Brehs, whats your take on "Open Relationships"

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Same thing with divorce breh just sign some papers do that legal work. The difference is one is more complicated than the other


Nah, with divorce comes alimony, and assets.

A married men knows cheating comes divorce and probably losing a lot of his assets.

Guy in a relationship cheats and the relationship over, y'all go separate ways.
 

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This shouldn't even be up for discussion unless u been married for years and u realize u bored and marriage is hell....if my girl asked me this sh1t she would get demoted back to random b1tch like she wuz in the beggining...and she would be treated like that,but all that "I know I share u but I still love you" bullsh1t:wtb:...u not my damn girl if we got a open relationship...if u wanna go have sex with other people then go do that sh1t like a normal b1tch who don't owe me nuthin would....u not my wife so u free to go,we can still be cool depending on the circumstances....but u will be regulated to normal b1tch status...no girlfriend privelages
 
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my point is that guys cheat because they dikk got hard and saw a fat ass and just wanted it at the time but we dont want to start buying that bytch clothes and shyt. We aint built like that

but women cheat for that strong emotional shyt like you aint giving her attention, you being rude, aint buying her shyt, etc

so thats why i say most men share their girl because women, they are good at hiding that type of shyt from their guy.






my boy and his girl really love each other but hard to see each other sometimes because of schedule and im asusming they both got needs and just be wanting to get a nut off and i think THATS what they agreed too. quickies when need be but in small amounts

not just fukk a new person each week type shyt
 

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my point is that guys cheat because they dikk got hard and saw a fat ass and just wanted it at the time but we dont want to start buying that bytch clothes and shyt. We aint built like that

but women cheat for that strong emotional shyt like you aint giving her attention, you being rude, aint buying her shyt, etc

so thats why i say most men share their girl because women, they are good at hiding that type of shyt from their guy.






my boy and his girl really love each other but hard to see each other sometimes because of schedule and im asusming they both got needs and just be wanting to get a nut off and i think THATS what they agreed too. quickies when need be but in small amounts

not just fukk a new person each week type shyt

This how my relationship is.
 
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lets say you had a small tight little family with your baby mama and kid like this
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but then, you know u love your girl and seed, but there is a secret opportunity to hit this...

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why would you pass that up because you dont want to allow her to have sex with who she fantasizes about?
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thats that possessive nikka shyt :childplease: and you aint less of a man because she had sex with another nikka when you did your dirt too. Its an agreement


i mean im not sure if i would personally do it either but i cant knock a couple who are willing to try and admit they got sexual needs and fantasies

#YOLO before you maggot food, brehs
 

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Not that this isn't a concern for folks in committed relationships either but my main issue with this open relationship shyt is that it's an UNECESSARY gateway for some serious potential drama to pop off. All of which can be avoidable with just each party just goin they own way. Yeah you may be okay with her just goin to get a nut off but it could be that one potent paynus to hook dat ass not only physically but emotional. And it's a wrap. Str8 snowball effect.

I just can't see myself bein okay with some chick i got feelins for just gettin some random dikk whenever she wants and me just sittin there like :ehh: My pride caint bend like dat breh. It aint got shyt to do with bein possesive. If i'm witta bytch and she's the main keepa, that kinda shyt will not go down without me tellin dat hoe to go kick rocks and/or her being drastically demoted.
 

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On some g shyt that = friends with benefits. I don't look at that as a relationship.
 
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Not that this isn't a concern for folks in committed relationships either but my main issue with this open relationship shyt is that it's an UNECESSARY gateway for some serious potential drama to pop off. All of which can be avoidable with just each party just goin they own way. Yeah you may be okay with her just goin to get a nut off but it could be that one potent paynus to hook dat ass not only physically but emotional. And it's a wrap. Str8 snowball effect.

see i agree fully with you there because i wouldnt want this shyt outside my door first thing when i come home from work
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Thats where you would have to really know your chick and know that she wouldnt pick some crazy ass waka flocka nikka to fukk on the low and that you wouldnt pick some crazy baby d bytch

:yeshrug:
 

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use protection
be honest
do not marry or buy expensive gifts, but still treat with the respect
 

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lets say you had a small tight little family with your baby mama and kid like this
regina-king-and-son.jpg


but then, you know u love your girl and seed, but there is a secret opportunity to hit this...

tumblr_lz15jaEWsi1qdwh13o1_500.jpg



why would you pass that up because you dont want to allow her to have sex with who she fantasizes about?
idris-elba.jpg



thats that possessive nikka shyt :childplease: and you aint less of a man because she had sex with another nikka when you did your dirt too. Its an agreement


i mean im not sure if i would personally do it either but i cant knock a couple who are willing to try and admit they got sexual needs and fantasies

#YOLO before you maggot food, brehs


:wtb: if I had a secret oppurtunity to hit that id keep it a secret...and sorry but sharing that girl does make u less of a man...and "allowing a woman u claim as your girl to go get sum d1ck sumwhere else makes u even less of a man...love means cheating and having the courtesy and respect to make sure the s/o never finds out or gets embarrased by it....how lazy and disrespectful would a b1tch u r in a relationship have to be to ask u sum bullsh1t like this...she thinks very little of u if she ask u to have a open relationship and she's ur "girl"...maybe my definition of "girl" is just different then sum peoples...I'm not one of those in 2 weeks and you my girl,or hit it twice and u my girl azz nikkas.
 
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:wtb: if I had a secret oppurtunity to hit that id keep it a secret...and sorry but sharing that girl does make u less of a man...and "allowing a woman u claim as your girl to go get sum d1ck sumwhere else makes u even less of a man...love means cheating and having the courtesy and respect to make sure the s/o never finds out or gets embarrased by it....how lazy and disrespectful would a b1tch u r in a relationship have to be to ask u sum bullsh1t like this...she thinks very little of u if she ask u to have a open relationship and she's ur "girl"...maybe my definition of "girl" is just different then sum peoples...I'm not one of those in 2 weeks and you my girl,or hit it twice and u my girl azz nikkas.

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:wtb: if I had a secret oppurtunity to hit that id keep it a secret...and sorry but sharing that girl does make u less of a man...and "allowing a woman u claim as your girl to go get sum d1ck sumwhere else makes u even less of a man...love means cheating and having the courtesy and respect to make sure the s/o never finds out or gets embarrased by it....how lazy and disrespectful would a b1tch u r in a relationship have to be to ask u sum bullsh1t like this...she thinks very little of u if she ask u to have a open relationship and she's ur "girl"...maybe my definition of "girl" is just different then sum peoples...I'm not one of those in 2 weeks and you my girl,or hit it twice and u my girl azz nikkas.

Nah, I would say she has less respect for u if she fukking other nikkas, and keeping it a secret.
 

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in most marriages, one of the partners stepped out atleast once. ain't nobody staying together 50, 60 years without a few "missteps". Might as well be honest with it.
 
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