Brehs, whats your take on "Open Relationships"

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Nah, I would say she has less respect for u if she fukking other nikkas, and keeping it a secret.

in most marriages, one of the partners stepped out atleast once. ain't nobody staying together 50, 60 years without a few "missteps". Might as well be honest with it.

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sounds like too many nikkas are ok with their "creepin in the front door" ways that when their chick says they can have a side piece, they freezing up
 

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lets say you had a small tight little family with your baby mama and kid like this
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but then, you know u love your girl and seed, but there is a secret opportunity to hit this...

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why would you pass that up because you dont want to allow her to have sex with who she fantasizes about?
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thats that possessive nikka shyt :childplease: and you aint less of a man because she had sex with another nikka when you did your dirt too. Its an agreement


i mean im not sure if i would personally do it either but i cant knock a couple who are willing to try and admit they got sexual needs and fantasies

#YOLO before you maggot food, brehs

id beat the breaks off that bytch.

Honestly, id doubt i give two fukks about what my wife did 20 years into it. id tell my wife to go live it up. i see why old married dudes be the way they are :upsetfavre:

you stuck with the same bytch FOREVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

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sounds like too many nikkas are ok with their "creepin in the front door" ways that when their chick says they can have a side piece, they freezing up

:laugh: Grem why you so steadfast on tryin to convince nikkas it's either inevitable or okay wit sharin they bytch wit da world tho? Like it's some hit to a nikka's manhood if he has a prollem with that shyt goin down?
 
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:laugh: Grem why you so steadfast on tryin to convince nikkas it's either inevitable or okay wit sharin they bytch wit da world tho? Like it's some hit to a nikka's manhood if he has a prollem with that shyt goin down?

even i had to :laugh: at that. I just like being honest to these hoes. I used to hate creepin in the front door as a teen
 

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When I messed with POF there were so many girls saying they were OK with an open relationship. Stupid...it's like a relationship that ultimately goes nowhere.
 

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Damn so his girl has permission to contract a disease from various cities. Why cuff a chick if you guys are just going to fukk other people
 

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Stupid...it's like a relationship that ultimately goes nowhere.

Why cuff a chick if you guys are just going to fukk other people

That's what I'm saying I really don't understand these nikkas. If you wanna fukk other people don't be in a relationship. It's do damn simple but people always wanna make things more complicated than they have to be.
 

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Only acceptable IMO if your girl is bisexual and you let her mess around with women. :shaq:



Hell no @ her sitting beside you on the couch thinking "I think tonight will be one of my OTHER dikk nights :scheme:"

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I was in one with my ex, she was bi and said she "had strong urges to be with a woman but felt guilty about it" :jawalrus: so she was cool with me hittin other chicks
 

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Nah, I would say she has less respect for u if she fukking other nikkas, and keeping it a secret.

It lacks respect either way but picture this scenario.

*u and ya girl watchin a movie and her phone rings,she picks it up*

Her-hey todd how u doin?.....Yeah I can come over I ain't doin shyt right now.

You-:wtb: where u goin babe?

Her-todd wanna watch a movie at his house.

You-ill wait up for u:smugfavre:

Her-no don't cuz when me and todd have sex! I be :deadrose:(todd probaly a whiteboy :laff:)

You-:wtf:

Her-by babe love u see u later



:wtf: this could be your girl? If u okay with an open relationship that probaly wuz never ya girl in the first place and y'all just had a accident baby or got stuck in a lease:laugh:...ain't no woman in the world willing to share d1ck voluntarily...she might do it bcuz she waitin in line to become the main chick,or bcuz her man asked and she says yes just to make him happy and keep him from leavin....a b1tch voluntarily askin u for an open relationship and actively lookin for other d1ck says u not satisfyin her as a man,your not enuff....she's a whore which if that's the case she shouldn't be your girl in the first place....a woman willing to ask for an open relationship knows her man will either say yes and put his d1ck in other women,or say no and leave,or say no and stay but look at her differently forever....she don't care about the possibility of sharin u bcuz u can't satisfy her sexual needs and there's no threat of any other woman not sending you back home after that wack performance:laugh:...and she don't give a fuk if u get mad at the thought and leave...bcuz again u can't fulfill her sexual needs...I'm not talkin bout u personally but in general that's what I get from a woman who comes to her man offerin that...really I think we just have different definitions of what a "girl" is
 

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i see why some do it, but i wouldn't ever do it. if i have a woman close enough to me, associating with me regularly and i'm having sex with her regularly, i wouldn't want some other guy around trying to have sex with her. i'd rather be single and have sex with her whenever i felt like it and not have to see her regularly or have some sort of expectation required. because when you think about it, being in a "relationship" is about having some standard of expectation. usually that expectation is being sexually committed to the other. being open like that defeats the purpose of being in a relationship to begin with because you allowing other people to establish bonds of a certain level with the one you're suppose to be establishing that level of bonding with. it's like placing yourself in direct and permitted competition with other males while you're suppose to be "building" with the other person. the bonds can be superficial, i know, but still that opens the door for bad things imho...

i don't know, i always just believed when you get in a relationship, that's about finding your match, you're not suppose to keep on switching it up while you're already matched up. that shows commitment issues, and it's a wild attempt to reconcile the inner issue when you could just be single...
 
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