That shyt aint gone last .. and you already planted the divorce seed.
Everytime she get mad at nikka she gone be thinking what if...
Brehs: When she marries somebody else even though you and she know you should be together
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Everytime she get mad at nikka she gone be thinking what if...
Neo. The Only. The One.
THE ONE
I know that now.
I really just never told her this before because she had already rejected me before... and I felt like, why put myself in the same situation to get rejected twice?
But now I see that when I put it to her as an ultimatum kinda thing, in the sense of, she and I couldn't be friends anymore because I was feeling guilty about it...
She felt that was an ultimatum and at that point, she was ready to be with me.
I just didn't know.
Just be there and be ready. You can still have a friendship but know when to go in for a kill.
london
I CATFISH'D YO MOMMA
She told me that if I had told her everything I said today a year ago... she would have been with me.
But now she's married.
She's not going to walk away from her marriage, and I would never even ask her too.
I'm just.... trying to deal with this...
Breh, as hard as it may be, you gotta cut all ties with her
Perhaps go on a vacation to "find yourself", meet some cool people and taste the local cuisine/women
You might find someone even better, which may lead to a whole new life
And when you return home, ask yourself how you feel and what do you really want in life
not if you're both in relationships...i personally dont think its fair to the other two first and foremost, and secondly even yourselves. I firmly believe that opposite sexed heteros cannot be best friends (there's always some sort of physical/emotional attraction), and she especially cannot be referring to you as a best friend while she's committed to a man that should be her everything (lover, confidant, best friend, partner)
You've already cheated (emotionally/physically, i assume) on your partners. There will always be some residual feelings between you two. Do the partners know of you two?
PhonZhi
Veteran
you sounding like a little kid right now and not a 28 year old
DrunkenNovice
Superstar
Can't love the one you want......you know the rest 
This is news to you?
carry on
Book of or reincar pg 64 para. 7
"Women will tell you what you want to hear"
If she wanted to be with you she Would.
Women go off emotions, if her emotions for you were that strong she would have never married dude and be in your arms right now.
All she's doing is doing what women do when they dump you and give you who knows what the future holds we have a lot of history also known as hope.
Put your trust in a woman's words brehs
Actions >>> words
"Women will tell you what you want to hear"
If she wanted to be with you she Would.
Women go off emotions, if her emotions for you were that strong she would have never married dude and be in your arms right now.
All she's doing is doing what women do when they dump you and give you who knows what the future holds we have a lot of history also known as hope.
Put your trust in a woman's words brehs
Actions >>> words
She told me that if I had told her everything I said today a year ago... she would have been with me.
But now she's married.
She's not going to walk away from her marriage, and I would never even ask her too.
I'm just.... trying to deal with this...
She's lying breh, she doesn't love you NEARLY as much as you think
I'm sorry brehI didn't know!
She never actually came out and told me outright that she wanted to leave her relationship to be with me....
What happened was this:
A yr ago I was feeling guilt regarding the fact that Im in a relationship but was deeply in love with her...
So I told her then, out of guilt, that we should stop talking, because I'm feeling her when I'm supposed to be in a relationship with someone else, and that wasn't fair to the woman I'm with.
She was extremely sad... cried and everything. She told me that hurt her like nothing hurt her before
And I guess, in that moment where she felt that she had to choose, and it was either going to be me or be him, she was ready to choose me.
But she never actually told me that. I didn't know that she was ready to leave and be with me.
If I had known that, we would be together right now, and it would have been our wedding.
And she didn't come flat out and tell me because she thought I was rejecting her, when I really wasn't... I wanted to be with her and..... smh....
She just told me all this today; and now I'm sitting here like
