Brehs: When she marries somebody else even though you and she know you should be together

[B86]

I'm in this situation right now....

This stuff is cutting deep. I've been trying to play it off like it's not affecting me, but it's all a lie...

I feel terrible today.

She and I both admitted today that we're in love with each other, but she was in her relationship and I'm in a relationship too...

And she just got married.


I'm over here playing it off with this face


when I really feel like this




I'm in pain, brehs.

I feel ya pain breh. Me and this girl were friends since we were 8. I've always done her dirty because she wasn't the prettiest and I just never was feeling her like that. She was always in love with me though. I took her virginity, made her believe we were in a long distance relationship once I moved out of state, but meanwhile I was knocking bytches up and all kinda dumb shyt.

We ended up back in the same state a few years ago and somehow I straight up fell in love with her...I think as I got older I realized that she's everything I want in a woman. My only issue was she still ain't the prettiest and for some reason I always end up with a pretty, but ratchet bytch. Well after 15 years she finally learned how to completely let me go and now we are both married to different ppl. She won't even speak to a nikka no more.

That shyt hurts breh

 

[Diondon]

I feel ya pain breh. Me and this girl were friends since we were 8. I've always done her dirty because she wasn't the prettiest and I just never was feeling her like that. She was always in love with me though. I took her virginity, made her believe we were in a long distance relationship once I moved out of state, but meanwhile I was knocking bytches up and all kinda dumb shyt.

We ended up back in the same state a few years ago and somehow I straight up fell in love with her...I think as I got older I realized that she's everything I want in a woman. My only issue was she still ain't the prettiest and for some reason I always end up with a pretty, but ratchet bytch. Well after 15 years she finally learned how to completely let me go and now we are both married to different ppl. She won't even speak to a nikka no more.

That shyt hurts breh

Your fault breh, leave the poor woman in peace.

 

[MikelArteta]

I feel ya pain breh. Me and this girl were friends since we were 8. I've always done her dirty because she wasn't the prettiest and I just never was feeling her like that. She was always in love with me though. I took her virginity, made her believe we were in a long distance relationship once I moved out of state, but meanwhile I was knocking bytches up and all kinda dumb shyt.

We ended up back in the same state a few years ago and somehow I straight up fell in love with her...I think as I got older I realized that she's everything I want in a woman. My only issue was she still ain't the prettiest and for some reason I always end up with a pretty, but ratchet bytch. Well after 15 years she finally learned how to completely let me go and now we are both married to different ppl. She won't even speak to a nikka no more.

That shyt hurts breh

the great white buffalo

posted this last year

the great white buffalo yep

"and you dont know what you got till its gone"

man i remember i was like 19 and deathly sick one day and this chick took the bus over an hour to come and make me tea and soup. The sweetest girl I ever met knew her for like 10 years,was religious was waiting for marriage like i was at the time, wasn't a knockout but was very naturally pretty, but i was a demonic individual back then brehs I knew she liked me alot, but I,wasn't schooled in the game and all i cared about was looks and having the prettiest girl on my arm so i dumped her but she still was ok with being friends that sweet ol heart, however i remember it was just like yesterday breh the girl i just started dating told me at the time it was her or my great white buffalo and i chose her, so i stopped talking to the sweetest girl i ever met

Years later I stalked her fb and shes married now working in south america as a missionary with her husband and kids, while i'm single, living at home posting on message boards

I even messaged her a few years back and she was ah still so nice and told me to keep in touch but i never did

 

[B86]

Your fault breh, leave the poor woman in peace.

You right. I'm happy with my wife so it ain't like I'm trying to contact ol girl. But you gotta understand we were like best friends for damn near all our lives. Being a dog ass nikka just caught up to me in the end.

 

[B86]

the great white buffalo

posted this last year

Damn, I don't know about that stalker shyt but dude got it way worse than me

 

[ThaBronxBully]

Book of or reincar pg 64 para. 7

"Women will tell you what you want to hear"

If she wanted to be with you she Would.


Women go off emotions, if her emotions for you were that strong she would have never married dude and be in your arms right now.

All she's doing is doing what women do when they dump you and give you who knows what the future holds we have a lot of history also known as hope.

Put your trust in a woman's words brehs

Actions >>> words

Pretty Much The Sad Truth lol

 

[CHILLL]

wait hol up so you 28 and shes 22
yall had 5 years apart
which made her 17 when you were 23?
what the hell happened in 5 years?

 

[dap-man]

so you're both cheaters and have already been unfair to the "other" loves of your life....I'm assuming the significant others have no idea of what you two have been doing/saying

either cut each other off or break off your current relationships and be together

On the real it's pretty fukked up to use someone as a option.
That's what the Wife is doing to her now Husband, and that#s what the thread starter is doing to his chick right now. Cheaters are lame as fukk. *Dap to your post.*

 

[☑︎#VoteDemocrat]

 

[threattonature]

this confuses me...she's in a 5 year relationship, gets married, but claims to love you (ready to walk away after 4 years), so what happened last year? Were you hitting it while she was with her husband?

It's fukked up but I've seen when stay in relationships just for the comfort or just cause they've put in the time even though they have stronger feelings for someone else. Especially if kids are a part of the equation. It's selfish as fukk but some do it or they'll just cheat and carry on an affair with the side dude they really have the feelings for while marrying the safer alternative.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

wait hol up so you 28 and shes 22
yall had 5 years apart
which made her 17 when you were 23?
what the hell happened in 5 years?

I'm not understanding your question

 

[CHILLL]

its true think about all the dudes who girls just ended up with cause she didnt have suitable options (which are a lot) hes not her first choice, never been but she just ended up with him because..after 5 years or so she gonna develop feelings for dude, or just out of habit stays with him so they will get married
but the spark will never be there

It's fukked up but I've seen when stay in relationships just for the comfort or just cause they've put in the time even though they have stronger feelings for someone else. Especially if kids are a part of the equation. It's selfish as fukk but some do it or they'll just cheat and carry on an affair with the side dude they really have the feelings for while marrying the safer alternative.

 

[CHILLL]

I'm not understanding your question

so yall broke up 5 years ago? what happened during that time

 

[UserNameless]

It's a sizable percentage of females who marry someone whom their heart isn't completely with, but they play the role well. Meanwhile, they'll always have a spot for that ONE. But you're not the one she made those vows to, so you gotta fall back. That was then, this is NOW. You think most women are just gonna play watergirl and wait 'til the coach they want brings them on the team?! Hell nah... After years of being watergirl, whatever coach comes calling who seems to have a decent gameplan and a halfway compatible offense for her to administer, she's gonna accept that invite to the be the point guard on the team. Can't knock her. Society's pressures can be overwhelming to single water girl.

to those who didn't succumb, tho... and even to those who did. Make the best of your starting role, boo. Even if you do secretly wish you had a different coach.

 

[CHILLL]

It's a sizable percentage of females who marry someone whom their heart isn't completely with, but they play the role well. Meanwhile, they'll always have a spot for that ONE. But you're not the one she made those vows to, so you gotta fall back. That was then, this is NOW. You think most women are just gonna play watergirl and wait 'til the coach they want brings them on the team?! Hell nah... After years of being watergirl, whatever coach comes calling who seems to have a decent gameplan and a halfway compatible offense for her to administer, she's gonna accept that invite to the be the point guard on the team. Can't knock her. Society's pressures can be overwhelming to single water girl.

to those who didn't succumb, tho... and even to those who did. Make the best of your starting role, boo. Even if you do secretly wish you had a different coach.

very true bruh and u gotta remember when guys are courtin bytches they do so with money and offering security , so even though people say women are emotional and shyt these bytches make logical ass decisions after they give up on waitin for mister right, bytches would play wifey to a nikka that offers security and string on other guys. Women outnumber men plehboi theres alot of ugly nikkas in the universe that got hot girls that dont love em.
I aint on no bash women shyt but theres a hugee amount of women that throw in the towel and date the safest option.
I know alot of loyal women n shyt so i cant even front. But this shyt is real.