Brehs, when meeting women just be yourself, man. Brehettes please chime in

[root_eruditorium_org]

1) you dont have to dress in expensive clothes, just peep some fashion blogs to get some ideas and pick an outfit that you can pull off, a polo shirt is cool, remember accessories like a nice watch.
if you wearing a button down, 8/10 times you'll want to tuck it in and wear a belt to match your shoes

make sure the cut of your clothes looks good, dont go out in these streets wearing dad jeans or some dusty looking dad sneakers/shoes

for example i'll go and cop a blazer from H&M for less than a hundred, some slacks and a nice button down from uniqo (because they tailor your clothes in their stores, usually for free) and a nice pair of shoes

a decent lookin watch and im good

2) i try to smile, maybe not so much in pictures, but on a date i do

3) this is more for someone you just met, compliment them once, maybe twice, but dont do it every other 5 minutes

drop some links bruh

good post though

I wear button downs but never tuck them in. I've been told it looks sloppy but my reaction has always been

guess i'm gonna have to change my tune

 

[damn_ese]

drop some links bruh

good post though

I wear button downs but never tuck them in. I've been told it looks sloppy but my reaction has always been

guess i'm gonna have to change my tune

on instagram : gentbelike

is a good one to start with

 

[Still Benefited]

Damn,this thread quickly turned from "be yourself" into giving advice on how not to be yourself.

And OP what about the girl you was with,birds of a feather...hope u ain't taking her serious either,she probaly worse than the other one.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

So you didn't fukk your girl but you clowning the other dude

 

[Neuromancer]

 

[DarkHorse23]

U let the woman fukking talk and all u have to do is fukking LISTEN to what she says..

U can tell by the way she talks and move around u if u have a chance.

I see these fast talking drug dealing nikkas or these so called good business men always bragging about what they have or what they going to do and trying to be all hip to what bullshyt they see on tv or hear on radio...

That shyt might work with low life hoodrats... but educated black women even if they are freaks know your bullshyt

But don't most black women find dope boys and/or drug dealers sexy?

 

[AquaCityBoy]

In general, "be yourself" is meaningless advice because we all have multiple versions of ourselves.

 

[Circle p]

So you didn't fukk your girl but you clowning the other dude

He spent the whole night focusing on the other guy instead of his girl..Makes you wonder who he really wanted

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

In general, "be yourself" is meaningless advice because we all have multiple versions of ourselves.

If I'm with a black girl

I got a hide my "adventures" self and automatically release my inner "bad boy" I don't give a fukk self



It's called calibration breh

 

[The ADD]

If I'm with a black girl

I got a hide my "adventures" self and automatically release my inner "bad boy" I don't give a fukk self



It's called calibration breh

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

It's true

If I meet a good girl or virgin like beloved @ChiefQueen I teleport to "good religious" self

 

[ChiefQueen]

It's true

If I meet a good girl or virgin like beloved @ChiefQueen I teleport to "good religious" self

@Serious

 

[Larry Lambo]

In general, "be yourself" is meaningless advice because we all have multiple versions of ourselves.

Yep.

I'm not the same dude around my mom than I am with my homies. And I'm way different at work.

It's not about simply being yourself, it's presenting your best attributes in a natural manner. It's also about having strong social skills and knowing what and how to communicate to certain people in certain situations.

 

[intruder]

Yep.

I'm not the same dude around my mom than I am with my homies. And I'm way different at work.

It's not about simply being yourself, it's presenting your best attributes in a natural manner. It's also about having strong social skills and knowing what and how to communicate to certain people in certain situations.

In general, "be yourself" is meaningless advice because we all have multiple versions of ourselves.

I agree

We're all different depending the circumstances and environment we're in. Some people/environments will bring out different sides of us.

He spent the whole night focusing on the other guy instead of his girl..Makes you wonder who he really wanted

You're the type of clown that cant just appreciate a funny story and always gotta find some sh!t to rag on, huh? I know your type. But it you wanna keep score..

1. I was in bed with my girl while the f@got was texting begging the other girl for another chance asking what he did wrong
2. All night? We were there for almost 3 hours. Remember dude was mad late + We left as soon as dude revealed how lame he was. We were at the table with him for.. maybe 40 minutes. Then We left and left him with homegirl to give them some privacy even tho we knew he had already dropped the ball
3. You know me on this board and already know i typically can back up things i post

Spoiler

Fall back, junior!

 

[The ADD]