Brehs, when meeting women just be yourself, man. Brehettes please chime in

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Hell nah this nikka straight lying

The only thing being yourself will help you avoid is a potential rape charge :mjlol: it helps women weed out the desirables from the undesirables but don't play ya self most dudes have to lie to get p*ssy.
 

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let the woman fukking talk and all u have to do is fukking LISTEN to what she says..

exactly.

problem most guys have is they don't know how to have some fukking mystery about themselves.

women want to be intrigued, not impressed.

the strong, silent type is an archetype for a reason. the less you say, and the more comfortable you are in the silence, you'll find that women will start sensing strength in you and will start chasing you, not the other way around.
 
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exactly.

problem most guys have is they don't know how to have some fukking mystery about themselves.

women want to be intrigued, not impressed.

the strong, silent type is an archetype for a reason. the less you say, and the more comfortable you are in the silence, you'll find that women will start sensing strength in you and will start chasing you, not the other way around.
One of the smartest shyt ever posted on this sub forum.
 

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One of the smartest shyt ever posted on this sub forum.
:cheers:

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Hell nah this nikka straight lying

The only thing being yourself will help you avoid is a potential rape charge :mjlol: it helps women weed out the desirables from the undesirables but don't play ya self most dudes have to lie to get p*ssy.


It is 2016,...
You don't have to lie to fukk these females.
Shut the fukk up to fukk.
Tell the truth to keep, hitting it.

Art Barr
 

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Shut the fukk up to fukk.
MOre and more women keep saying this. :russ:

My boy's wife (white couple) says this all the time. SHe was like "we're usually good and ready to put it on you... until you fukkers open your mouth and say something stupid that ruins the moment".
I died laughing when she said that while staring at her husband at the same time. :laff:
 

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You not supposed to say much, but if you're out with a chick you gotta keep her talking or you're gonna come off a little weird. The key is to bring up s**t that they like to talk about, and then let her do most of the speaking.

Dating chicks that actually like you helps with that as well.
 

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"Be yourself" is pretty bad advice for guys who have struggled with women. You want to be the best version of yourself (I'm going just off the title, not the actual first post).

If you're a naturally social and confident guy with okay looks but you're just going through a drought, then yeah being yourself will eventually land you a new chick.

But if you're extra quiet or socially awkward or broke or not that great to look at, then you need to put some work in and become a better version of yourself.

A lot of guys who are naturally social and/or successful with women think "being yourself" is all that matters because that's what has worked for them.
 

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It's also about balance. If you're a talkative dude then yeah you need to shut up more. But if you're a quiet guy then you will need to talk more, at least in the beginning to establish some type of rapport. Then you can fall back into the quiet/mysterious lane.
 

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Have you ever seen a breh just straight talk himself out of some p*ssy? Now i understand why some women keep stressing dudes to be themselves. I didnt know cats can be so lame on a date when they first meet a chick

So me and these two chicks i know were supposed to out friday night. Me and the first chick (G) get there and we're in the corner chilling having a few drinks feeling each other up. We''re cool but we flirt around a lot. The other one (W) send us a text saying "yeah im running late. Is it okay if i bring this dude i just met on Tinder along?" We're like "sure why not?"

Mind you... this chick (W) is a straight freaks and is very open about it.

Anyway she shows up and 10 minutes later homie gets there. He sits down and introduces himself and less than a minute into it they page him to come move his car (he was blocking someone). So homie leaves for a few minutes and the chick (W and G) are like
W - He's cute! Definitely fukking him. Could be tonight :biggrin:
G - haha
Me - SMH
Again, brehs. W is freak. I cant say this enough. Shes the type on a first date within the first 30 minutes she'll ask you your d!ck size because she wants to know if she should bother continue talking to you.

So dude comes back and we're talking. Homie starts going offtopic talking trying to impress the women talking about how he speaks 4 languages and his degree and so on. Little does he know these are highly educated women and i myself am a native french and creole speaker. Dude would just randomly starts saying sh!t in spanish then switches to french. AGain... trying too hard. And with every sentence i could see homegirl getting more and more annoyed and starting to make faces at the other chick. (we were seated at a long table with 2 people on each side)

Im sitting there wishing i could signal homie to chill before he talks himself out of some but my man couldnt stop himself and i know them chicks are ruthless and are laughing at him so hard deep down.

Needless to say she didnt fukk him. She said she grabbed him under the table just to satisfy her curiosity (while we were still there the convo had turned sexual) but he had already gotten on her nerves so she went home afterwards and sent him a text saying she wasnt feeling it and good luck. Homie started blowing up her phone trying to ask what he did wrong.

Does W have an IG breh? I'm trying to get my dikk sucked this weekend :lupe:
 
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