commonality with, is drama free, and is decent looking take higher priority, and most men will make concessions on the first set of traits in favor of the second set, well to a certain extent at least. I mean, even if we click heavy I won't wife a woman if she's a total bum with no ambition, but having a $20 an hour job is something I can compromise on easy, and shows she has some ambition and work ethic. She may stay at home, but at least her housing situation seems somewhat stable(provided her parents own the house); the other women lack that in one or more area's( woman #3 with her career, woman #4 financially, woman #1 with her kid's father), and while I can work through a tough situation with someone if I like them, it's not ideal, and with woman #1, there's probably no solution in sight with her baby father, so that put's her far behind the other woman in terms of desirability(it's almost a deal breaker for me). All of this could change though depending on each one's personality though( which is extremely important), and while I said having a higher education isn't that high on the priority list, a higher education heavily correlates with intelligence (which is a trait most decent men put a lot of emphasis on), so it's not like a woman should say "fukk a degree" if they want to pull a man they want either.

 

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It's not that #2 is wifey material, it's more like she's just the best option there. Yeah, I don't want a woman who stays at home with her parents at 30, but nowadays it's a bit more understandable then let's say, 10 years ago. Things like having a higher education and a good degree, being independent, and having a great job are great traits, so don't get me wrong; but when looking for a LIFE partner, finding someone who you click with personality-wise, have a lot of commonality with, is drama free, and is decent looking take higher priority, and most men will make concessions on the first set of traits in favor of the second set, well to a certain extent at least. I mean, even if we click heavy I won't wife a woman if she's a total bum with no ambition, but having a $20 an hour job is something I can compromise on easy, and shows she has some ambition and work ethic. She may stay at home, but at least her housing situation seems somewhat stable(provided her parents own the house); the other women lack that in one or more area's( woman #3 with her career, woman #4 financially, woman #1 with her kid's father), and while I can work through a tough situation with someone if I like them, it's not ideal, and with woman #1, there's probably no solution in sight with her baby father, so that put's her far behind the other woman in terms of desirability(it's almost a deal breaker for me). All of this could change though depending on each one's personality though( which is extremely important), and while I said having a higher education isn't that high on the priority list, a higher education heavily correlates with intelligence (which is a trait most decent men put a lot of emphasis on), so it's not like a woman should say "fukk a degree" if they want to pull a man they want either.

I feel you. Nice response

 

[Krazy K]

It's not that #2 is wifey material, it's more like she's just the best option there. Yeah, I don't want a woman who stays at home with her parents at 30, but nowadays it's a bit more understandable then let's say, 10 years ago. Things like having a higher education and a good degree, being independent, and having a great job are great traits, so don't get me wrong; but when looking for a LIFE partner, finding someone who you click with personality-wise, have a lot of commonality with, is drama free, and is decent looking take higher priority, and most men will make concessions on the first set of traits in favor of the second set, well to a certain extent at least. I mean, even if we click heavy I won't wife a woman if she's a total bum with no ambition, but having a $20 an hour job is something I can compromise on easy, and shows she has some ambition and work ethic. She may stay at home, but at least her housing situation seems somewhat stable(provided her parents own the house); the other women lack that in one or more area's( woman #3 with her career, woman #4 financially, woman #1 with her kid's father), and while I can work through a tough situation with someone if I like them, it's not ideal, and with woman #1, there's probably no solution in sight with her baby father, so that put's her far behind the other woman in terms of desirability(it's almost a deal breaker for me). All of this could change though depending on each one's personality though( which is extremely important), and while I said having a higher education isn't that high on the priority list, a higher education heavily correlates with intelligence (which is a trait most decent men put a lot of emphasis on), so it's not like a woman should say "fukk a degree" if they want to pull a man they want either.

this is the lesson for all the women who are surprised

most men just know how to pick em

flip this with men and the women would be picking the nikka with multiple kids just cause he has more money than the breh that stays at home

 

[Mandizi]

Woman #2

 

[BrehWyatt]

None of these are ideal, but I'm going with number 2.

Number 3 would've been good, but that healthy relationship with the baby dad is a no thanks.

This is where I am. I want to go with #3 but that "healthy" relationship with the father is a massive red flag for me. Her having a kid or always being between jobs is not as much.

That said, three kids is a lot but ... Woman #1 is low-key on top of some shyt

Number 2 or Number 3 is the best option.